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 biketrvlr

Joined: 11/18/2006
Msg: 201
On swallowing
Posted: 12/31/2007 10:42:32 AM
maybe we should let cunninglinguist and [[marc]] start a thread for long boring posts which really don't say all that much, and let them duke it out there. spelling mistakes and all...

ot- while i find it very sexy if she does swallow, if my so isn't comfortable with it, i'm not going to make a big deal about it. such is life, i'm sure we'll be able to find someway of dealing with it... hair mousse perhaps?

edit- thanks for the laugh dday
 oresme

Joined: 12/6/2007
Msg: 202
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Posted: 1/1/2008 3:09:38 PM
some guys deff. taste better then others but as mentioned before that can be influenced with diet

as for enjoying swallowing more when you have feelings for that guy ... i always enjoy it but then i wouldn't give a bj if i didn't feel anything for a guy and if its only a serve bout of hornyness!
 zangie

Joined: 5/30/2007
Msg: 203
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Posted: 1/1/2008 5:35:54 PM
It's not the taste that bothers me, it's the texture...

OTOH: Most women, I would think, would do some things they didn't especially care for themselves, for a man they did care for, if it was important to him.
 jkcorvette

Joined: 5/13/2007
Msg: 204
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Posted: 1/2/2008 10:49:04 AM
hi,, you are a very pretty lady ,, a guy loves that****in her mouth... just befor he cums,, she deep throuts it, if you take out just before i com,, i can cum about 3 seprete times more.. i love doing her alotttttt . im not being disrespectful .. im just being honest.. please drop me a line my e mail is corvette@indytel.com. jack from indee, iowa
 chavalita

Joined: 11/9/2006
Msg: 205
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Posted: 1/13/2008 7:52:17 PM
Ah yes, the age old question: to swallow or spit..........just don`t squirt it in my eye....
 sandra19

Joined: 9/30/2007
Msg: 206
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Posted: 1/13/2008 8:31:10 PM
i could Never do that if i had no feelings ...only the thought of it is gross...But when i did have feelings for my partener i liked it ;)... when u like the guy enough to give him head and even think of swallowing ..trust me ..the taste will be just fine ..and even if it tastes like crap ..for you it will taste like honey ..coz its His ;)
my oppinion anyway lol :)
 cocytus

Joined: 11/9/2007
Msg: 207
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Posted: 1/13/2008 8:44:03 PM
She doesn't have to swallow...
Just don't spit it on me....


 dontmakecookies

Joined: 11/1/2006
Msg: 208
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Posted: 1/14/2008 8:49:15 AM
i could Never do that if i had no feelings ...only the thought of it is gross...But when i did have feelings for my partener i liked it ;)... when u like the guy enough to give him head and even think of swallowing ..trust me ..the taste will be just fine ..and even if it tastes like crap ..for you it will taste like honey ..coz its His ;)


I have to wonder sometimes though... if a woman genuinely likes doing this primarily because they like you then they likely are into a number of things sexually primarily because they like you. They're both good things, but they lead to different conclusions as the relationship progresses. If there's no desire to do them at the source that is focused on you, rather a focus on you that generates the desire. Then, should some conflict or difficulty occur, these will fall off rapidly within the relationship and be very hard to jump start again. Likely they have fed upon themselves for sometime where the desire to do them and doing them interacted. It's very hard to restart that cycle. Whereas, if they come from a more fundamental desire that is subsequently focused on you then all that's needed is a reminder when things go south. :)
 tinamj

Joined: 12/10/2007
Msg: 209
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Posted: 1/14/2008 11:17:03 AM
When a lady is with a guy that she is really into, and he into her... the best compliment that she can give him is when she is going down on him is to swallow...
After all.. when he is returning the favor, is he going to pull away just before she cums? i don't think so....

As i have said before.. " my momma taught me.. good girls don't spit "
 ladysailingbuff

Joined: 2/4/2006
Msg: 210
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Posted: 1/14/2008 3:49:09 PM
My mom taught me that if you make a mess, you need to clean it up. I really don't think she was talking about the bedroom when she was talking about that because she's a dyed-in-the-wool Catholic, but that's neither here nor there... So I just don't leave a mess when I engage in activities that could be messy :) Solves the problem nicely. I've never had a complaint about that particular choice, either.

And this part is totally not for the forum posters, but more because this ends up on my profile...
It's also not something I do with just anyone, so anyone thinking about flooding my inbox off this post when it goes onto my profile can just go take care of things yourself instead of emailing me.
 aggiebq86

Joined: 4/3/2007
Msg: 211
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Posted: 1/14/2008 7:41:17 PM
The link that has been identified between HPV and cervical cancer that exist is also believed to also exist with throat cancer. If your partner is free of the HPV virus, then there should not be a concern about throat cancer. You should also be concerned about other STDs as well. But isn't that always the case?
 NewHorizon1972

Joined: 11/27/2007
Msg: 212
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Posted: 1/14/2008 8:45:56 PM
Alcohol for me

Pineapple for him

Good to go...!!!!

 garnet73

Joined: 1/2/2008
Msg: 213
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Posted: 1/14/2008 8:51:05 PM
Well, it does feel better if a girl I'm with goes all the way. It's not just a psychological thing where swallowing is accepting you. I was with a girl who "was revolted by cum" and we made do; she sucked me off and I came in her mouth -and then I rolled off the flavoured condom and kissed her. I think it just has to do with not having to control your orgasm when you're getting close.

If oral is what's on the menu, I always like to find out before the dining experience what my partner wants to do at the end of the meal. It does seem more and more women are comfortable with swallowing (nice!). Maybe that's because good hygiene, good diet and showing proper appreciation is becoming more common. When it comes to appreciation, that means kissing her after she's finished "kissing" you. I'm not looking to get snowballed, mind you, I just want to say thanks.

On an slightly related topic... one woman said she doesn't like to swallow so she finishes her man off my rubbing him against her face, and another lady did say that she liked the feel of receiving one. So, I'm wondering... given the choice which would you prefer? Down the hatch or across the hood?
 Supreme_Pizza

Joined: 4/15/2007
Msg: 214
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Posted: 1/14/2008 9:04:21 PM
I don't mind either way as long as she doesn't stop. Biggest turn on is when she's enjoying herself and doesn't have any hangups. Messy is good and so is a back throat hoover. I think messy is more fun though especially along the lines of Katzsprr's comments. If you don't kiss her after you don't deserve one to begin with.
 tybalt7

Joined: 4/12/2007
Msg: 215
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Posted: 1/20/2008 6:11:35 PM
My feeling has always been that if I am really attracted to a girl I want to devour every inch of her from tip of the nose to the tip of her toes and I don't find any aspect of her "gross" or unappealing. And ideally the woman I'm with feels the same way about me (everyone I've dated has).

I've never made a big deal about women swallowing, it doesn't matter much in terms of how the orgasm feels for me as long as she keeps doing something until I finish...if she wants to switch to her hand, fine by me. The only issue I suppose is some feeling of her rejecting that aspect of you right at the "moment of truth." I think really passionate women, great lovers wouldn't even be worrying about backing off when they are in the throes of passion. Anyway if you don't like swallowing we can work around that...there's always a nice warm facial instead ;)
 mstreasure

Joined: 8/29/2007
Msg: 216
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Posted: 1/20/2008 7:02:58 PM
I totally agree with you. We are all adults here. Wouldn't you still expect a girl to kiss you after you go down on her? It your own "stuff" if you knwo its not std infested or anything..why is it gross??
 hey67

Joined: 11/26/2006
Msg: 217
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Posted: 1/21/2008 8:20:05 AM
Its like this, some women smell and taste better than others just like a guy cum. I have had both and I will not swallow or even lick some one if they do not taste good. I get off on tasting women as well men and it should be hott.
 rjpeagles

Joined: 11/30/2005
Msg: 218
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Posted: 1/21/2008 6:12:16 PM

I totally agree with you. We are all adults here. Wouldn't you still expect a girl to kiss you after you go down on her? It your own "stuff" if you knwo its not std infested or anything..why is it gross??


mstreasure, you'd never have a problem getting me to kiss you.
 LoveAVSHockey

Joined: 7/13/2007
Msg: 219
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Posted: 1/21/2008 7:15:29 PM
It isn't the actual act of swallowing that can cause "throat cancer" it is the same virus that can cause cervical cancer. The HPV virus can also be transmitted orally and cause mouth and throat cancer. Sooo, the options are to use a condom or be really careful who you give head to. Or if you are under a certain age get the vaccine!
 prittyful

Joined: 1/16/2008
Msg: 220
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Posted: 1/28/2008 5:50:23 PM
Ive actually hear pineapple juice makes it taste yummy. So sent my boyfriend flowers with a tin of pineapple juice and pineapples in it!! But seriously if your getting off on the pleasure your giving then you dont even think of the taste, its all part of the experience.
 nicegirl4love

Joined: 10/26/2007
Msg: 221
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Posted: 1/28/2008 6:44:18 PM
I read in Cosmo that pineapple juice makes it yummy LOL

One thing I've never understood -- why do dudes like it? I mean, the girl has already completed the job, the happy ending has been had, so what difference does it make what happens to it? What's the thrill at that point - hasn't the thrill been had? LOL

i have a lot to learn!

 Anazdaddy

Joined: 7/12/2007
Msg: 222
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Posted: 1/28/2008 7:05:29 PM
Well I am a guy and I am sure I have repeated this in other threads and in other conversations..I don't really care if you swallow or spit it! Once it has been ejaculated, why does it matter if she swallows it or spits it out? One of the best lovers I ever had at that always spit it out then immediately let me go down on her. I don't care what happens to my semen, to be honest. And as a lover of pineapple juice..I don't think it really can affect the taste either way..
 kisstheviolets80

Joined: 12/15/2007
Msg: 223
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Posted: 1/28/2008 10:22:53 PM
I usually wont swallow if I don't have feelings for the individual. When I do have feelings all I wanna do is taste them..yum yum yummmmm
 _dar_

Joined: 1/14/2008
Msg: 224
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Posted: 1/28/2008 10:55:35 PM

its hard for a girl to be any good when they cant fit half of it in their mouth


LOL!!!! but i totally agree. there are ways around it though, but even then, i still dont think it'll be the greatest.

personaly, if i can avoid it, i will, if it just so happens to go in my mouth...no harm done in swallowing end of story. and ive kissed guys who've gone down on me and i them.. i mean if youre doing it to eachother... whats the difference? besides youre too much in the moment to care.
 carrie53

Joined: 1/20/2008
Msg: 225
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Posted: 1/29/2008 2:58:45 AM
yes attraction makes swallowing more enjoyable,,even if it with a guy ive just met,,if im turned on and lusting after him..i usually swallow..for me giving pleasure is a turn on
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