| Multi-Orgasmic women and Faking it
Posted: 3/31/2008 12:14:56 PM | For the guys FOR their women - here's a good way to be able to get them there and keep them there until they're beggin for mercy.
http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=70892
and believe me they can NOT fake these orgasms. | |
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| Multi-Orgasmic women and Faking it
Posted: 3/31/2008 2:00:25 PM | | Um yeah..thanks Dave.....now I'm sitting at work reading that forum. Must go home...must try it.....must call boyfriend. Lmao! | |
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| Multi-Orgasmic women and Faking it
Posted: 3/31/2008 4:19:43 PM | | I am a multiple and it has absolutely nothing to do with happiness. It's how you are physiologically wired. Some women orgasm only once no matter how happy they are. It's biological. I'm the same as your girlfriend and it's that way even if I'm alone! We are just lucky. | |
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| Multi-Orgasmic women and Faking it
Posted: 3/31/2008 4:27:26 PM | | I must add, I NEVER fake. The man won't learn if you fake it. I understand that sometimes you just want it to stop already, but faking doesn't solve the problem. | |
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| Multi-Orgasmic women and Faking it
Posted: 6/11/2008 10:52:53 AM | I've never run into this before my current girlfriend. All the women I've been with previously were more or less one shot deals, especially with oral. After an orgasm from oral they were too sensitive to touch. My current girlfriend is way different and we sort of learned about it by chance. She was married for 20 years and rarely had orgasms. When we first started dating, she had a very hard time reaching orgasm. She loved oral but just wouldn't orgasm. She did orgasm from intercourse. With time and lots of foreplay she started to get really wet. We really spent a lot of time on foreplay and we discovered her g-spot. That made her start gushing which initially freaked her out but she started having orgasms from oral as well as intercourse. Then we started reading about female ejaculation to make her relax and realize she was very lucky. Once she realized that I thought squirting was hot she just relaxed and she started having multiples. Now she can't get enough. I tease her that she is trying to make up for her 20 year dry spell. Sometimes I'll get home and kiss her and she'll start responding. We'll move to the bedroom and she'll have several orgasms from intercourse. I'll take my time and maybe I can have two orgasms, maybe even a third, but that's it for me. She's just getting started so I'll give her oral for a while and she'll have several more, squirting with most of them
Finally, we'll fall asleep and sometime in the middle of the night I'll wake up and realize that she is spooning behind me rubbing her clit on my tailbone so I'll roll over and givce her oral some more and she'll have 4 or 5 more. Then we'll fall asleep for the night. It's the greatest but we do have to change the sheets several times a week. | |
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| Multi-Orgasmic women and Faking it
Posted: 6/11/2008 1:10:34 PM | Well, I am not sure about the stats but multi-orgasmic women - probably somewhere around 5% of the female adult population. That is just a random number that I remember reading in men's health many years ago.
Well, it seems like the sexual chemestry in your relationship is going very well. MOst guys will envy you. Just keep taking care of the good thing you have. | |
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| Multi-Orgasmic women and Faking it
Posted: 8/29/2009 7:42:33 PM | Women that Fake an *O* are more often than not looking to end the 'love-making' and get to sleep...
If she has a Multi- capability...She probably Likes _Every One_ !!!
~ Why fake what you Enjoy...??!! ~
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| Multi-Orgasmic women and Faking it
Posted: 8/29/2009 7:55:38 PM | If she has a Multi- capability...She probably Likes _Every One_ !!!
Wow!! That is .... I do not even know how to respond to that statement.
OP - It is not at all uncommon, and is actually more common as females become more comfortable with their bodies. | |
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| Multi-Orgasmic women and Faking it
Posted: 8/29/2009 10:10:10 PM | I am sort of like that..not every 2 minutes though lol..lucky girl =) 3 or 4 is about average..I am just guessing here, but I'd guess if she was faking it, she hasn't really had one or can't without masturbation (or it's not easy anyway)...and I'd put my money that she'd only do it once..maybe twice max, idk though. I mean Meg Ryan does make it look easy..but it's really not (faking it). My thoughts on faking it? Rather like cutting your nose to spite your face.
oh yeah...and not to burst your bubble..but if you're multiple it's more about being in touch with your own sexualit..but partner does factor in as well. I won't go into details =) | |
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| Multi-Orgasmic women and Faking it
Posted: 8/29/2009 10:38:11 PM | why is faking a bad thing ????? I dont understand ....Im a guy ...and I have faked it .... Why??? cause I care for my partner and know if she thought I did not cum she would be hurt ...long long ago I learned to control my orgasm ...I learned to stop it and let the woman get to the brink or over the edge first .. this has its rewards .. when a guy learns to do this especially with a new lover ...he will gain the reputation of being a great lover ... dont think for a moment she dont tell her friends whether you are good or bad
however sometimes when you have stopped your orgasm long enough it just wont come back ... well I dont care how much you make a woman cum if she cant finish you off her feelings are hurt .... telling her that its not her fault and it just wont happen this time ..and your satisfied even thought you didnt cum wont work ... and when she gets over her hurt she will blame it on you and there went your reputation of being a good lover ...heck you will probably even be labeled gay ... nope I learned to fake it ...if the sex was good and she orgasm-ed and was wet ..and you are good enough an actor ..every one will be happy and most likely your ego will be boosted so much that next round you will not need to fake anything ...faking with someone you care about for selfless reasons is a victim less crime ...be it done by a man or a woman ...JMO
I dont believe any woman ever knew when I was faking it | |
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| Multi-Orgasmic women and Faking it
Posted: 8/29/2009 11:30:06 PM | Faking is awful. I would rather be stabbed in the leg with rusty nail then fake it. If you care for your lover you will tell them its not working for you or that you can't cum again. Lies beget lies, and a relationship based on lies will stew in it. Ego boosting is bollox. If you are happy with each other you should be able to communicate truthfully, especially when the truth isn't easy.
But I digress... I've been lucky enough to find more multi orgasmic girls than not, and yes you can tell when they cum. Although I've found a couple (in their mid twenties) who have never cum, ever. (Was able to break one but not the other sadly) . I've yet to sleep with a woman who I suspected of faking it; you may say naive, however if you take your time to form a honest relationship which you improve through honesty, there will be no reason to. (also helps if you **** like their brains out) | |
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| Multi-Orgasmic women and Faking it
Posted: 8/29/2009 11:41:15 PM | The ladies who can orgasm over and over again during intercourse ARE rare. However a good technique, a good rhythm - ALL major factors. Probably the biggest factor for a woman being able to do that is MENTAL - trust/love and an ability top completely let herself go. Physiology works too but is often THE biggest hindrance too. Most women just aren't built to be able to do this. Partners who know what they're doing can bring their lover to 30 - 50 sometimes 100 orgasms in an evening. Some don't believe this or think these are little "Oh that was nice" orgasms. Wrong! These are bone crunchers. THE best!
Actual orgasms are VERY hard to fake. There are spasmodic muscle contractions that cum way to fast to fake by kegel clenching, heart beat typically climbs to 130 to 180 or higher (fake THAT), tongues get cold (weird I know but check it out), near seizure leg movements and a mental disconnect are the main ones. There are a few other factors that are pretty dam hard to drama-queen it. The Oh GOD's are usually consistent with FAKE! Squirting or female ejaculation does NOT necessarily mean she has orgasmed. That can happen with or without an O.
Hardly. Learn a couple of simple techniques and you can likely give her one MASSIVE O every 30 SECONDS to a minute until she needs a break.
every two minutes????.... as rare as winning the lottery
IMHO THIS is one of the best ways of doing that.
http://forum.literotica.com:81/showthread.php?t=70892
THAT just proves many men AND women (too) don't know how to get there.
multi-orgasmic women - probably somewhere around 5% of the female adult population. That is just a random number that I remember reading in men's health many years ago.
Because it is sexual and emotional FRAUD. Why would anybody improve their technique so they are truly satisfying you when you're lying about them being able to do that in the first place?
why is faking a bad thing ??? | |
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| Multi-Orgasmic women and Faking it
Posted: 8/30/2009 12:02:27 AM | Lies beget lies, and a relationship based on lies will stew in it. Ego boosting is bollox. If you are happy with each other you should be able to communicate truthfully, especially when the truth isn't easy.
Because it is sexual and emotional FRAUD. Why would anybody improve their technique so they are truly satisfying you when you're lying about them being able to do that in the first place?
there are lies and there are lies
if your lover has been sick ..and ask you how she looks ...you tell her she is beautiful ..but she really looks like crap ...is this fraud ???? ..I think not
your on a plane with your lover ..and there are a bunch of Middle Eastern looking hijackers in the****pit ...she is panicking ...you tell her every thing is going to be ok ...you really think ...we are going to die ...is this fraud ???
you tell your lover she is the best you have ever had ...and that is true except for that little tart you met in Vegas when you were 20 ...who just happens to cross your mind on occasion ...the one you never even knew her name ... well maybe that one is a tad bit fraudulent.. but still best left in Vegas
take my word for it ..when a woman or man is convulsing from their own orgasm ... they wont notice if you fake one ... they are not taking notes as to the particular attributes of your orgasm
trying to describe how to tell if men or women have had an orgasm ...is just fooling your self .... I have had many women and most have had an orgasm ..and most were different...the range was from a complete seizure to just a little whimper followed by a period of unconsciousness ...to the few women who were different every time ...the biggest folly I see are the guys who think they are experts on female sexuality | |
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| Multi-Orgasmic women and Faking it
Posted: 8/30/2009 12:11:39 AM | | OP it's totally possible and more common than you think....I doubt she's faking it...If a guy knows what he's doing , he can tell if it's fake or not. A real orgasm feels completely different and it's not something you can fake. | |
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| Multi-Orgasmic women and Faking it
Posted: 8/30/2009 12:17:22 AM |
OP it's totally possible and more common than you think....I doubt she's faking it...If a guy knows what he's doing , he can tell if it's fake or not. A real orgasm feels completely different and it's not something you can fake.
and you crystal ...know what a woman having an orgasm feels like to a guy ????
may I ask how you know this ...being as you is a woman ...and I suppose you have always been a woman ???? just asking | |
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| Multi-Orgasmic women and Faking it
Posted: 8/30/2009 12:27:39 AM | | deerdog1.....I'm basing it on physiology and anatomy , of which I've taken many college courses on...No I am not a man, nor have I ever been..lol....but there are certain muscles in the female anatomy that one cannot fake...and those muscles contract during an orgasm...it's not something you can MAKE happen ...if a guy knows what to look for, he'll know. | |
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| Multi-Orgasmic women and Faking it
Posted: 8/30/2009 12:54:17 AM |
.if a guy knows what to look for, he'll know.
who's looking ???
Again crystal ..and I was just having fun with you ... but I contend that not every woman is the same in their psychical responses during orgasm ..and during good sex most guys are not analyzing those responses..especially if they re concentrating on their own orgasm .. yes you probably could tell if a woman in a ct scanner was having an orgasm or faking one ...but in a bed not all mussel contractions are transmitted as vividly to the male who is having his own orgasm ... I know that the women with who and when I have faked thought that my fake orgasms were the most powerful ones they had experienced from me ... and even though I have faked the orgasm I have never had to fake an increased heart rate .while inside a woman ..my heart is pounding from fore play till I begin to snore ....the rest is easy ..Its much easier to be a good faker if you fake while they are having an orgasm ... key is if she is on her second round and I havnt had my first ..its time to fake ...and make everyone happy
a few years ago I had a spell which really stressed me ..there was a time of about two months when I could not climax ... i dont know if it was psychical or psychological... but I didnt let it stress my lover ...I faked ... it cured its self right before I was going to see a doctor .. but never even during that time has there been a time when I could not stay erect ..and during that time I had some of the most satisfying sex of my life ...even though I didnt cum...but she never knew | |
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| Multi-Orgasmic women and Faking it
Posted: 8/30/2009 1:11:55 AM | | deerdog....I dont take these forums very seriously....people have a right to express their opinions and to each his own. Personally, I would never fake it because it wouldn't feel right....I know sometimes when you're mind is not into it, or you've had a stressful day , it's just not gonna happen no matter how hard you try...after all your biggest sex organ is the brain.....if it makes someone feel better to fake it in order to make his or her partner feel good, it's their call.....I would personally just tell my partner it has nothing to do with him .....I've had times when I could go for a long time , and then others when it's just not happening due to other things on my mind, but I just wouldn't be comfortable putting on an Academy Award peformance...that's just me....like I said...to each his own (-: | |
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| Multi-Orgasmic women and Faking it
Posted: 8/30/2009 1:32:39 AM | yes crystal I do know what you mean and It has been a long time since I faked and not often even then ...but I stated in my first post that I had faked and why I did it and that I did it for the benifet of my partner ... I was told that faking was impossible and wrong ...and in every case I just dont see it that way ..and in my case having a lover who puts so much importance on my satisfaction ...is worth an occasional Academy Award performance ...just to give her that mission accomplished feeling ...when the reason for my not having an orgasm is not her fault
and If I had a lover to do the same for me and I found it out ...I would not feel cheated or betrayed ...mainly I would feel Loved
now If I felt she was faking every time or often ..that would change things | |
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