| Do guys really love to cuddle? Posted: 10/30/2007 3:23:28 AM | | We don't really like to cuddle. We just put it in our profiles, or say we do, to drastically enhance my chances of picking up some puritan not looking for intercourse. Then, when the cuddling commences, we feel our partners up like that bear from Jungle Book feels up trees. Instant win, with few expectations. | |
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| Do guys really love to cuddle? Posted: 10/30/2007 4:47:15 AM | Every guy I've ever been with LIKES to cuddle -- I know there are guys out there who don't, I just have never been with one.
Then again, I tend to go for the sensitive, musician types so maybe that's it.
BTW, call me cynical, but when I read "love to cuddle" on a man's profile I assume it's code for "I love sex." I'm just saying....
I did read recently that for men, touch is extremely important in a relationship, it's what makes them feel close and loved; while for women, it's talk.
So maybe those guys who say they love to cuddle in their profiles mean it literally afterall? | |
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| Do guys really love to cuddle? Posted: 10/30/2007 6:21:10 AM |
Not2shy, I wont be 2shy & come straight out & say what most of us men are thinking. ===> dont you think that youd be fortunate if ANY man attempts to cuddle you? No? Well then keep right on running honey!
WTF? Did *zentimes* look at the wrong profile before posting this? The OP is a beautiful woman. Sounds like a personal attack. Hmmmmm............. | |
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| Do guys really love to cuddle? Posted: 10/30/2007 6:31:14 AM | | My bf loves to cuddle...he works midnights and most nights he comes over before work and there's times when we just curl up on the couch and cuddle...we're both very affectionate people and like the closeness of cuddling. | |
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| Do guys really love to cuddle? Posted: 10/30/2007 11:07:25 AM | | Zentimes - sorry man! I hate to cuddle and hate to hear a guy tell me "lets cuddle baby...." I just didn't believe so many men actually enjoy it. Now I know!! | |
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| Do guys really love to cuddle? Posted: 10/30/2007 11:23:47 AM | ehh, i think some men do. My ex wanted to cuddle all of the time! It's sweet but I am hot natured so sometimes it's not so much fun!
overall, i need a guy who likes to cuddle. | |
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| Do guys really love to cuddle? Posted: 10/30/2007 12:00:42 PM | Yes, guys love to cuddle and spoon!!!! THEN IT'S TIME FOR SOME SEX CAUSE HER BUTTS RIGHT THERE!!!! Then cuddle and spoon.... MORE SEX.... spoon..... SEX..... cuddle......... OK, ONE LAST QUICKIE..... SLEEP!  | |
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| Do guys really love to cuddle? Posted: 10/30/2007 12:10:04 PM |
I read so many profiles where guys claim to love to cuddle. Read the thread on "Do You Like PC Guys..." and "Do Guys Put Stuff in Profiles Because They Think It's What Women Want to Read..."
Short answer: They're not only lying to you, they're lying to themselves. Longish answer: Sure, some guys like to, but it's generally AFTER the act of sexxxxx. | |
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| Do guys really love to cuddle? Posted: 10/30/2007 1:51:29 PM | Um....."MEN ARE PIGS!!!!!" I can't beleive all the men on here saying. YES I will cuddle cause it leads to SEX. Their is more to life than sex. And I want more out of a relationship than just sex. Don't get me wrong I do like sex but.............................
I "LUV" to cuddle <img src=http://www.plentyoffish.com/smiles/icon_201.gif border=0> <img src=http://www.plentyoffish.com/smiles/icon_201.gif border=0> and it doesn't have to lead to sex. For me just having that SPECIAL LADY to hold and knowing that she feels so safe and protected in MY arms IS SUCH A RUSH 4 ME!!!!!!!!!!
And NO I AM NOT GAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I just like to CUDDLE/SPOON. JMHO | |
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| Do guys really love to cuddle? Posted: 11/1/2007 6:21:40 PM | | Some guys like to cuddle and some don't. I've always been touchy and affectionate in all my previous relationships. I've indicated in my profile that I like to cuddle, which is genuinely true. It's not codeword for something else or just saying what you want to hear. It's time that people on this site started taking stuff at face value and stop assuming the worst. | |
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| Do guys really love to cuddle? Posted: 11/1/2007 7:32:13 PM | 1) I love to cuddle. It doesn't say so on my profile, because I have this whole 'standards' thing. I don't cuddle with just anyone. If I want to cuddle with a chick - I'll let her know. 2) Saying "I love to cuddle" in a profile is... uh... inviting. I'd imagine this is why many (but not all) men have this in their profile. | |
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| Do guys really love to cuddle? Posted: 11/10/2007 10:16:35 PM | I'm a guy and i genuinely like to cuddle. I also can be pretty affectionate at times too. Cuddling, holding hands, kissing, snuggling, spooning and PDA. In fact there are times i even prefer cuddling and such to sex.(GASP! It can be a nice time to just sit watching a movie with arms around each other or draped over each other. It is nice to fall asleep with your sweetie in your arms or you in hers (especially on cold nites or when out camping on a cold nite )
So yes. there are guys who like to cuddle and can show affection Not all guys do and not all women do. There is probably a greater number of women who like to cuddle verses the number of men who do. | |
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| Do guys really love to cuddle? Posted: 11/11/2007 1:58:34 AM | I like to cuddle..it's the awesome feeling of closeness without having to be extreme about it...
That works!
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| Do guys really love to cuddle? Posted: 11/11/2007 3:31:55 AM | michaelangelo
have you ever considered that maybe all your love to sit on here and sarcastically put woman down and trash them and all that is because YOU HATE THEM N ARE GAY??? AND THE MORE YOU STAY ON HERE ATTACKING THE MORE YOUDONT HAVE TO FACE YOUR FEELINGS FOR MEN? sorry just curious or maybe get off and get a life wowowoow maybe you could even say something nice and unjaded ????? we all may faint but it would be nice | |
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| Do guys really love to cuddle? Posted: 11/11/2007 3:37:29 AM | | id just like to say, im 100 percent gay, and thats the reason im trying to pick up chicks on a gay website. | |
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| Do guys really love to cuddle? Posted: 11/11/2007 5:14:24 AM | Men love to cuddle, go for long romantic walks, share our inner most secrets, We long for someone who truly understands our needs ...Yes of course we love oprah....We all support the struggle of the feminists as truly their cause to gain superiority over man is just. ..
Ok are you ready to give me a piece yet?? | |
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| Do guys really love to cuddle? Posted: 11/11/2007 7:51:45 AM | | I like to cuddle/snuggle/be close. Nothing like holding the one you love or care about close to you and in your arms. | |
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| Do guys really love to cuddle? Posted: 11/11/2007 9:16:29 AM | | i know i do , i need cuddles to feel close t a girl, split from a girl because she not like cuddles | |
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