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| Do guys really love to cuddle?
Posted: 11/11/2007 7:06:09 PM | I like cuddles even if it doesn't lead to sex,
I still love sex.
I am not suffocating.
I am still a man.
I would be glad those who don't cuddle run away from me, and save me from making a mistake with someone non tactile, but we are all different.. | |
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| Do guys really love to cuddle?
Posted: 11/11/2007 9:03:24 PM |
I loved reading all those great replies.
Could someone please define cuddle?
My definition of cuddling/snuggling/whatever you wanna call it: Usually your head is somewhere close to my shoulder, my arms are around your body, sometimes yours are around mine. Lots of touching and caressing going on. An occasional kiss in random body parts. This can lead to sex, or be what we are doing after sex too!! Also can be done fully clothed on a couch, nude in a bed, or whatever... | |
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| Do guys really love to cuddle?
Posted: 11/11/2007 9:45:49 PM |
I loved reading all those great replies.
Could someone please define cuddle?
If you need a definition of cuddling, then you're a lost cause. Good luck to you! | |
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| Do guys really love to cuddle?
Posted: 11/11/2007 10:00:07 PM | of course they want to cuddle
if you are in a relationship and like someone you like to cuddle
who doesnt?
what the h*ll is your problem lady | |
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| Do guys really love to cuddle?
Posted: 11/11/2007 10:20:16 PM | of course they want to cuddle
if you are in a relationship and like someone you like to cuddle
who doesnt?
Of course we do, but whymista seems to think that it's a gal thing and we need to pretend that we like it to get sex. So does Diana619. I have no doubt that some guys think and act this way, but not all - we can't generalize as these forums tend to do. Cuddling ties into Maslov's hierarchy of motivational needs. We all have the need for attachment, regardless of gender. Cuddling serves the basic physical need for attachment. | |
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| Do guys really love to cuddle?
Posted: 11/11/2007 11:23:08 PM | | I am not interested in a girl who doesn't cuddle, frankly. For me, hugging and cuddling are basically the same, and it is a form of bonding with the opposite sex. If I am not really that interested in the girl, then I wouldn't care about cuddling with her and would prefer not to... | |
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| Do guys really love to cuddle?
Posted: 11/12/2007 4:41:13 PM | Do guys really love to cuddle? It's hard to believe that some women don't like to cuddle or that they would be scared away by a guy who admits to liking it. A girl afraid of that I would suspect is afraid of intimacy. Someone also said that cuddling just leads to sex. Actually, I don't think the two are mutually exclusive.
For me there are few things in life better than making love, then falling asleep with my arms around my girl. So I'd say sex most definitely leads to cuddling, not the other way around. Although if men can't get sex, they'll settle for cuddling. I like being close to my girl while watching a movie, or in front of a fire, listening to music, spooning, or with my girl's head resting on my chest as she falls asleep. I'd call that cuddling and any woman that is scared by that isn't for me anyway. If you are a girl who is scared by this, you don't know what you are missing! It's warm, it's secure, and falling asleep to your lover's heartbeat is like being reborn. | |
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| Do guys really love to cuddle?
Posted: 11/12/2007 4:55:19 PM | | i love to cuddle and it is so intimate. The only issue is the guy usually gets hmmm............ "excited" lol. I just usually want to be close to the other person. | |
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| Do guys really love to cuddle?
Posted: 11/12/2007 5:40:21 PM | I lovvvvvves to Cuddle!
Women are Nurturers by nature. Geez...I even love cuddling my Dog! Guys...if can't cuddle your woman, look for a dead fish in bed. And yes...Cuddling can lead to sex, but it doesn't always have to. I personally could not be with a man for very long who will not Cuddle. I don't think it is just a "girl thing" either. Some men grew up without much affection as a child and long for it. On the other hand, I have known men who were very cuddled by their mother and grandmother and it has always been a part of their affection as a person. Some men were told by their fathers it is not a "manly" thing to do...be tough son! And, I bet his mother suffered from non cuddling syndrome too!
Nothing wrong with a man admitting he likes to Cuddle. What's the big deal...grow up already! I think also it does come with age and you learn to appreciate the close affection and attention with experience. Age softens us all and it should. Maybe if you'd try it, you might even like it and get to see the result from it. Wow...hugs, cuddling...all a part of intimacy and caring. | |
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| Do guys really love to cuddle?
Posted: 11/12/2007 5:49:00 PM | | I do and I don't.. depends on the situation.. sometimes there's too much cuddling and that gets a bit uncomfortable.. but all in all I don't mind cuddling.. | |
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| Do guys really love to cuddle?
Posted: 11/12/2007 8:38:50 PM |
Nothing wrong with a man admitting he likes to Cuddle. What's the big deal...grow up already! Wow...hugs, cuddling...all a part of intimacy and caring.
Well folks, that's this thread in a nutshell. | |
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| Do guys really love to cuddle?
Posted: 11/12/2007 11:33:58 PM | I like to cuddle, lots of reasons behind it and not all lead to sex. It's an intimate act without the heavy breathing I enjoy the heavy breathing as well, don't get me wrong. | |
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| Do guys really love to cuddle?
Posted: 11/12/2007 11:40:07 PM | | Some days I feel like it, Some days I don't. I actually hate not doing it after $ex. Makes me feel kind of cheap and used. Good thing is they don't leave, they just pass out asleep instead of cuddling. That I can live with. | |
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| Do guys really love to cuddle?
Posted: 11/12/2007 11:48:58 PM | | I love cuddling. It doesn't have to lead to sex to be good, but you have to understand that that is a hazard. As we all know, spooning leads to forking. | |
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| Do guys really love to cuddle?
Posted: 11/12/2007 11:51:34 PM |
Good thing is they don't leave, they just pass out asleep instead of cuddling. That I can live with.
If they do leave, then hopefully they have the common courtesy to make you a tuna sandwich on their way out  | |
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| Do guys really love to cuddle?
Posted: 11/13/2007 12:02:20 AM | Well I'm usually cooking. I get wired after $ex. Women pass out. I have no fecking idea why. Story of my life.
Ah well. Gives me quiet time to think about the relationship while she's sleeping. After about an hour they wake up and drag me to bed. then I get the cuddling for about 10 min and then they pass out attached to you. | |
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| Do guys really love to cuddle?
Posted: 11/13/2007 12:04:52 AM | | Hmmm....it's usually the guy that passes out after sex. I'm guilty of it! But falling asleep in a cuddle is always cool. | |
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| Do guys really love to cuddle?
Posted: 11/13/2007 12:08:37 AM | | Cuddling or spooning what an awesome way to share intimacy. How about those sweet whispers that come with it? | |
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| Do guys really love to cuddle?
Posted: 11/13/2007 12:46:22 AM | Speaking for myself...absolutely I do honestly like cuddling at the right time(s).
Curious, OP - does this make you RUN because you don't like cuddling, or because you assume they're lying? | |
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| Do guys really love to cuddle?
Posted: 11/13/2007 4:45:52 PM | i love to cuddle not afraid to say it. Friday night its cold we are snuggled up on the couch in sweats and watching a movie. Yep i said friday too!lol I can be happy inside as much as i go out friday nights dont have to be party party party.
So a thumbs up from me but that requires a female my body pillow isnt cutting it anymore | |
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