| Do guys really love to cuddle?
Posted: 12/27/2007 8:23:59 AM |
It makes me RUN and I won't spend time with a guy who tells me that maybe we could cuddle or that he enjoys cuddling. Uhhh....you don't like to cuddle???
You'r an odd duck. I've never heard of a woman who doesn't like to cuddle before.
But to answer your question, yes, I like to cuddle, I don't just say it to please the ladies. | |
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| Do guys really love to cuddle?
Posted: 12/27/2007 12:42:07 PM | I think that alot of people...men and woman....say what they think the opposite sex wants to hear. I believe that if a man cares about a woman he will like to cuddle who wouldn't!!! I love my King Size Bed but darn it would be nice to have a special woman to spoon up to.
As far as where cuddling leads......that is probably directly related to how well a guy cuddles and/or meets the needs of his significant other. | |
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| Do guys really love to cuddle?
Posted: 12/28/2007 12:00:35 AM | | I, cant speack for all men but I love cuddling my girlfriend, it makes me feel alive and good inside, I think alot of men take cuddling as a doorway to sex. if you can find a man who likes to cudddle for cuddling sake go for him. | |
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| Do guys really love to cuddle?
Posted: 12/28/2007 12:33:46 AM | | You make a good point. There are some men who are more affectionate than women. If someone said that they think more women are into cuddling, I'd agree, and if someone said most men are to, but there is a big gap between the two I'd agree. Most people, I would say, like to cuddle. Some men like talking on the phone more than some women, though more women like talking on the phone. There is such a thing as women who don't like a lot of affection. Some women are more cold-tempered. | |
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| Do guys really love to cuddle?
Posted: 12/28/2007 5:14:04 AM | I wouldn't say that cuddling leads onto sex....
Snogging leads on to sex 
A cuddle is just a sign of affection. Cuddling on the sofa watching a film is just intimacy and I love all of the above.  | |
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| Do guys really love to cuddle?
Posted: 12/28/2007 6:02:41 AM | >>"It makes me RUN and I won't spend time with a guy who tells me that maybe we could cuddle or that he enjoys cuddling. "
Uhhh....you don't like to cuddle???
>You'r an odd duck. I've never heard of a woman who doesn't like to cuddle before.
But to answer your question, yes, I like to cuddle, I don't just say it to please the ladies.
Yeah, no kidding. If you assume every guy who tells you what you want to hear is lying, you are destined to lead a lonely life!
Some of them might actually be telling the truth. (I know!! Shocking!!) | |
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| Do guys really love to cuddle?
Posted: 1/2/2008 1:05:29 PM | Seriously, most guys dont like coming across sounding like an idiot....if they're nervous, or fumbling, its cause we screw up our words and end up sounding rediculous (if we're being genuine), some times we just have our retarded moments - we all do ladies included - either way, its probably NOT so smooth in our opinion for a guy to "offer" to cuddle. My point is, unless he's a nervous fumbling idiot with little or no suave he wouldn't be saying that anywhere close to the first couple of dates.
Some guys LIKE cuddling; some dont mind, some don't.
None of us like doing it for so long that you pass out and fall asleep on our arms so we lose al l circulation and try our hardest to reclaim our lifeless mangled limb from under your sleeping frame trying our damndest not to wake you or disrupt your slumber. But hey! thats the hand we were dealt, we're guys - we try to fill our own perfect self images AND keep you happy if we can help it... the world turns for another day, who cares!? | |
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| Do guys really love to cuddle?
Posted: 1/2/2008 1:07:54 PM | | Oh yeah, I forgot to mention, I usually like to cuddle, but usually only after the more vigourous relations, I don't think it happens much at all beforehand. (hahaha) | |
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| Do guys really love to cuddle?
Posted: 1/4/2008 8:38:18 PM | Sometimes its wonderful to cuddle. Other times she should be near . Next at time sitting on my lap yaking is fine! lol .The mood and how my day went is what sets the timeing and the mood.
However nothing like be under a blanket on a cold rainey day ! hmmmmm roaring fires tea ans chocolate !
yumm yumm | |
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| Do guys really love to cuddle?
Posted: 1/5/2008 12:03:36 PM | I can't speak for anyone else, but I like it. Hanging out on the couch watching a good movie or just talking, PJ's on, legs entagled, a blanket on a cold night. Yeah, I dig that stuff.
Snuggle Cuddles Rule!
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| Do guys really love to cuddle?
Posted: 1/5/2008 12:31:04 PM | I myself like to cuddle and it does not necessarily have to lead to anything later. If i have that connection with some one nothing beats putting in a movie getting comfortable on the couch with that special some one. Although I can't guarantee that my hand wont wander a bit (that is if its some i am in a relationship with)  | |
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| Do guys really love to cuddle?
Posted: 1/5/2008 2:09:10 PM | I read so many profiles where guys claim to love to cuddle. Guys also tell me often that they love to watch movies and cuddle etc. Is this true?? or is it something guys say because they think that's what we would love to hear.
It makes me RUN and I won't spend time with a guy who tells me that maybe we could cuddle or that he enjoys cuddling.
What's the deal guys?
Let me see if I have this straight OP:
1) You have read profiles where guys talk about cuddling and want to know if they are sincere or merely saying what women want to hear.
2) You want nothing to do with a guy who would tell you he is interested in cuddling or suggests it.
3) You now want guys to go on the record and say they do not enjoy cuddling so you can then write them off as being interested only in sex. (This is what your position logically entails.)
4) You want guys who admit they like to cuddle so you can run from them and not spend any time with them because they must be disingenuous and merely saying what women "want to hear."
I suggest that you read some Greek mythology about Scylla and Charybdis (look it up on Wikipedia if you want the Cliff Notes' version of it) because that is the very kind of situation you have set up here. Meanwhile, I will simply say that I will neither confirm nor deny that I either like or do not like cuddling...it is a political season now after all  | |
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| Do guys really love to cuddle?
Posted: 1/5/2008 10:22:05 PM | | Personally, I can't imagine why a guy would not want to cuddle. At any time, with or without sex being involved. It's just so nice! | |
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| Do guys really love to cuddle?
Posted: 1/6/2008 12:38:16 AM | | Well I love cuddles and I don't think it sould always end up having sex after it.I want a man to hug me because they want to not because they have to. | |
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| Do guys really love to cuddle?
Posted: 1/9/2008 9:14:41 AM | | Meh, im not a big cuddler, I dont mind it, if it leads somewhere sexy, but generally I like my free space. I really really hate when a chick trys cuddling while im trying to sleep, that screws me over in so many ways. | |
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| Do guys really love to cuddle?
Posted: 1/10/2008 10:23:09 PM | | All I know is some men definitely love to cuddle trust me I am one of them. But well I don't push for it too early in the relationship as it sounds you have had troubles with. Cuddling is fairly intimate so like everything else don't push it to soon. Wait till it just feels natural. One good conversation could be enough but for people who aren't very good communicators it may take longer. | |
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| Do guys really love to cuddle?
Posted: 1/11/2008 2:18:12 AM | I'm a touchy feely kind of guy anyway, so yah, hugs, cuddles, play fights, tickles, kisses, nibbles LOL...
Bring it on! 
But remember... I know sooo many people wish that they could just lump women into one big box and men into another, but it ain't like that.
Not all men like such intimate contact, and believe it or not, some women I've dated don't like it either... So, as usual, it's a mixed picture. | |
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