| Do guys really love to cuddle?
Posted: 1/11/2008 4:00:08 AM | | Yes. Some do, like some women do not like to cuddle. that being said, in Canada, cuddling is practically a survival trait in winter :) I like it anyways! But cuddling isn't really something you can do wiht a stranger. So I'd say the guy who meets you and says he'd like to cuddle is probably not interested in cuddling. Normally there's some sor t of bond right? | |
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| Do guys really love to cuddle?
Posted: 1/17/2008 2:11:04 PM | It makes me RUN and I won't spend time with a guy who tells me that maybe we could cuddle or that he enjoys cuddling.
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This is the part of your post that disturbs me.
So many women ready to dump top class guys over something as trivial as a bit of cuddling.
You dump guys who have beaten you up so badly that you have been hospitalised. Or guys who have tried to seduce you nine year old daughter.
Take off your runnig shoes lady. Plenty of top class guys like to cuddle. | |
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| Do guys really love to cuddle?
Posted: 1/17/2008 3:56:39 PM | I don't remember if I've posted in this thread before... 
But anyway, personally, yes... I love to cuddle. Being curled up on the couch with that special someone, watching a movie you both enjoy... it's blissful.
Even just being close to each other while doing your own thing... like one person laying on the couch reading, while the other is sat next to them doing something else... it's wonderful.
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| Do guys really love to cuddle?
Posted: 1/17/2008 7:27:19 PM | | This is my first contribution to a forum, but I had to say something after reading diana's comment. How absoulutely true. The concept of nonsexual intimacy just eludes the fellas. Or maybe not. I love being sexual as much as the next woman. But guys, cuddling while watching a movie and knowing I don't have to sexually perform as "payment" for the cuddle time is wonderful. Please know I'm not slamming the guys, I am just looking for feedback. | |
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| Do guys really love to cuddle?
Posted: 1/18/2008 6:49:54 AM | | I don't think I can handle for a long time a woman who doesn't like much physical affection in the bedroom, at least. If she doesn't want much PDA, that's fine, but I want some seduction, some cuddling, otherwise she'd need another man who fits her. | |
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| Do guys really love to cuddle?
Posted: 1/18/2008 5:37:49 PM | Yeah, some of us do. It's considered distinctly unmanly, but oh well. I don't worry too much about that, I am stereotypically guy-ish in more than enough ways to make up for it.
But wait, hang on. Who decided that it was unmanly to put your hands on your woman, anyway?? | |
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| Do guys really love to cuddle?
Posted: 1/18/2008 8:46:54 PM | | i enjoy cuddling while watching a movie or some tv...which is a rarety. with so little time left for my partner after working and both doing the domestic things, cuddle time is a special treat. sometimes it leads to sex, sometimes not and either is great. however ,so as not to sound too feminine here, cuddling after sex is the absolute best! | |
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| Do guys really love to cuddle?
Posted: 1/18/2008 8:56:04 PM | | It depends on how much I respect the girl and how attracted I am. I would never cuddle or sleep close to a girl who I didnt respect and I would have to be at least moderatly attracted to her. | |
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| Do guys really love to cuddle?
Posted: 1/19/2008 1:09:05 PM | Carmelcakes: You shoulda read my post three steps above yours...you woulda got your answer.
Holding hands, hugging, snuggling, etc....all part of the total package. If a gal is not somewhat physical daily with her guy, she probably won't have him long.
Now there is a caveat to that...if the guy is a closet case or a mysogynist, he's going to have issues with closeness. If you feel that you are not close with your man...you probably aren't. | |
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| Do guys really love to cuddle?
Posted: 1/19/2008 1:12:23 PM | | honestly i love to cuddle whilst sleeping with someone but some guys hate it and just want to roll over and sleep. Its a bit like marmite lol | |
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| Do guys really love to cuddle?
Posted: 1/21/2008 1:35:48 PM | This is my first contribution to a forum, but I had to say something after reading diana's comment. How absoulutely true. The concept of nonsexual intimacy just eludes the fellas. Or maybe not.
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It's not the fellas that it eludes.
Its half the women and all the law makers.
A simple hug is seen by half the women, as a rape attempt and policed by the law as such. | |
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| Do guys really love to cuddle?
Posted: 1/21/2008 8:33:26 PM | well we have to Be careful Because it could lead to the honey I think we need to talk, talk! or the what are you thinking talk..EEEEEKKK!!
Or you woman will get the wrong idea and think we want sex when we just want to cuddle darn it!
but other then that.. heck yes i love having my arm go numb and hair Tickling my nose! | |
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| Do guys really love to cuddle?
Posted: 1/21/2008 9:00:51 PM | OP
I for one will not say I love, like, or even tolerate cuddeling. Don't get me wrong, I have tried it but it makes getting up to grab another beer hard to do.
If I am watching a chick flick (the only type of movie I will cuddle to) I want easy access to beer.
I do not want to say excuse me or can I get you anything? I just want to get shis fashed as shoon as I kin. because the same old story line with different names gets old very fast.
Cuddling is fine for a woman because they are leaning on the man, If I leaned all over a woman she would soon not want to watch movies.
I have yet to have a woman "cuddle" as we watch movies that are meant to cuddle to like ,,,um ,,, oh lets just toss out porn.
I know I sound like a Jackass but it is true.
Women want to pick the movies ( I never want to see Pretty Woman again in my life) and expect men to sit and cuddle or at a minimum, want to cuddle.
When a man wants to pick a movie he wants to watch the woman OFTEN TIMES will find something else to do.
When the woman that is disinterested she will say "No you go ahead and watch it I have some stuff I want to take care of."
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Go ahead and pick a movie and if I don't like it I will not sit and watch it, and rest assured I will find something for you to do too. If I cant sit and watch a movie you sure are not! | |
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| Do guys really love to cuddle?
Posted: 1/21/2008 11:28:36 PM | | It's no fun to cuddle when you're not satisfied sexually, that's for sure. That's probably the only difference between men and women with respect to cuddling, I'd guess. | |
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| Do guys really love to cuddle?
Posted: 6/8/2008 8:15:24 AM | Ohhhhh!!! Do I love it? 110% yes, cuddling is part of intimacy, I like to put my head on his shoulder and cuddling at the same time. Passionate cuddling is next to come!!!  | |
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| Do guys really love to cuddle?
Posted: 6/8/2008 10:41:30 AM | Oh hell yes I love cuddling on the couch and is a must in a relationship or even if you are out sitting in a park or where ever for that matter it is so special and the opportunity should never be passed up in a relationship. | |
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| Do guys really love to cuddle?
Posted: 6/8/2008 10:54:56 AM |
I read so many profiles where guys claim to love to cuddle. Guys also tell me often that they love to watch movies and cuddle etc. Is this true?? or is it something guys say because they think that's what we would love to hear.
I know I sure like to. And if it leads to more than just cuddling, then I don't mind that, either! | |
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| Do guys really love to cuddle?
Posted: 6/8/2008 11:32:04 AM | | The only time I don't like it is when the room temperature is over 80 degrees..other than that, let's spoon! | |
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