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| What does it take to please a woman? Posted: 10/30/2007 7:35:34 AM | every woman is defo different, but for most id imagine that being nice, well turned out,being a gentleman all sounds good, the one that is defo off putting is if the man is big headed and loves himself, the only way that u may b doing anything wrong is that u think ur doing something wrond, it all sounds good to me, good luck | |
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| What does it take to please a woman? Posted: 10/30/2007 1:54:43 PM | Well, for me it's being HEARD, APPRECIATED and treated as well as I treat him. If you are only ACTING the part of a gentlman, that could be an issue, but every woman, just like every man has specific needs, wants and desires which is exclusively theirs. Course, some people, no matter what you do, are never pleased or happy.
Just be yourself and honest....sometimes when you put less effort on impressing someone and put more effort into getting to know them things go smoother. | |
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| What does it take to please a woman? Posted: 10/30/2007 2:04:38 PM |
*Do not focus your entire side of the relationship into pleasing me. Do what you want to do some times and I will do the same.
I agree with Redseadiver. This is the number one problem for me (and the main mistake that all of the "nice guys" make).
If I wanted relationships like this, I would get a dog. As it is, I am more of a cat person. | |
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| What does it take to please a woman? Posted: 10/30/2007 2:20:05 PM | | Personally I'm the kind of guy that likes a nice girl. And I'd be like "aww you look soooo cute!" And lightly pinch her face, or carry her up the stairs, anything to make her giggle really. And compliment her on how smart she is or be impressed when she does something wicked awsome, exaggerated, animated praise tends to do the job (IE: "WOW these cookies are great! We have a world class chef here :D") Some would think it's patronizing but it's passion inspiring, and she'll like it when you can't resist kissing her. It's hard to put into words going all alpha-cave man like while recognising her girlieness and sweetness tends to be well apreciated. Also, know tantra! | |
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| What does it take to please a woman? Posted: 10/30/2007 2:24:12 PM | | All it takes for a man to please me is to be honest and faithful..Why is that so hard to do when you say you want to be together? | |
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| What does it take to please a woman? Posted: 10/30/2007 2:30:53 PM | | What I've learned when you meet someone is be yourself, be a friend, don't try to impress her with your looks and possesions. Most women don't care about that, and they usually can see right through you anyway, so there's no point in it. When she's talking, shut up and listen to what she's got to say, don't interupt. If she asks you questions on anything, be honest with everything. That's a very important characteristic that women look for. Be interested in what she's got so say and in turn she'll be interested in what you have to say. Treat her like a lady that she is and show her respect. And if you get to a serious relationship, give her the emotional security she needs and make her feel safe and you'll go a long way. | |
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| What does it take to please a woman? Posted: 10/30/2007 6:06:34 PM | | How about being yourself. Don't try to be fake...we hate fake. Be yourself and if she doesn't like you then move on...you will find many women who like you for who you are. Nothing more of a turn off then a man/woman trying to be something/someone they're not. | |
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| What does it take to please a woman? Posted: 10/30/2007 7:32:44 PM | | Most of the posters on this forum would agree that being yourself is very important. If the chemisty is there and you work hard and you're honest, then everything should fall into place. If the chemistry is there, it won't matter how you are dressed, if your hair is messed up, if you studder, snore, drool, etc, she'll be pleased just to watch you walk into the room. If everything you do isn't right and she complains about how you do everything, including how you take off your clothes, you need to find someone else. Lifes too short to try to "please" someone who will never be pleased with anything. Good Luck to you! | |
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| What does it take to please a woman? Posted: 10/30/2007 8:24:21 PM | | Simply show an interest. Ask questions about her life. Respond to her answers with follow-up questions. Don't just talk about yourself; show a sincere interest in *her*. You'd be amazed at what an aphrodisiac that can be. | |
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| What does it take to please a woman? Posted: 11/1/2007 12:56:00 AM | I think this is all good advice, what i have learnt flattery will get you everywhere Be yourself, smile and always be approachable to communicate about everything.
Keep things simple, and then splurge on the odd occasion Do not smother but allow each other the approppriate space | |
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| What does it take to please a woman? Posted: 11/1/2007 1:01:16 AM | | every woman is different..so I think its important to always be yourself, first and foremost, then for everything else..communication is key..know each others wants and needs and do your best to fulfill them if reasonable..makes both sides happy..50/50 baby , give and take..at least thats what works for me.. | |
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| What does it take to please a woman? Posted: 11/2/2007 6:03:32 PM | 1. never tell her she's fat! 2. always ask HOW HIGH when she says JUMP! 3. use BAM on a regular basis in the master washroom! 4. buy flowers that she's not ellergic to and 5. tell her that you love her mum more than anything you ever cared about!
Follow these steps in any order and YOU..........will come out a WINNER!!!! | |
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