| Do American Women get the worst reputation?
Posted: 1/3/2008 4:34:29 PM |
So date Asian...Americans. Date European...Americans. Date...Sub Saharan African... Americans... Just date a woman for who she is, not what you expect her to be.
As always, my friend, a great post and an excellent summation.
I wouldn't want a man to date or not date me based on the fact that I was an American...or a redhead....a southerner...blah, blah. I've learned at an early age, and grew up embracing and celebrating diversity and had a very enriched life. I honestly wouldn't want to live in an environment, a neighborhood, where everyone was like me. Some people are so sheltered in their comfort zone, only accept their ethnic, religious...etc..counterparts. Wouldn't suit me. | |
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| Do American Women get the worst reputation?
Posted: 1/3/2008 4:59:47 PM | Personally I do not want a submissive woman, nor do I want a dominant woman. I just want someone that stands on her own two feet and can handle whatever life throws at her.
Nothing more, nothing less.
A Latin accent melts my heart though.  | |
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| Do American Women get the worst reputation?
Posted: 5/3/2008 9:52:24 AM | Maybe American men are sick of double standards.
For example women make money but who is expected to pay for dates, vacations, gifts, and holidays such as anneversiries and valentine's days.
We are supposed to help in the cooking and cleaning but when do women ever help their men when laying out bricks, plumbing, shoveling.
In bed we are supposed to please you , but you don't have to care about our pleasure.
We have to hug you and give you emotional support but not expect that in return. | |
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| Do American Women get the worst reputation?
Posted: 5/3/2008 9:57:29 AM | There was a similer thread posted yesterday. As I said there, I will say again...
My father went over seas and brought back my mother (Asian) she was quiet and submissive and a dream come true... (that was) only because she didn't speak good english. NOW SHE'S AMERICANIZED.
Women are the same no matter what country they come from.
Now she's the americanized woman, and she don't play! Haha SHES the BOSS. GO MOM!
I also have heard of women playing the roll from other countries and take the guy for everything, just to get their papers. Sad but true. | |
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| Do American Women get the worst reputation?
Posted: 5/3/2008 10:09:33 AM | | So all americanized women are basically horrible. There is almost no country where a man can find an equal partner : one who does not view him as superior or inferior. The few countries where I have seen equality are all the scandanavian countries , holland, denmark, belgium and germany. | |
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| Do American Women get the worst reputation?
Posted: 5/3/2008 4:27:16 PM | john.ducke12
My point was that woman , from Europe, Asia, America, basically everywhere are the same inside their minds and hearts. When I spoke about women becoming americanized, I only ment that they became a stronger more independant woman .
In some countries women aren't even granted education, before their brothers.
I think it's horrible that men would even think about going to another country to bring back a submissive wife. If you go into parts of asia they will try to sell your their daughters to marry, because they are starving and can't support their children.
Why would anyone really even think about finding love under such circumstaces? | |
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| Do American Women get the worst reputation?
Posted: 5/3/2008 4:34:33 PM | I remember going to school with a young girl from Vietnam. I usually found her in the break room with her head on the table sobbing.
I decided to befriend her.
Her story was pretty sad, she was basically a slave to her mother-in-law and her husband was cruel. Her only hope was to finish school so she could run away. She was crying everyday because her mother-in-law frequently threatened to keep her home and not allow her to attend.
Her only salvation was a small inheritance from her own mother that paid her tuition.
I dont know what happened to her, but I hope she was able to graduate and escape. | |
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