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 Nos800

Joined: 7/12/2006
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Posted: 11/5/2007 11:43:45 PM
Well giving head is a gift, one I only bestow on a man when I feel he's earned it or when I'm just feeling particularly generous.

I don't really understand this mentality. To me this puts everything on a if you do this I'll do that status. If you don't enjoy doing a sexual act for someone unless they have "Earned it" it just seems messed up. Is there a certain amount of points he must earn or is it 3 gold stars to go untill you get a blowjob system?


To ask a woman to give you head after she has turned you down for sex says to her "I only want to use you for the physical release of orgasm and if I can't **** you then I would like you to service me."

But if you want to have sex purelly for the physical aspect of being horny thats ok right? Since you control the pu$$y you make the rules.


Sex should be something special, mutually enjoyed by both parties. Not something someone uses another human for, granted we're all guilty of making it into nothing more than a quick fix for a stressful day but in an ideal situation wouldn't we all rather it be better than that

And it can be better than that. It can be wonderful or angry or quick or long or slow or fast or about being one engaged in a Lovers mindset of pure ectasy and wholeness or straight Fcuking like mad people to get off. If your with someone long enough you realize sex has many aspects and not just the special one.

Also I understand alot of what your saying. If a guy isn't treating his girl right then these are the kinds of things he can expect. I never get it when guys come into work and complain about there wifes no giving up the booty for the past month...
If you are with someone and you haven't had sex with them in a month SOMETHING is seriously wrong... Either you are being a complete ass or she is fcuking someone else.
 KFGuy

Joined: 8/15/2005
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Posted: 11/6/2007 2:46:37 AM
Hmmmmmm....................

I have followed this thread with interest and amusement OP,

but I still can't figure out if you are complaining or boasting
 Nos800

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Posted: 11/6/2007 5:05:26 AM

I still can't figure out if you are complaining or boasting


I'm not boasting. I am just trying to figure out a way to pull in the ole reins... From what I've read though appearntlly my sex drive is low normally and I have to say it's starting to come back around to where I like it to be. I guess my change in routine just spiked my system for a bit. I already went through thinking about getting laid 24/7 and I don't want to go through puberty again, clouds the mind way to much...
 textodd11

Joined: 10/27/2006
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Posted: 11/6/2007 12:56:35 PM
Well I think EvilDoesntLove's views are definitely a good blueprint of what not to do. Both from the man and woman's perspective. My ex-wife had a similar view on oral activities, hence the title "ex-wife".

Seriously though, I wouldn't consider 2 times a day excessive.
 Bikerscum

Joined: 10/21/2007
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Posted: 12/2/2007 11:30:28 PM
Get married. Works for almost all women.

And most men, eventually.
 Lick it Up

Joined: 12/27/2006
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Posted: 12/3/2007 2:17:07 AM

Does anyone know of a real way to reduce your Sex drive.


Well, exercising increases it, so if you push yourself harder on your gym days....it'll go up.

And smoking lowers your sex drive.

 Tyeee

Joined: 7/6/2007
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Posted: 12/3/2007 6:01:36 AM
A few comments, gleaned from a few websites courtesy of a google search.

* Saltpeter is a natural mineral with many uses in commerce and in magic. It is employed to preserve foods, to make powdered incense burn more evenly, and as an ingredient in Gunpowder (which is Saltpeter, Charcoal, and Sulphur.)
- It also has a reputation for diminishing the male sex drive when ingested, although this is not backed by scientific evidence.
- Potassium nitrate could be dangerous if consumed, however. It can cause kidney damage or anemia as well as headaches and digestive distress.

* As for natural herbs to reduce libido, there is only one we know of. It is chaste tree berry (Vitex agnus-castus). This herb was known as “monk’s pepper” and was purportedly used to dampen libido in the Middle Ages.

* Some doctors prescribe antidepressants such as Paxil, Prozac or Zoloft to help reduce obsessions and compulsions, as well as excessive sexual desire. Such drugs can also have adverse effects, so please discuss this option with your physician so you fully understand the benefits and risks.
 inertiacoupling

Joined: 10/31/2007
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Posted: 12/3/2007 10:14:03 AM
OP, it's definitely not your imagination that working out is increasing your sex drive.
When you put on muscle mass, you increase your body's testosterone.
When you lose fat, your free testosterone increases because body fat contains aromatase which converts testosterone to estrogen.
(The ratio of testosterone to estrogen is also important to a male)
When you combine these two things happening because of your increased intensity workouts, it's normal that your sex drive will increase.
Older guys should take note of this phenomenon, because losing fat and putting on muscle mass will often restore their sex drive and improve their performance to more youthful levels.
(I know this from personal experience. )

Anyway, to answer your question, I can't imagine any substance you could take to reduce sex drive that isn't going to end up being something that isn't good for you.
So you'll probably just have to deal with it, or reduce your muscle mass and put on some fat.
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