| Things I Like About Being Single! Posted: 8/1/2008 3:22:08 PM | my everything is reserved for that 'someone special' always has been... Cant you tell i hate being typical???  Also explains why i'm still single..... | |
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| Things I Like About Being Single! Posted: 8/1/2008 3:47:13 PM | I can sit here and read these 4ums, instant mgs and laughing out loud at it all..... burnt to a crisp from spending the day at the pool with my grand daughters and I do NOT have to cook... I can just freaking chill out and do what I want to.
life is sweet... right Byte??? 
and I have to add, I love that alert at the bar....hoe down! OMG now that is funny and I don't care who you are! I AM ON FIREEEEEEEE!!! Yikes! | |
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| Things I Like About Being Single! Posted: 8/1/2008 4:10:14 PM | yeah but your butt still burning and sticking to the chair - which leaves me able to sit and laugh more comfortably than you!!! 
Ahhh to be single, not having relatives that require you to babysit their kids at a pool where ya burn ya butt! :P
And yeah i gotta agree, the HOE DOWN comment is just to dayum funny!!! Sounds like something i'd have come up with and neva put up!
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| Things I Like About Being Single! Posted: 8/1/2008 4:34:38 PM | stop right there.... I wanna know right now... do you ???? me lol
on a serious note... it is nice being single, I can have my girls for the day then send them home so I can sit and chill .... trust me, there are NO requirements on this woman.. I do what I want when I want to...well excpet when I MUST be at work.  | |
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| Things I Like About Being Single! Posted: 8/1/2008 4:49:04 PM | Well far be it from me to rub in the fact that i dont hafta work unless i wanna... far be it from me of course! 
Dayum, it's great being single cause no one to nag me to get a real job!  | |
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| Things I Like About Being Single! Posted: 8/1/2008 6:14:35 PM | I never post here...cause I haven't found anything I like being single after 10 long yrs... Question for all of you...if you're so happy...what are you doing on a dating site..seeking a mate?????????????? | |
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| Things I Like About Being Single! Posted: 8/1/2008 6:42:30 PM | who said i was seeking a mate???? Suzie, you spreadin rumors again??? 
Just a thought flower, if your not happy after 10 years, maybe you should look and try to figure out why? And I'm not saying being single is the only way to go but i do believe you need to be happy with yourself and in your own life before you can be happy with someone else. And expecting someone to make you happy would just put more strain on any relationship than if you were already happy right? (Also goes w/out saying if the person your with doesn't make you happy, all the work in the world wont change it)
I like being single, i dont miss having someone around, as i remember it was nice but i also remember how big a pain in the arse it can be too if it's not the 'right one'. So no, i'm not seeking, I'm open but not seeking... Oh yeah, i'm mainly here to meet others and get out of the 'never go out' rut i'm in (like now!) Being single does has it's disadvantages, but being in a relationship does too. Just fewer headaches and less stress being on your own!
Just a stud muffins two cents worth  (for those of you that think i'm on an ego trip, i'm cross posting something someone else said! :P) | |
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| Things I Like About Being Single! Posted: 8/1/2008 7:07:50 PM | I dont MIND being single - in fact I've gotten used to it for the most part...but it sure is nice to have someone special to share certain things with...some things are just better when shared with someone else!
I'm not exactly seeking a "mate"...I'm looking for (as my profile says) a friend, a lover, a companion, a confidant all rolled up into one person...and I in turn would like to be the same to him... | |
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| Things I Like About Being Single! Posted: 8/1/2008 7:08:38 PM |
Unless of course FBG gives me more than a few shots!!!
So um... well... if I give you more than a few shots who's got first dibs on that 'booty'? My um... FRIEND was just wondering and of course being the great person I am, I told my FRIEND I would ask.
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| Things I Like About Being Single! Posted: 8/1/2008 7:12:36 PM | I'm on this site for many reasons, but "seeking a mate" is not one of them!
Besides, would you rather we waller in self pity because we are "alone"? Depression and desperation give off such an attractive aroma. - NOT! | |
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| Things I Like About Being Single! Posted: 8/1/2008 7:13:00 PM | Not sure about anyone else but shortstack? Sounds like ya lookin for a mate to me! 
And FBG, Probably the bed! 
Hmmm does who refer to one or ????? :P | |
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| Things I Like About Being Single! Posted: 8/1/2008 7:36:51 PM | Guess you missed the part where i dont drink eh??? Why do you think it was so easy to pass the dbl to kat?? :P | |
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| Things I Like About Being Single! Posted: 8/1/2008 8:13:06 PM | Oh no, I didn't miss it. I just don't believe it!
And don't you be worryin' about Miss Kat, she'll have her fair share (and someone else's) of drinks that night. Speaking of which...
Who's calling the first shot? Redheaded Sluts? Jäger Bombs no hands? Roosters? Ta-kill-ya with salt and lime? (the interactive shot!) Blowjobs no hands? B52's? Some weird azz drink Kat makes you suck a sugar coated lemon after?
What'll it be ladies???? | |
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| Things I Like About Being Single! Posted: 8/1/2008 8:21:19 PM | Well Shellie, for the GNO sake, I think it wouldn't be a night with all the girls together without doing a Red headed Slut!
*****Hopefully someone will do one for me***** | |
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| Things I Like About Being Single! Posted: 8/2/2008 2:24:04 AM | damn almost 6 hours and no takers, figured with this group it wouldn't have gone 6 seconds!
And just an fyi, i quit for like 5-6 years? The last POF get-ta-gether was the first time i've had a drink!! Not sure if thats a good thing or bad!!!! | |
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| Things I Like About Being Single! Posted: 8/2/2008 6:52:44 AM | *sighs* If I must I will "take one for the team," Shell & Theresa! After all, you all is my Pofsters! ;)
I dunno about everyone...but a hands-free Jaeger is the way I will be goin! Might need that Red Bull kick! ;)
But why are we talking about this in this forum, and not the party forum?! LOL
Sandy...this thread was started to seek the positive and humorous aspects of being single! While we all ultimately would probably love to find "the one" who fits well for us...I think we are also the sorts who are less willing to settle! Therefore, we have two choices...1) to be miserable in our search, which only reeks to others and makes it all the more difficult, or 2) to be comfy in our singledom, which makes us healthier peeps! I vote for that latter! ;)
As far as why we are here? Wellll...I am a forum wh0re, so that's the main reason! LMAO But also in case someone comes along and b1tchslaps me in the face (sweeps me offa my feet!) and I actually like it! ;) | |
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| Things I Like About Being Single! Posted: 8/2/2008 11:19:04 AM | Well I would say that I am not miserable or unhappy..Just a bit lonely. I think all of you who know me could vouch for that.. Agree with short stack..looken for my best friend and lover.. Also agree with you Kat..I'm very picky and won't settle..been on plenty of frog dates!!! Sandy | |
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| Things I Like About Being Single! Posted: 8/2/2008 11:58:53 AM | Kat, from what i can tell, you'll be more than happy taking more than one for the team! that's why i gave you mine! I wont do shots, I dont know/trust any of you enough to make sure i made it to my room in one piece! Sad thing is, it's been so long since i've been drinking, 1 shot would put me out for the night
Sandy Once upon a time i could relate to the lonely chit but that was a long long time ago and I've never been one to let anything bring or keep me down. How long have you been on your own?
OT: I love air conditioning.... it's sooooo cooooool!!!  woops, cross posting again!  | |
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| Things I Like About Being Single! Posted: 8/2/2008 4:37:01 PM | I will take one for the team.... what is a red headed slut anyway??? (besides myself after a few shots.)
I will be good for about 3 shots Kat, and then Im done! | |
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| Things I Like About Being Single! Posted: 8/2/2008 4:58:22 PM | Dayum, guess we need to find you a man flower!
Dunno what to say really... Guess some people need to have the companionship more than others. I admit it would be nice, but i think everyone in here that's been throwing in their 2 cents agrees that what you lose by living alone outweighs the problems with living with someone that's just not right for you.
I'm guessing this 4um is for those of us that have seen the worse and enjoy blowing off some steam - but i seriously doubt that anyone in here wouldn't jump back on the wagon if they found someone they felt was right... Well me excluded, I'm pretty brain dead and even my ex had to brow beat me for months on end until it sank in she wanted to go out! Actually that happens more often than not with me 
If i was you, i'd learn to be comfy in my life, enjoy it to it's fullest, get out and socialize and see what falls in your lap (not referring to the drunks at the up-n-coming 8's mixer! ). | |
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| Things I Like About Being Single! Posted: 8/2/2008 5:49:32 PM | Bay....That is exactly what I do..and have been doing for along time now..I would never wanna live with someone and be unhappy..was married for 25 yrs..and know about that.. And I'm blowing off steam..guess just in another way What does being brain dead have to do with your heart?? And yeah...bring on the man flower...he would have to be tough tho..as i'm a wee bit stronged willed...lol Sandy | |
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| Things I Like About Being Single! Posted: 8/2/2008 6:31:41 PM | awe Sandy...you are not alone, you have friends! yeah I am your friend!
remember what you said the other night when I was leaving your house... you were going to do the greeting thing cause you didn't want to follow me around being the shy one... well girlfriend step up and make some noise!
I have been told... IF you are giving off the negative aura that is what you are going to get back.. same goes for depressed, happy, sad, excited... SO me personally I want to be happy... so I am thinking happy thoughts. Oh along with a little chocolate it is great!
I will say this, Sandy hun, you don't have to be alone.. but you are like me.. PICKY and I am glad you are cause you would be so unhappy if you were to settle. He will come around when you least expect it girlfriend. | |
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