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ronfin
| Joined: 9/22/2004 Msg: 28 | |
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LEXI
| Joined: 8/26/2004 Msg: 29 | |
| Re: have you had an "Actual Date" with someone from here? Posted: 9/23/2004 1:21:16 PM | | I'LL DEFINITLY HUG AND KISS HIM LOTS FOR YOU BABYGURL. AND LOTS AND LOTS LOL. DAMN..NOW I'M GONNA SCARE HIM AWAY HEHEHE. WE ARE GONNA DRINK LOTS OF BEER AND HAVE A GREAT TIME @ LOST. AND NOW, I'M PLANNING A TRIP TO CANADA, YAY ME! ( JUST ME THOUGH, NO PARTY THIS TIME). SHOULD BE LOTS OF FUN. | |
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| Re: have you had an "Actual Date" with someone from here? Posted: 9/26/2004 12:02:19 PM | | I have had 2 dates from this site thus far. The 1st did not seem to know what he wanted, and the second, well let's just tell the ladies...If you recieve a message from an Australian that appears to be a little "Adventerous" (Aussi's are not) RUN...Don't go, it's a game, a joke, a big waste of your time! | |
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| Re: have you had an Posted: 9/26/2004 1:20:29 PM | | well i have met one man last week he asked me out for the following saturday and said he would call but did not. 2 reasons he was a creep..or actually 3 i think he was just wanting to prove his masculinity since he was expecting to come to my apartment...dream on buddy no sex with this gal til i know you.... 1 for saying he would call and didnt 2 for asking me out and not intending to go 3 for the sex stuff and actually 4...i sent him an email about something that we had discussed and he never responded....he is an asshole.. | |
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| Re: have you had an Posted: 9/26/2004 2:54:48 PM | | Yep, time to forget about it and move on, fifi. | |
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| have you had an Posted: 9/27/2004 10:30:12 PM | | speaking of the marriage thing... thats one thing that really scares me about these online relationships. Especially when somebody lives hundreds of miles away and starts to talk serious. When I was much younger I didnt reconize the signs... and now that Im older, well I often question why a person might openly state they prefer to meet people from very far away. | |
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silken
| Joined: 8/19/2004 Msg: 38 | |
| have you had an Posted: 10/4/2004 1:16:22 PM | Yes, I've had 2 dates/meetings with POF men so far.
Date #1: We went through a drive-thru, picked up a hot drink and went and sat down by the pier listening to his stereo and talking for about 4 hours. It was very nice. We have talked a few times since and he has asked me out again but I was busy those times. Unfortunately when I was available awhile later and called him I think he had gotten the impression I wasn't interested in him... will have to see how it goes. ;)
Date #2: Wonderful date. He held my hand the entire night, took me for dinner, went for an evening stroll by the Falls, a drive and then back to my place for conversation (*just* conversation.) We had a lovely time. He made a date for 2 days later but it fell through. Unfortunately I later caught him in some lies and had to bust his a***. ;)
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| have you had an Posted: 10/4/2004 9:41:14 PM | yes, one date with one guy...was really good but....you know nie guy but... and then several dates with another guy....things are going good;) | |
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| Re: have you had an "Actual Date" with someone from here? Posted: 10/6/2004 7:11:54 AM | Yes, things went well on the first meeting about 2 weeks ago, although I was somewhat nervous, but then after a initial email message saying she enjoyed the time, I didn't hear from her again (although midway in that timeframe she read the initial letter I sent two days after we first met in response to her letter saying she had a good time), so after five days I sent a email asking if she was o.k., and she responded sounding almost like she was upset at me for asking (turns out she was sick and had a little car accident all in that timespan)...it was almost like, well sorry for asking!
On the other hand, it seems like most of the responses I get are from ones that I don't picture myself compatible with, so I'm thinking about leaving the online dating scene, though I haven't made my mind up yet one way or another. | |
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| have you had an "Actual Date" with someone from here? Posted: 10/6/2004 8:55:58 AM | | I have had two dates from here. The first didn't really work out. He was a really great guy but I had too much going on at the time and I felt no chemistry at all. I could see myself ending up best friends with him, but that was it. The second, well, I am now dating him steadily and looking toward a future. We seem to have the same goals and thoughts and both agreed to take it slow which is the only way to go in any relationship. Just be careful, don't take them home with you...lol. And, watch your back. But think positively. Hope it works for you. | |
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| Re: have you had an "Actual Date" with someone from here? Posted: 10/6/2004 9:00:02 AM | | I understand where you are coming from....lol. My husband had an alleged female friend that he spent every night with for a month, but still expected me to buy that they were just friends....lol. Hickeys and all...lol. I can laugh about it now, but the pain was very real and just one of the reasons why I am working on my freedom. No one in a committed relationship should be spending the night with someone of the opposite sex. Trust is not the issue, stupidity is. If for no other reason than respect for you she should not have done that, or even considered it. Hope you find someone who will do you better.... | |
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WS6TA
| Joined: 4/26/2004 Msg: 45 | |
| Re: have you had an Posted: 10/8/2004 5:30:40 PM | | No none so far... But that's par for the course since I haven't got one from any of the other half a dozen sites that I'm on either. | |
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silken
| Joined: 8/19/2004 Msg: 46 | |
| Re: have you had an Posted: 10/8/2004 7:38:19 PM | I have a second 'date' with the first POF'r I met... he's invited me over to see his new place tomorrow.
Other than that, just talking to different people.... on here, on the local chatline, etc. 2 of the guys I met on the chatline and haven't spoken to for a couple months or so just contacted me this week and acted like nothing was wrong.... strange. ;) hehe
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Vanni
| Joined: 9/6/2004 Msg: 47 | |
| Re: have you had an Posted: 10/9/2004 1:50:54 PM | | I've met a couple ppls from this site actually. Some wierdo's out there man . But lots of really kewl ppls to .. Most of my dates went pretty good Hanged out had a couple beers talked was kewl . Nottin serious tho just meeting new ppls to hang out with and if there more well time will tell :) have fun all | |
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silken
| Joined: 8/19/2004 Msg: 48 | |
| Re: have you had an Posted: 10/9/2004 3:15:20 PM | Breaking news.....
The POF'r didn't call me till 4:30 today and I already made plans for tonight with someone else. Howeverrrrrrrr the second fellow has a history of being irresponsible so not sure whether that will go through or not. :)
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| Re: have you had an "Actual Date" with someone from here? Posted: 10/11/2004 9:31:33 PM | | JEDi is cute. haha. :D ne-who. i've never met anyone from this site, but i've had two boyfriend's from other sites' and they worked out good until the end. it is hard to find people that live close to columbia, mo to hang out with tho. :/ | |
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| Re: have you had an Posted: 10/11/2004 10:26:10 PM | | I'd definitely want to hang out, vodka. But then there's that whole not living close to you thing. Stupid distances. :P | |
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