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Posted: 6/13/2008 7:07:48 PM | i have never asked to kiss anyone
i have been asked to kiss though ....just didn't want to kiss that part of the body
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Posted: 6/13/2008 7:08:54 PM | here here girlfriend....yeah, a man that has confidence and can read my signals! good advice Amy!
But i'd like to be brave enough to ask a guy if i can kiss him! Not sure i could do that, let me see.
Gary, I think I'd really like to kiss you...would that be ok? | |
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Posted: 6/13/2008 7:13:10 PM | I don't ask, I read the language and just grab him and plant it in there! The best is when it happens where both of you at that moment are in the same place. That's magic.
But, there is something just so romantic about Rips kiss. Sigh, in the rain, on the porch, after a good night of conversation and mind tickles. | |
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Posted: 6/13/2008 7:19:34 PM | well i timed it that question took about 2.5 seconds to ask
that time could have been used much better if you just went to the kiss | |
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Posted: 6/13/2008 7:30:53 PM | Ahhh, I just wanted to try it and see what it felt like
Besides, you aren't here for me to just 'go for those lips" babycakes!
I agree Amy, I've read Rip's post several times and it always makes me sighhhh | |
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Posted: 6/13/2008 9:51:09 PM | i got a few hugs tonight, but no kisses! But i saw a few kissin  | |
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Posted: 6/14/2008 5:29:31 AM | Awwww you guys,,,,,,yeah that kiss was pretty sa-weeeet!! Butttttt,,,,of course there always has to be a freakin 'but' in there ( ). That next night which was Sunday night, i was driving to the local convenience store to grab a pop on my way into work and lo' and behold, there was Dans car at the gaspump and there was Dan walking towards his car. He looked in my direction as i was pulling into the parking lot, looked again, then got in his car and proceded to drive off!  When he got home from work Monday,, i told him id seen him and i KNOW he seen me, but of course, he denied he was even there! Well,,he did say he was there around that time but not getting gas or parked at the pumps. Plus he wasnt wearing what he told me he was wearing (i asked him what he was wearing). I knowwwww it was him; same make and color of car, tall guy (6'1), same short brown spikey-ish hair, mustache and long legs. That was him dang it but,,,he's denying it. Soooooooo,,,we havent spoke since Monday.
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Posted: 6/14/2008 5:40:36 AM | Doncha know? Men think they have that INVISIBLE suit on.....you know......
'Now you see me, now you don't'
Sorry, Rip, sweetie......darn them anyway!
From the 'lady' with the slime green suit........! | |
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Posted: 6/14/2008 5:47:04 AM | Arghhhh Jo and lighthouse, im just so confused as to why he'd act that way after a really nice night!! Yanno,,, i also told him that its a good g-d thing we didnt 'do anything' or id REALLYYYYY be p*ssed!
Here's one for the rule books: Men,,DO NOT pull the headgame crap on your women! | |
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Posted: 6/14/2008 5:49:06 AM | Well now. That makes the story less romantic lol.
Possible reasons for denial....
*He was buying you a gift at the gas station and didn't want to ruin the surprise. (Beef jerky or a car freshner?)
*He doesn't wear his glasses which he dearly needs and saw a blur but didn't realize it was you. (I've done this! I hate my glasses)
*He ate a bad donut and was so sick with fever he forgot what he was wearing.
Okay, I don't believe any of those either. If life gives you jerks Rip, make jerkaide. | |
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Posted: 6/14/2008 5:53:41 AM | Ohhhhhhh Yma,,,he is definitely JerkAide!! I wouldnt feed him to my worst enemy now! lolol
Have a soopa day all,,,,,,,,,gotta clean the house a bit. *yay* lol | |
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Posted: 6/14/2008 5:56:45 AM | YMA, you slay me.....
Other possible reasons.....
He smelled like gas and was......embarrassed......
He didn't shave and couldn't see past the fuzz......
He had his ex-girlfriend in trunk.....
He had just robbed a convenience store.....
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Posted: 6/14/2008 2:52:46 PM | Rip.....{{{HUGE HUGS}}} my friend, there just HAS to be a reason, there just HAS to be!   | |
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Posted: 6/14/2008 8:54:33 PM | Ok Ok Ok, Im going out on a limb here, and Im sure its going to break off out from under me and I dont care. No offense ladies, but I Have to ask.. that why is it that so many women say that they keep their private life private, but yet I see and hear them all talking about how thier date went in details to a group of their friends? That is NOT keeping things private. What goes on behind closed doors, stays there with me. I dont go around blabbing my sex life to the world. If I was out on a date and then seen a bunch 'discussing' the date and any 'action' that had taken place, I would be DONE! If you cant keep the details private then what else are you going to discuss about your new partner to others? A total turn off and deal breaker. Men are much more private than women for sure and if most guys are like me then youre just asking for trouble. I dont care what you may think, a mature guy (and not referring to age in any way) will keep his mouth shut about any intimate details. I dont get where the women get the idea that all guys run back to the buds saying, "oh yeah, I banged her last night" Thats a college kid mentality going on there... and are those guys 'mature'? Hell No!
From all the posts I have read, I must say I have a lot of respect for ghodie and Robbity for NOT sharing all the details. Two classy people in my book, yeah, they will tease a bit with minor details but thats it LoL That is perfectly fine and I salute the two of you and wish you the absolute best for you two!! 
Anyways, if you meet someone on here and then start dishing out all the details to others, well of course they are going to get p*ssed! I would too. Im not saying you need permission to talk about it date or whatever, but my God, use some judgment and decency and not to mention, respect the other persons privacy. If I had a date with someone on here and come back and seen her spilling some private moments in details, oh hell yeah, thats out of line with me. Private means private, just as No means No. Theres no grey area.
So maybe it didnt occur to you, that maybe he did see you but was pissed about the details flying around. I know it may not sound like much to you, but a private moment is just that with a guy... private. There is something else as well you may not have considered as to why he may not have seen you. Havent you ever had those days where you are just zoning... you go from one place to another or do a task and then another and dont remember doing anything? He might have had a lot on his mind and it didnt register that it was you till much later. There are many things that could have been going on that you are not aware of. Im not defending him specifically, Im just saying that we all do it at times and dont jump to conclusions. Be open minded. But dont forget it as well. It could be the start of a pattern, and it may not. Be on the look out but dont jump to conclusions. You can ague all you want with him about it, but I tell you, the only thing its going to do if you continue, is drive him away. It makes you appear as you are severely insecure and that you could be a high maintenance in the affection area or are the insanely jealous type.
Dont judge a whole relationship with just one date. Sorry to say, its not always going to be like that... as a guy, I will admit that once a guy 'captures' a woman, they almost always start the 'falling off' phase. Little by little they stop all those romantic things that they did to win you over. They become more and more infrequent. But I must admit, I do know women do the same as well... less make-up, less fancy dressing up and the like.
Ok, post bash away if you must, but dont expect reply to any of them, unless you have a good point or counter point. Its my opinion on the whole situation and some, what should be obvious, reality checks | |
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Posted: 6/15/2008 4:43:39 AM |
Hint for guys. If a girl is leaning into you, touching you, capturing your eye contact every chance she gets... KISS HER!
Hint for women: If you think your signs are that obvious, go to Man School!
Hint to men: You better be right! Oh wait. You already know that.
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Posted: 6/15/2008 4:53:40 AM | Oh Ak, is the you're from Venus were from Mars kinda thing?
I know some of the shy girls don't toss signs that easy. But trust me, the assertive ones are almost beating you over the head with it lol. And if you're not catching their signals, don't be shocked when they grab you and just plant it on you.  | |
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Posted: 6/15/2008 5:46:19 AM | Sargo....if you were referring to me and my guy,,this was not a first date and btw,,he is NOT from POF and sharing a story of a first kiss is not a big deal for crying out loud. Had i told everyone we had sex for 5 hours and how great he is in the sack, then i could see your point but we didnt have sex. We shared a kiss. We met way back in January and have been taking things sloooowlyyyyy. The night before the convenience store incident, that happend to be our first kiss. Had you read the WHOLE post, you'd have read he did admit to being at the store but not at the gas pumps which is where i seen him and he was pretty adamant about what he was wearing which wasnt what i seen. Zoning? No. He knew it was me. He looked my way,,then looked again, then got in his car and drove off.
Insecure? No,,more like pissed off. How do you think it makes a woman feel to finally make that connection with someone and then suddenly the next time she see's him he acts like he doesnt know her? C' mon, give me a f-ing break! Same make and model and color car? A guy of the same height, hair color, hair style, factial hair, same walk even? We live in a 3 traffic light town ffs.
Whatever. You are entitled to your opinion. You are an even bigger a**hole than he is and thats MY opinion. | |
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Posted: 6/15/2008 6:40:50 AM | And, Rip.......
Even if he WAS from POF, only a few of us read the forums.......
No user names are ever mentioned.....against the rules, anyway......
I think Sargo needs to switch to decaf.
Let's discuss those 'anger' issues! Don't forget, he drives 80 mph and refuses to use his signal lights...... | |
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Posted: 6/15/2008 6:56:59 AM | | You are right, Lighthouse! *drives to Kroger to buy up decaf for Sargo, using my turn signal as i turn into the parking lot' LOL | |
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Posted: 6/15/2008 7:01:41 AM | | You have NOTHING to worry about, Sargo....you are safe.....I don't think ANYONE is going to be raving about your kissing talents, etc, anytime soon! | |
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Posted: 6/15/2008 7:09:39 AM | <-------splashing water on the fire before it turns into 3 alarm
oops wrong kind of water that will only make it grow | |
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Posted: 6/15/2008 7:19:14 AM | | i think Kelly tried callin me from the mountains last night, the reception was bad, and i usually have signal problems there when i go down there...hope she took that rain with her!! | |
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