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 RUSpechul

Joined: 4/29/2008
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Posted: 6/15/2008 7:22:58 AM
i think the LOVE BIRDS are nesting! LOL
 ghodgie

Joined: 8/12/2006
Msg: 452
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Posted: 6/15/2008 7:24:18 AM
We are happy little people today
(opps it's me typing, not Hodgie)
Very tired but mmm,content! That slip and slide sure wears a person out!
 joannemeow

Joined: 2/10/2008
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Posted: 6/15/2008 7:25:03 AM
sarg, hon, guarantee no one will be posting about your kisses...

 sargo318

Joined: 5/11/2008
Msg: 454
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Posted: 6/15/2008 7:39:56 AM
LoL I guess not!

I dont get why all of a sudden everyone is getting so defensive about my post. I call it like I see it. So if that rubs people the wrong way, then so be it. Everyone wants honesty, and when they get it, they get defensive and angry... ??? Ok, if you cant handle it, then dont ask for it.

No, ripley, I didnt read the whole thread. So, my apologies there, but theres also the posibility that he was in a hurry and limited time to get things done and didnt want to stop and chat. Not saying that you wanted to do, but some guys tend to do that... if we are in a hurry and need to be off, we will avoid a casual contact in order to get done what we need to and avoid the 20 minute delay. Some will stop and say hello but will explain that they are time limited or whatever, or call you real quick on the cell phone to tell you after the sighting. Just ask him to call you or at least tell you that he doesnt have time. Some of us need to be blunt with and dont take hints well. We are not mind readers nor are we always considerate either.... were guys!

Oh well, Im an @sshole, thats fine with me. Personally I dont care. But you have to admit everything I said in my previous post is 100% true. It just doesnt fit your scenario at all (my bad for not reading the whole thread) but none the less, still true.

Oh and just for the record, Im an @sshole, Im a single @sshole parent with 4 kids (1 son and 3 daughters) all on my own (sole custody) for 9 years now. She decided that she didnt want to be a full time parent and partner anymore, so I told her its full time or not time. She figured her 'me' time was more important than the family. Ha, and Im the @sshole?

I see many of the same posters here do the same thing... its about poor ME crap. Women say men are blind? Pffft. Most of all relationship problems can be solved with some thinking. Think and feel with your brain AND your emotions. I see all to many base everything on one or the other... rarely both. As I remember a quote from a close friend of mine once said, "You have to feel what you are thinking"
 lighthouse lady

Joined: 3/4/2007
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Posted: 6/15/2008 7:51:19 AM
Oh, Sarge......no one's ANGRY......

We needed a good laugh this AM.........!
 RUSpechul

Joined: 4/29/2008
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Posted: 6/15/2008 7:58:54 AM
i am angry! WHO TOOK MY SUN??
 michkat55000

Joined: 5/4/2008
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Posted: 6/15/2008 8:01:03 AM
lol, i just have to reply to this post...ripadoodles, you are sweet, beautiful, intellegent, girlfriend you are the entire package...the "dude" isn't worth your time of day honey...i'd rather be single the rest of my life then put up with a male like you sargo...you are totally wrong in both posts...maybe when we were "kids" we put up with the nonsense of lack of consideration, but no time for it now...if a man ignored me in a public place after i dated him, first i'd cry, cause it would hurt my feelings...then i'd write him off so fast it would make his head spin...a**holes like you keep the good women down, because we're afraid we'll meet the likes of you

HUGE HUGS ripadoodles
 sargo318

Joined: 5/11/2008
Msg: 458
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Posted: 6/15/2008 8:04:31 AM
Oooo.... someone better give ghodie and Robbity the 'Birds and Bees' talk! I dont think your suppose to be using a Slip-n-Slide like that!!!!!
 ripley65

Joined: 2/8/2008
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Posted: 6/15/2008 8:07:39 AM
I dont get why all of a sudden everyone is getting so defensive about my post. I call it like I see it. So if that rubs people the wrong way, then so be it. Everyone wants honesty, and when they get it, they get defensive and angry... ??? Ok, if you cant handle it, then dont ask for it.


I didnt ASK for anything. I simply posted a follow up on a previous post id 'written' in a diff thread.


No, ripley, I didnt read the whole thread. So, my apologies there,


Uh,,,,,,duh!


but theres also the posibility that he was in a hurry and limited time to get things done and didnt want to stop and chat.


Well thats is all fine and hunky dory IF that had been the case and he'd told me that, but he flat out denied seeing me when it was obvious he did.


Oh well, Im an @sshole, thats fine with me.


Yes,,you are. Thats one thing i agree with.



But you have to admit everything I said in my previous post is 100% true. It just doesnt fit your scenario at all (my bad for not reading the whole thread) but none the less, still true.


No,,,its not true because the facts ARE that he lied and denied. ( hey i like that! lol)


nor are we always considerate either.... were guys!


Whaddya know,,,there's 2 things we agree on.



~~ Katadoodles,,thank you soooooooo much for actually understanding where my feelings are coming from!! Yes i was very very hurt! I had to leave that store and drive to work thinking what the hell did i do wrong and to try and leave my feelings at the door. After a wonderful night of kissing and cuddling then he goes and pulls that crap. :( Big big big hugggggs back atcha!!!
 RUSpechul

Joined: 4/29/2008
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Posted: 6/15/2008 8:37:52 AM
ok...Just got another call from Kelly...and she asks me what i would do if i was there...HELLO!! GO TO THE BEACH WOMAN!!!!! When winter hits, i surely wont call her and ask her what to do!! Darnit there aren't snowmobiles on here!!
 sargo318

Joined: 5/11/2008
Msg: 461
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Posted: 6/15/2008 8:48:05 AM

i'd rather be single the rest of my life then put up with a male like you sargo...you are totally wrong in both posts...maybe when we were "kids" we put up with the nonsense of lack of consideration, but no time for it now...


If I am so wrong in both posts then why do most of my male friends sit and complain about all these EXACT same issues that their women are pulling on them? I tend to be the one they come to when they need help. and Most of the time Im right and things work out for them. I am a damn good judge of character and have the 'jist' of what someone is all about within the first 15 minutes of meeting them. My one Ex that I am still good friends with always calls and asks my opinion about problems she may be having with her current guy. She wants a guys perspective on things I guess LoL But she tells me that I am rarely wrong.

I had to laugh when I read the last part of what I quoted "...maybe when we were "kids" we put up with the nonsense of lack of consideration, but no time for it now..." If that were true we wouldnt have people on here with crap in their profiles like... "I work 2 jobs and go to college part time, so i dont have any spare time, but I want to have a relationship too" Give me a fricking break! You dont have time but yet you want a relationship? No one in their right mind is going to try to have a relationship with a person like that if they are obviously NOT going to have time for them! Thats a joke. And Yes, I see it repeatedly. If you dont have time.. dont waste mine.
 joannemeow

Joined: 2/10/2008
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Posted: 6/15/2008 8:52:48 AM
sargo, there is a big difference between being honest and being rude. i was married to a man who always told me he was brutally honest. your wife left her children, shame on her. you sound like you hate females. let's be honest...
 michkat55000

Joined: 5/4/2008
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Posted: 6/15/2008 10:06:22 AM
lol, the kitty police are on patrol...poor sargo....meow
 ripley65

Joined: 2/8/2008
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Posted: 6/15/2008 10:09:10 AM
Yup Jo,,,,could very well be that he hates females because of his situation. And i also tend to think he is one of those He Man, chest thumpin, I-Wear-The-Pants, male chauvenists who'll never understand a woman type of man. He freely admits he is mostly always right. *rolls eyes* I suspect he will be a lonely man for a longggggg time.


lmao@kitty police!
 ghodgie

Joined: 8/12/2006
Msg: 465
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Posted: 6/15/2008 11:47:46 AM
Okay....let's all take a time out here. I'm really tired after last night on the ole slip and slide but i think my therapist skills are needed

Ripley my sweet to you! Your feelings are sooooo apppropriate! (my students and sons just HATE when I use that word cause they know there's more coming)

Sarge...let's try this, kick them shoes off for a second okay? Done? Good lad, now slide your feet into Rip's shoes, I know it's a tight fit but just try. (that means forget what you thought and let your mind be really open)

Okay,so you've been hurt before by a woman/ we've all been hurt before or we wouldnt be here right/ But imagine you've had a perfect date and she for NO reason blew you off because you talked to her and she just plain lied. You would be upset. If you had great friends on here that you KNEW would understand, this is where you'd come to post because we don't judge you, we are here for you to cry on our shoulder same as we cry on yours. It's SUSPOSE to be that way...we're not asking for advice and we know you wouldn't be asking for any if you posted this story, just support.

If you had a gret date with that perfect kiss we all had been waiting to hear about....of course you are going to come tell us..we are your girls! (remember you are Rip right now) We would LOVE your story book date and oooo and ahhh over it, I would reread it a half dozen times because i enjoyed it so much and was so happy for you. And I was also proud of you for making that first mmove you had been building up the courage to try, as we all were rooting for you.

It really was very tastefully written with not too much detail, very romantic!

I didnt see any poor me coming off the post from Rip, Sarge, all I saw and read was a girl with sadness and hurt sharing with us, which takes a brave sort to do. this is what we are here for. If you wanted to share pain with us, we would be here for you to do that also. BTW...we do all have poor me stories, you just shared yours about your exwife right now in your post, but no one took you to task and I bet you never once thought of it as a poor me story.
When i shared about my ex on one of the threads I guess it could be looked upon as a poor me story too but it wasn't meant as that either when I posted it. I don't think we mean or ever intend to post poor me stories and i hope you quit thinking of them as that. they are just simply life stories Sarge,
.....daily things that happen to make us who and what we are today.

Did I make any sense? Will you think about it please so that you can understand how your thinking was off on this one and then come back and kiss and hug my sweet friend and tell her men make mistakes and this one was a doozy?

She's awfully special, I bet she'll forgive and forget....i want us to alll share the love, well excpet for Hodgie, none of you are getting any of him

Now give Rip back her damn shoes, you're stinking them up...why do guys have such smelly feet?

Okay...time out's over....let's all play again
 ghodgie

Joined: 8/12/2006
Msg: 466
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Posted: 6/15/2008 11:48:51 AM
NO NO NO...that was me Robin posting...I am signed in under my own name! why is it showing hodgie???
 Robitty

Joined: 1/30/2008
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Posted: 6/15/2008 11:51:38 AM
Okay the last two posts plus this one are MINE MINE MINE...Hodgie didnt wite either one of them...I did darn it! he isnt even here, he's at home now, drat what is going on?
 RUSpechul

Joined: 4/29/2008
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Posted: 6/15/2008 12:15:02 PM
tryin to take Hodgies credit!! Tsk tsk!!
 Robitty

Joined: 1/30/2008
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Posted: 6/15/2008 12:25:16 PM
Don't you need to go take a nap or something?
I thought you said you were staying in bed and ordering pizza?
 RUSpechul

Joined: 4/29/2008
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Posted: 6/15/2008 12:37:10 PM
i did take one...the pizza girl isn't workin today!
 Yma67

Joined: 1/7/2008
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Posted: 6/15/2008 12:47:23 PM
Too bad you don't have a jetski or something to take to the lake on a nice day like today. Instead of making fun of poor innocent woman like Robin. Shame on you mister!
 RUSpechul

Joined: 4/29/2008
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Posted: 6/15/2008 1:07:22 PM
too late, its raining again! Darn Kelly is havin all the fun!
 Robitty

Joined: 1/30/2008
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Posted: 6/15/2008 3:20:37 PM
Thank you Amy...sniff sniff, he is being a sh*t With our beautiful state full of lakes he has only to drive a little ways to be out of that rain and on his jet ski rather than here bothering innocent women and children
With the weather so perfect here I'm not sure i'm buying his rain story
 RUSpechul

Joined: 4/29/2008
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Posted: 6/15/2008 4:21:48 PM
you buyin my gas??
 Yma67

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Posted: 6/15/2008 4:24:48 PM
Always an excuse with you!
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