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| what's wrong with me? (I get tired of people)
Posted: 11/3/2007 7:02:06 PM | | Glad I am not alone. I am the same but have not always been this way. Different cultures keep me going but anything else bores the heck out of me after awhile. Guess I fit in your retarded category. | |
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| what's wrong with me? (I get tired of people)
Posted: 11/3/2007 7:47:31 PM | Marianne...... you sound like a friend of mine. She told me it was because she was afraid of commitment. Every time a guy really starts liking her and they start to get close, she find things wrong with them.
I also think from an outside observation (with her situation), she picks men who give her the princess treatment. She likes for them to do it all. Call her, ask her out, treat her etc. So she chooses them at first because she feels special and gets the princess treatment. Then after some time, she gets annoyed by their personalities or habits. | |
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| what's wrong with me? (I get tired of people)
Posted: 3/8/2008 5:41:30 PM | Your view is limited -- limited to yourself.
I say this because I've been there. I needed to make a conscious effort to know things beyond myself. What do other people like to do? What do they read? How do they think?
When you get answers to these questions, you will find them strange -- unfamiliar is a better word -- because they are not from you. Once you start to digest these answers, if you are like me, you will begin to appreciate what other people are, what they like, how they act.
It seems to me you are bored with yourself. So try reaching out. You might find something or someone "out there" that interests you. | |
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| what's wrong with me? (I get tired of people)
Posted: 3/8/2008 7:14:11 PM |
and then one sees sooo many threads about women who cant find a nice guy...
can you blame so many guys for wanting 'intimate encounters' after reading this thread?
hell no.
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| what's wrong with me? (I get tired of people)
Posted: 3/8/2008 7:31:25 PM | What is the deal with people in this post sounding so anti social?
What is with this crap about getting so bored with people so easier?
Did it not occur to some people that maybe other people find them boring because they aren't being proactive in trying to get to know people?
Yes some people are boring but you also need to be more open and receptive to people, and to ask questions and be curious with people.
Sometimes you think you know someone but if you put some effort and ask people the right questions, you can learn amazing things about people.
We all have these preconceived notions of people and sometimes we all need to be a bit humble and 'empty our cup' so to speak so that we can look at people in a new light and perhaps not find them as boring. | |
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| what's wrong with me? (I get tired of people)
Posted: 3/8/2008 8:22:47 PM | OP. We feel for ya. It may be you. I do not mean this negatively but I think other posters have said it. Maybe you just don't know what you want. I also get tired of people easily and like another poster I realized it's because I am not learning anything, and the person is not stimulating my mind. So now I know to look for people excited about life and interested in new things. In the case of who you are dating now, you may wish to keep him. after all people are always changing. Maybe, if the problem is that he is not stimulating, you can plan things or explain that… well… you need a more mentally/physically (Not sex, damnit) active relationship with him. You never know he may step up.
My father always said "There is no such thing as boring things... just boring people." | |
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| what's wrong with me? (I get tired of people)
Posted: 3/9/2008 10:27:51 AM | People that find themselves being bored in a relationship have no business even being in relationships. They can only make themselves happy, NO ONE ELSE CAN do that for them.
As far as many women on here, especially the younger ones, they want to be wined and dined, taken to different places they haven't been before. They just plain wear your azz out with all the BS. The more mature women at least know what they want. | |
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| what's wrong with me? (I get tired of people)
Posted: 3/9/2008 10:40:54 AM | | I think I will agree with a few others inthat u probably1;don't know what u want from a possible mate--2;u r sabatoging ur relationships --and3rd;u really need to focus on something else for awhile and get acquainted with urself.......good luck and remember ur mama told u u better shop around!!!!!! | |
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| what's wrong with me? (I get tired of people)
Posted: 3/9/2008 11:21:58 AM | I do this EXACT same thing! I don't mean to but I just get tired of people fast. It's good to know I'm not alone XD From relationships that we see eachother all the time to relationships where I do. Even when I've been single a while.
Though to be fair, I do this with mostly everything. | |
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| what's wrong with me? (I get tired of people)
Posted: 3/9/2008 12:31:00 PM | marianne9999,
People who get bored fast usually seek constant excitement. The best thing for you to do is not get involved in a relationship, if you decide to date, then casual date, but no more than that. You have to also realize that YOU are responsible for your own happiness and excitement in life. Do you consider yourself to be an exciting person? If so, what makes you exciting? Try seeking people who have a similiar outlook on life as you do. Also I can tell by the way you wrote your post, that you are also extremely afraid of getting hurt and letting your guard down. | |
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| what's wrong with me? (I get tired of people)
Posted: 3/9/2008 12:46:27 PM | | There's nothing wrong with you(my oppinion)I'm the same way, I get tired or annoyed and just lose interest.I've been this way for some time now, don't know if it's short attention span thing or the other person just isn't right for me.I don't give them much of a chance, I seem to have a interest in someone and meeting and getting to know them but it's short lived. Maybe it's something from my childhood or past relationships but I know where your coming from, Keep searching and maybe that certain person will come along that you want to stay with. Good luck | |
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| what's wrong with me? (I get tired of people)
Posted: 3/9/2008 12:46:34 PM | lol, at least you actually get to the dating part. i get bored so easily just chatting. thats why im not looking for anything. and i have yet to have a gentleman keep in contact after we've met, for longer than a few weeks. blah....
next thread please.... | |
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| what's wrong with me? (I get tired of people)
Posted: 3/9/2008 1:16:17 PM | Your problem is you!
You are superficial. You feel lust and miske it for love(or maybe you know it).
Any relationship bsaed on lust will end in heartbreak. Even if you both have enough in common after the heat dies down you're really just two selfish people using and degrading each other like animals. This is your ego making your choices for you.
You hIf you ave a hunger in you that will never be fully satisfied because what you really seek is the light of your divine nature but the darkness in you won't let you admit it.
This is why you must properly get to know someone and bond with them first
in the holy union of marriage before you have sex.
This guy is probabaly weak for you and is using you as well. He needs the guidance of the father so he can guide you and not be tempted by you, but bring out your true loving nature. This is not any particulatr religion. Whatever faith you are christian, jew, muslim, whatever..this is how it is. Sex is not a recreation or diversion. If you use it for that you will keep getting what you get. It doesnt matter who the guy is or how many bools you read,or how often you go to church,or what shrink you go to.
Ask god to show you his will for you in these matters.  | |
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| what's wrong with me? (I get tired of people)
Posted: 3/9/2008 1:21:13 PM | I love when people make EVERYTHING into a religious thing. Stop preaching. By the way, this is coming from a pagan but aren't you disrespecting your "god" by not capitalizing God?
I guess that's why I get tired of people, I'm too easily amused. | |
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| what's wrong with me? (I get tired of people)
Posted: 3/9/2008 1:22:06 PM | | You're not alone in this obviously, i think this is a symptom of the internet dating age and the sweetie shop mentality, as soon as the rush of meeting someone new subsides we start picking faults in them because we know we can just go back online and try someone else kidding ourselves we are on a quest for perfection which ultimately does'nt even exist. | |
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| what's wrong with me? (I get tired of people)
Posted: 3/13/2008 10:56:44 AM | | i'm right there with ya!! they seem so great and you really like them and then like one day you wake up and its just not there anymore? that's me too! no guy can keep me interested more than a month and when it does last more than a month its usually because i don't know how to break it off. pah. i just think when the right person comes along then you can never tire of them. | |
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| what's wrong with me? (I get tired of people)
Posted: 3/13/2008 11:14:40 AM | | Maybe you need to go into therapy to find out why you're like this......maybe there really is no "wrong" or "right" with you......a good therapist can help you explore the rationale behind this....it could be something from your childhood. Therapy will work to help you if you WANT help for this "problem." | |
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