| what's wrong with me? (I get tired of people)
Posted: 3/13/2008 11:14:40 AM | | Maybe you need to go into therapy to find out why you're like this......maybe there really is no "wrong" or "right" with you......a good therapist can help you explore the rationale behind this....it could be something from your childhood. Therapy will work to help you if you WANT help for this "problem." | |
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| what's wrong with me? (I get tired of people)
Posted: 3/13/2008 1:53:31 PM | | Keep dating other people. If you're like me, eventually you'll find someone that just feels right and they likely won't be anything like you expected your "perfect match" to be. I was like that at your age (in fact, I was still like that a year ago)! | |
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| what's wrong with me? (I get tired of people)
Posted: 3/13/2008 1:54:09 PM | | I get bored easily too. In the past it was the bfs who were on the same wave length as myself that were the most fun to be with. I am not a boring individual. You just need someone who is compatible with you. | |
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| what's wrong with me? (I get tired of people)
Posted: 3/13/2008 3:33:13 PM | Don't worry about it, enjoy yourself while you're young.
If you're still single around 30ish then you can start worrying.
Someone else said it well here. "In your 20s you are a hot commodity, but in your 30s you become a depreciating asset". | |
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| what's wrong with me? (I get tired of people)
Posted: 3/13/2008 3:47:13 PM | Relationships can be exciting to start with then they slowly become boring.
Some people are happy with a dull relationship and find it secure.
Other people need permanent excitement.
Nice guys are great but they can be boring too.
This explains why a lot of women like bad boys ! | |
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| what's wrong with me? (I get tired of people)
Posted: 3/13/2008 7:35:46 PM | "In my experience most people who get bored easily are boring people who depend on others for their own excitement. "
LoL, so true.
But you got to give her credit, shes not blaming others, she is genuinely trying to improve/better (knows something wrong and fixing it) herself. | |
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| what's wrong with me? (I get tired of people)
Posted: 3/13/2008 7:46:58 PM | | Maybe you should do like most guys do in this situation.... realize that you just aren't relationship material (at this time, at least) and find booty calls. Only women act like they are "too good" for having just friends-with-benefits though, even when it's painfully obvious (like in this situation) that they aren't quite cut out for relationships. | |
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| what's wrong with me? (I get tired of people)
Posted: 3/13/2008 7:51:10 PM | When you become comfortable with someone or spend a lot of time with a special someone their manurisms can start to really get on your nerves this happens to me too. It's not that there is something wrong with you but there are things that you can do to correct this. Just think in a different perspective. It's a lot harder than it sounds seriously I've tried. Like those corny little jokes she makes just try to find them endearing. Hopefully this solves your problem. If someone is a little distant and not detail oriented you can just say that their blunt and to the point. As much as i hate this above all else. You can say that it's just thier way of expresing themselves. Idk i read this on some website. | |
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