| So please tell me...what is it with (some) men that think younger women are better???
Posted: 5/17/2005 8:14:42 PM |
Nothing funnier than the sight of a man with an erection that won't go away for another 3 3/4 hours! Kind of like T-ball. No pitcher needed.
I find that older men have many more issues than younger men. They're at a stage in their lives where, for some reason, they are into proving something. I'm sure not all, but many are. Maybe it's their last hurrah as far as their macho thing is concerned? That might be the reason for the younger women, I think.
Is it my imagination? | |
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| So please tell me...what is it with (some) men that think younger women are better???
Posted: 5/17/2005 8:17:04 PM | I should have noted that maturity gaps tend to taper off after 25-30.In other words a ten yr difference between a 25yo and 15 yo is HUGE,but the same most likely can NOT be said of 35yo and 25yo and even less difference between a 35yo and 45yo.
Moral of this story is....if you see a profile of someone over 35 who is looking for a non platonic friendship with someone "18 and up",Don't sweat it......take like a sign that says SEVERE ISSUES    | |
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| So please tell me...what is it with (some) men that think younger women are better???
Posted: 5/18/2005 7:00:05 PM |
Speaking for myself....being with a younger man does not make me feel younger....quite the opposite....think about it.
That's true. Being with someone younger can only serve to remind one that one no longer shares the same habits:
No longer do you care to share with your younger boyfriend the desire to blast the bass on your music system so loud that it causes your condo building to vibrate.
No longer do you wish to share with your mate the longing to take 10 times in a row, the biggest, fastest, most twisting roller coaster ever made on the planet till you both vomit.
No longer do you find it fascinating to go out with your boyfriend to clubs, then stay up till 5 a.m. dancing drunk with people of your own gender while your boyfriend and other men watch. 
Oh yes.. lots of stuff you can't share with your younger boyfriend because, frankly, you'd find it about as fascinating and tolerable as scratching your nails on a chalkboard. | |
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| So please tell me...what is it with (some) men that think younger women are better???
Posted: 6/5/2005 9:18:06 AM | Why would an older man, who obviously is at the sunset of his years, want a younger woman at his side? It's obvious! To pretend he's still young, and not at the sunset of his years.
Usually, the older male who wants to be at the side of a younger female, has to have something really good to give her, since he can't give her what a young man can: good looks, youth, vitality, the same interests in music, similar culture, greater fertility, greater virility, etc. That something he gives her can be money, power connections, a name that will give her prestige, a fortune, things that can benefit her. | |
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| So please tell me...what is it with (some) men that think younger women are better???
Posted: 6/5/2005 9:38:50 AM | | all the replies ive read to the original post on this topic have been a little catty and oppinionated and have been written with little thought. you've all talked about age difference clearly from a sexual point of view, mainly i think because it makes good gossip. so, are we talking about sex or age difference as a whole? because personaly i dont care if she's 18 and he's 80 or visa versa, if theyre happy together then good luck to them i say. i like older women and i like younger women, but its the qualities of the person i'm attracted to not their age | |
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| So please tell me...what is it with (some) men that think younger women are better???
Posted: 6/5/2005 9:46:50 AM | There seems to be an attitude with older men ( over 40) that they DESERVE a younger woman. This is especially true if they have achieved any sort of success in their lives and is doubly true if they are in decent shape and managed to retain some hair.
In the past, women tended to select mates based on the ability to provide for the wife and family, both physically and financially, so older men were naturally attractive to young women. With women in the workforce and being financially independent, this is no longer the case, but men seem to have missed the change in society!!
Financial independence and security also means women are free to choose their man merely based on physcial attraction.....which partly explains why there are now "cougars".
The shift in age preference by women is a very interesting sociological subject... | |
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| So please tell me...what is it with (some) men that think younger women are better???
Posted: 6/5/2005 10:02:59 AM | well the crisis of the 40 i know, a man from work told me that he was the same age of me and he is 42 and i am 32, so another man very good friend of mine 26, one day said to him u could be the father of sillispoke.
Well he honestly thing he has possibilities with younger woman and he is not even goodlooking
last time that i went out with him he almost had a fight, he was going after 24 years old
well, why, i suppose younger woman are more sexy, but maybe it is somethings else. | |
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Darma
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| So please tell me...what is it with (some) men that think younger women are better???
Posted: 6/5/2005 10:07:40 AM | The first thing that comes to my mind is the youthfull appearance, presence, and the hot body of alot of the younger ones.
What I have also come to learn from a few men is that the things mentioned above are what attracts them to younger women, but their immature attitude and naiveness is a very quick buzz kill. Im not talking *all* younger women, but alot of them in their early twenties are acting their age so to speak, and are very self absorbed and immature.
In the end, I think alot of men would rather someone more mature, and forego the hot body and short skirts for a more meaninful passionate R that can't be had with someone of limited experience. | |
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| So please tell me...what is it with (some) men that think younger women are better???
Posted: 6/5/2005 10:11:16 AM | What I have also come to learn from a few men is that the things mentioned above are what attracts them to younger women, but their immature attitude and naiveness is a very quick buzz kill. Im not talking *all* younger women, but alot of them in their early twenties are acting their age so to speak, and are very self absorbed and immature.
 Great post!
I think all of us, when we're in our teens and twenties are more in love with our mirrors (and shopping) than anyone or anything else. | |
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| So please tell me...what is it with (some) men that think younger women are better???
Posted: 6/5/2005 10:33:08 AM | | i really have no wonderful answer for this 1 i wish id did the only 1 i have is from my ex-husband hes 35 dated a few women his age and older they were more interested in his $$ and settling down kids house etc.... now hes dating a 21 yr old with no cares in the world who thinks playing house will be fun - can't wait till reality bites them in them in the a__lol too make it short i agree i think its the whole she will be "beautiful " alittle longer but it all catches up as time goes by. but then again i also think it has something to do with the i do kind of women he says jump she says how high which some men look for although they dont let u know that from the beginning thats just my personal opinion from past experiences | |
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| So please tell me...what is it with (some) men that think younger women are better???
Posted: 6/5/2005 11:21:51 AM | Sorry, this is verbose........ I haven't read all the post so it may be redundant.
In my opinion, "onthebus" on page 1 nailed part of the equation. As in all living creatures, survival of the species is our bottom line programming. This also brings in the looks factor, curvy, firm body and breasts, it relates to child bearing. Just as men who represent power, represent the ability to protect and provide (whether it be money or Alpha Male looks and attitude) will always attract more females.
Bottom line programing, we cannot escape it, but we can grow above it. By being aware of it.And it just so happens a man can possess power in one form or another into old age. While us middle age woman are sexually at a high, we are not as young and firm. Our basic reproductive power is not so much a primitive draw anymore. (The bottom line reason woman at middle age are more "horny" is our bottom line programming is being threatened, "last chance for reproduction")
Much of the other part I think has to do with the desire and or ability to grow emotionally and mentally. Desiring a simpler or more naive creature keeps one from having to look within.
They are not being touched in the areas they work so hard to avoid. I have heard many men comment that "younger women have less baggage." They aren't challenged to look within. A younger person may not expect as much personal responsibility from them. Or have the self esteem to delve deeper into their partner emotionally. Thus keeping them from having to tap into all their stuffed/repressed/ignored garbage, which is very traumatic for many. But it is those very men who help start the woman's baggage collection.
Also a younger woman won't likely have a well developed career, home, and thus they are less complicated and relocatable.
I personally, have always been drawn to older men. 1. Because I am likely to find them much more mentally stimulating. 2. They have been around the block so to speak and have hopefully been learning from life experiences.
Lately the gap is slowly narrowing, mostly because they are getting older too, less physical energy. I am very energetic. But I still fin them usually more mentally stimulating.
More in touch with themselves. | |
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| So please tell me...what is it with (some) men that think younger women are better???
Posted: 6/5/2005 1:26:58 PM | IMO, coming from the "younger women" not all men are attracted to the younger female, yes maybe alot of them look, but only a select few will actually have enough b*lls to approach us. And the reason why so many women get hooked on these "older" men is because they dont come to the table with only sex on their mind, (if they do, they hide it very well) I find that "older" men always go out of their way to make sure that the women they are with is comfortable and that her needs are taken care of. (no not always sexual, remember what needs you had in your 20's, well they havent changed)
And for the more mature women who are opposed to this.. remember what its like to be in your 20's.. you wanted the same kind of attention, Im sure you were tired of being looked at like a toy and wanted a decent conversation with someone without them looking at your chest.
So I find it very unfair that us younger women who prefer the company of "older" men are getting a bad rap, nothing has changed since you were our age, execpt you have gotten older, like so many men and women have come to say, its human nature, it has been like this this for many generations and its not going away, there is no point in complaining about it and being bitter, when Im older and if one of my exes decided to date younger I will say go right ahead, more power to him. If he feels he has enough stamina to keep up with a young lady, Im going to take some credit for that, beacuse it was me who kept him feeling good and young at heart.
For the older ladies, dont you feel good about yourselves if a younger man gives you a compliment, or shows you attention?? so why do you feel the need to come down on the younger women or even the men, very hypocritical I think. If you feel you have alot of energy and that all the men are drawn to us younger women, try dating a younger man and see how it feels.
This was meant as my opinion and hope its treated as such, no intentions to make any digs at anyone.
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Joined: 4/23/2005
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| So please tell me...what is it with (some) men that think younger women are better???
Posted: 6/5/2005 1:30:59 PM | | I think that the physical age doesnt' matter. What attracts me personally in someone younger than me is the generation. from one generation to another people change. I always thought i lived in the worst generation because it wasn't the sixties nor the 90's when things started to take a better turn. THe 80's were cool in some degree but it was a transition between two good era to be in. | |
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