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 lonertx63
Joined: 4/5/2005
Msg: 76
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I never said younger women are better.
 Goddard
Joined: 2/17/2005
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 lonertx63
Joined: 4/5/2005
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 mitgrad00
Joined: 2/28/2005
Msg: 79
So please tell me...what is it with (some) men that think younger women are better???
Posted: 6/5/2005 5:21:26 PM
"I never said younger women are better. "

I said younger women are more fertile.
 lonertx63
Joined: 4/5/2005
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 dino12
Joined: 5/31/2005
Msg: 81
So please tell me...what is it with (some) men that think younger women are better???
Posted: 6/5/2005 5:34:28 PM
I have said nothing in this thread......

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 salamander000
Joined: 10/26/2004
Msg: 82
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So please tell me...what is it with (some) men that think younger women are better???
Posted: 6/5/2005 5:54:44 PM
ha, yes you did,
ok why do older people look like asses? That was a rude comment! And what is older? over 45?

The thing is that once a person is past their prime, they should have a little self-respect for themselves, and stop making a complete and utter ass of themselves by pretending they're still young and should hang out with someone younger. Don't you agree?
nope!
and what the heck does this mean? Is it a threat?

@ Salamander - We'd better keep a close eye on you
 Cristine
Joined: 9/29/2003
Msg: 83
So please tell me...what is it with (some) men that think younger women are better???
Posted: 6/5/2005 5:58:42 PM
It seems to me that many men think that women in their 30's are in some big hurry to have children and be married... so if a man doesn't want that right away then going for that younger girl would be better suited for what he is looking for.

That is completely general but it is my answer.
 stillooking64
Joined: 5/15/2005
Msg: 84
So please tell me...what is it with (some) men that think younger women are better???
Posted: 6/5/2005 6:47:03 PM
Well lets see I married her when she was 27 ,and I was 32.
The sex was great up until she turned 32 and it was like night and day she was like it isnt important yeah I admit nice but not important to have sex.
Take her back to 27 and she would never make that kind of statment.
I have often been told that she loved how I could always make sure she was satisfied.
I guess I should have not satisfie her that well huh.
after a few children wemon dont want sex as much ,and yes at 40 wemon most women go through a change ,but the sad part about it some dont want to stay faithful long enough to make it too that point in life to be able too satisfie their husband.
So to answer your question on my behalf.
I'ts because younger wemon have less kids so they are willing to be more aggressive with a male .
Also they are not as set in there ways and become stubborn enough to say well if he thinks he's going to get sex then he has got another thing coming.
Like your a born again Virgin.
I guess what im trying to say is loosen up dont try to be so hard us.
Men like soft things ,and that means soft bodies ,and yeah soft affection.
I think yeah a women that will do anything to satisfie their man to no means is always more attractive than the one that has been through a bad relationship too say I did it for the last co.. sucker why do it for this one .
see what I mean.
If an older woman were to treat me like i was what she's been looking for all her life then I would definatly treat her the same.
Enough said bye
 krayon
Joined: 5/12/2005
Msg: 85
So please tell me...what is it with (some) men that think younger women are better???
Posted: 6/5/2005 7:01:24 PM
I gave a response in another thread to do with marriage or living together..which probably belonged more in this one.

Real life experience drawing upon here:

In the last 3 1/2 yrs, I've had 3 marriage proposals. Age range 30-45.

Dating is showing me that a lot.. a LOT of men in their 30s-40s prefer women in their 40s-50s (without so much emphasis on "looks"). Many either have all the kids they already want or simply do not want any biological children.
A lot of men in their 50s or older, want women in their 50s IF they are petite or tall & leggy (sad but a lot of times, the case unfortunately), or..to the extreme..the wayyy younger women...i.e emphasis on "looks". Almost the complete opposite of the younger guys.

I am speaking from my own personal experiences; however, there are certain "biological/forces of nature" reasons which drive this attitude.
 SaritaTallahassee
Joined: 12/3/2004
Msg: 86
So please tell me...what is it with (some) men that think younger women are better???
Posted: 6/5/2005 7:55:50 PM
The rule of thumb is that the bloom is off the rose at 30. With the junk food diets and early sex, many females are expired at 25. Women who delay getting married until their thirties are ignoring basic biology. Why do kittens stop being cute? WHy do babies stop being cute? Why don't we celebrate the fact that men don't lose their looks and sex appeal as they age? We should look on the positive side of things. I hate sour grapes.


Spazz, it's nice that you're trying to keep your spirits up at your age, but the truth is, the bloom is off most everyone by 30. However, with men it's not just their face and body, like with women, it's also their magic wand, which begins to falter. Eventually, instead of being at the 180 degree angle facing up towards the sun as it was once at 20, it soon begins to aim towards that 180 degree angle that looks down on the street sewers. Life is a b itch, ain't it?
 Suzzanne
Joined: 5/3/2005
Msg: 87
So please tell me...what is it with (some) men that think younger women are better???
Posted: 6/5/2005 8:02:27 PM
saritamaimi,

Maybe I've been lucky and all the men over 50 and 60 who have made love to me, have never used viagra or anything as far as I know. I'll admit they ask a lot questions and get "turned on" by my answers, (maybe I am wicked), which leads m to believe what I have heard "sex is 95% mental and only 5% physical." An older man looks upon my kinky behaviour as a "turn on" and doesn't try and compete; the young mostly say: "You like this better, don't y'"

That's me. Sincerely Suzzanne
 grubeci
Joined: 10/30/2003
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So please tell me...what is it with (some) men that think younger women are better???
Posted: 6/5/2005 8:07:25 PM
I will agree old wine and parmesean cheese just is better..but you have to savor...and slow down..and experience...kinda what I wanted withy my young woman as we grew old together....but not lilke cheese...thats cheesy and middle school. Now, I want to grow fast with my old woman? Nope. Older okay? Growing old slowly is better...time slows...down...when you're watching the clock...in her eyes...unwinding to the sound of your breathing...maybe together...at least..thats what hallmark told me to say...Hallmark..who can stop them? They don't make them like they used to and...experience counts. (!) ;)
 SaritaTallahassee
Joined: 12/3/2004
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So please tell me...what is it with (some) men that think younger women are better???
Posted: 6/5/2005 8:09:41 PM
Maybe I've been lucky and all the men over 50 and 60 who have made love to me


Wow! And you're 22?

By the way, according to Spazzyone, you have exactly 3 years left before you "expire."
 Suzzanne
Joined: 5/3/2005
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So please tell me...what is it with (some) men that think younger women are better???
Posted: 6/5/2005 8:11:32 PM
wateroulzel

If a woman is at her peak at 40, I'm only 22 now, what will I be like at 40..maybe by then we'll have more hours in a day,

Sincerely Suzzanne
 krayon
Joined: 5/12/2005
Msg: 91
So please tell me...what is it with (some) men that think younger women are better???
Posted: 6/5/2005 8:14:00 PM
sarita has a point. It's biology.
Use to be a closely guarded secret among the ranks (men) but, with the sales (massive quantities), it has now come into the open.

As to what Suzzan said, probably wouldn't know 99.9% of the time when the men were taking the meds. No need to think you would. Also, both men and women like "kinky" if that's their thing...has nothing to do with you being a younger woman with older men.

When common sense is used, the obvious is... obvious.
 Suzzanne
Joined: 5/3/2005
Msg: 92
So please tell me...what is it with (some) men that think younger women are better???
Posted: 6/5/2005 8:17:05 PM
salamander000

I don't where you find your young men, but all I've found was those who say they can do it all night. Ohhh Yes, they go through the motions, but they are only trying to "prove themselves." an older man will actually Make Love All Night, with a host of different tactic to please. his only competition is another woman, because there is much more variety.

Sincerely Suzzanne
 Suzzanne
Joined: 5/3/2005
Msg: 93
So please tell me...what is it with (some) men that think younger women are better???
Posted: 6/5/2005 8:28:53 PM
sillyspoke,

Why do so many get it all so wrong. Yes there a lot of older men who look at much younger women and try and fail, BUT there are those oldies who have an appeal and there are many more young girls than you'd imagine, that enjoy what they have to offer. Older men love "French Kissing." How many young men have you sillyspoke, or any others known who can do it before and after?

Sincerely Suzzanne
 Too Serious
Joined: 5/11/2005
Msg: 94
What is it with (some) men that think younger women are better???
Posted: 6/5/2005 8:37:27 PM
Just two questions:

1). At 85 of age, shaking from all joints and losing air at every step, how does one look with a 82-year old companion who herself is in the same situation?

2). Isn't it better for somebody at 85 to have a much younger companion, say 65 of age, to help through the day as an appreciation of former commitment?
 Jetplague
Joined: 4/4/2005
Msg: 95
What is it with (some) men that think younger women are better???
Posted: 6/5/2005 8:38:37 PM
I have no answer.
 mixeduplori
Joined: 1/23/2005
Msg: 96
What is it with (some) men that think younger women are better???
Posted: 6/5/2005 8:54:51 PM
just 2 answers my opinion!
Too Serious 1) that would be growing old together i would think in a matter of speeking a cute old couple 2) although it sounds good there i home care to help through the day
 Too Serious
Joined: 5/11/2005
Msg: 97
What is it with (some) men that think younger women are better???
Posted: 6/5/2005 9:09:22 PM

just 2 answers my opinion!



 mixeduplori
Joined: 1/23/2005
Msg: 98
What is it with (some) men that think younger women are better???
Posted: 6/5/2005 9:33:17 PM
waterouzle- hope i got it right! just wanted to say thx for bringing this issue up although there will never be a real good answer just personal opinions i think the best way to look at it is dif things make dif people happy whether its for the moment or forever lol like i started to say earlier xhubby is dating a 21 yr old was kind of bitter at 1st( not why some r prob thinking ill make it quick i dated a man for 6 mths we broke up np she starts dating him then they broke up she now dating my x & i have no idea where she came from lol) but whens hes happy im happy keeps him away from me

im surprised no 1 has really reversed this and mentioned "cougars" or maybe they did and i missed it!
 rhiannyn
Joined: 2/15/2005
Msg: 99
What is it with (some) men that think younger women are better???
Posted: 6/5/2005 9:54:17 PM
<--- a proud cougar... well actually... i'm now in the panther class ;) 20s = cubs; 30s = pumas; 40s = cougars; 50s = panthers....

i already posted on this topic, nothing more to say about it ;)
 mixeduplori
Joined: 1/23/2005
Msg: 100
What is it with (some) men that think younger women are better???
Posted: 6/5/2005 10:03:22 PM
if i am as lucky to look as good as u when im in your age range id be very proud too hopefully i will thx for the wild cat break down!
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