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Posted: 11/7/2007 5:38:12 AM | The way I see it is he is married and having a fling. Not separating. Not divorcing. Not getting back with her - as they have always been together. He is cheating on his wife and you are the other woman. If I am wrong, then you are a friend with benefits (why he's not meeting your friends and why your not meeting his). My theory is the first one - he is cheating.
He is using you, he's not confused. You need to break all ties with him.
BTW - he can check a little box in the settings so that he can view anyones profile and it doesn't show up in the 'viewed me' section. | |
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Posted: 5/21/2009 6:28:42 AM | He's lying to you.
I'm in the not-going-very-well process of leving my wife (who is resisting strongly). Yeah, my profile says separated, but that's currently a goal. (We split briefly and I couldn't take the grief I was getting).
So, I'm a liar, right? Uh no, I'm not ... I don't and wouldn't start a relationship until 'm better sorted out. So right now I'm looking in the pond - there HAS to be something better than my current situation.
If you're separated, you're separated - you'll post a picture, you'll see her friends, you'll be available nights and weekends, after a couple of dates she'll meet your kids if she wants to.
If he's not doing those things, he's a liar. (When I have my OWN place I'll post my picture).
DEMAND honesty (yeah, my profile is misleading but when I wrote it I WAS separated - until my daughter convinced me to move back). | |
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Posted: 5/21/2009 7:25:11 AM | Nothing confusing about this at all. The man is still married to his wife and cannot afford to be seen by others or have you seen by others as his wife would find out that he is cheating on her. He is looking for fun on the side. Meanwhile, he has found someone else to toy with but wants to keep you hooked just in case he needs sex.
Move on. There are much better men out there who are honest and actually looking for a loving and caring relationship that is exclusive. | |
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