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What do you put in your first mail to some one?
Posted: 11/3/2009 9:18:57 AM
Question:
I get a lot of "Hi Sexy Lady. I'm a high sex driven man who needs a high ext drive woman. If this discribes you, please say hi back."

Now this to me says nothing about what attracted him in my profile to say hi, other than he;d probably screw nywone who responded and was willing to meet. Since this isn't my goal in being here, and I think this form of opening completely inapproptrate as an opener I just detlete these types of responses. About 80% of my responses are along these lines. Do other women get a lot of these? I want to find my best friend in a partmnet and since sex is a part of a halthy and loving relationship I think that conversation is something to be broached after first meeting and establishing a contectuin where both are willing to want to meet again because there was a mutual connection, attractuinm and desure ti want ti jniw nire abiyt each other/

Just why is it so many men simply open first emails this way.. to me it's like saying I haven't got much of a personality or brain but I love to f,,,,,,,k,, insterested? Any woman with class would block this blatant approach that makes her feel completely unappealing in any other regard. Any ideas out there on this topic?
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