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 taa4u

Joined: 9/24/2009
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How tolerant are you?
Posted: 9/27/2009 10:15:37 AM
I will tolerate most things, but not lies or violence.
 kez~angel

Joined: 4/5/2006
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Posted: 9/27/2009 11:33:36 AM
My tolerance levels vary depending on the situation/person/inanimate object.

Sometimes I can tolerate vast amounts and others I'm just a ticking time bomb
 Rossjackson1985

Joined: 4/7/2009
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Posted: 9/27/2009 11:38:06 AM
i'm incredibly tolerable.. but i will stand up for what i believe etc.. but annoying people and stupid people i just ignore.. i am quite arrogant like that.. i am also quite laid back =D
 *~*Posh*~*

Joined: 8/13/2009
Msg: 54
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Posted: 9/27/2009 12:24:17 PM
Aww this was my old thread. I used to be sprite56. I think I gave myself 8/10 for tolerance but recently Ive been more of a 6/10. I guess it depends on what's going on in my life at the time.


Same as Lyn, mine was 2/10, but guess it must be a 4 now, due to the numpties/Troll's no longer having the intelligence to make me

Now they just make me

Either that or they have desensitised my faculty's ...

 Pimp Mustapha

Joined: 8/9/2009
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Posted: 9/27/2009 12:26:23 PM
Extremely tolerant - now don't ask me again damnit!
 Flathead 45

Joined: 6/4/2009
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Posted: 9/27/2009 12:53:46 PM
If you want to know how tolerant people can be then just read the threads that involve views on peoples driving, smoking or the difference between the sexes.

I used to be as tolerant as a small town loisiana sheriff on a badhair day but these days i'm a lot more liberal, everybody gets three chances before the can of whup-ass gets opened.
 hunnibelle

Joined: 2/6/2008
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Posted: 9/27/2009 1:54:20 PM
I am extremely tolerant everything goes straight over my head I take no offence to anything that is ever said to me I just smile and agree with everything If you have read some of the posts I have contributed to you will know how true that all is lol
 what-a-knob-head

Joined: 9/24/2009
Msg: 58
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Posted: 9/27/2009 4:16:42 PM
Someone gets a parking ticket, so they spend the rest of the day in a bad mood, whilst I spend the rest of the day laughing at them and telling traffic warden jokes. Then they walk out of the room in a huff. Damn intolerant fools!
 -Pigeon-

Joined: 5/22/2009
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Posted: 9/28/2009 3:06:20 AM
I have no tolerance.

Stupid people
Smelly people
Old people
Small children
Lame people
Nerdy people
Really fat people
Really skinny people

They all do my head in.
 xxDonnaDiAxx

Joined: 9/24/2009
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Posted: 9/28/2009 3:37:53 AM
I tend to be more of a relaxed person and tolerance i think is either part of your personality or it isnt we cant teach ourselves to be more tolerant, unless something affects me directly i can be very easy going and shrug stuff off, if it hurts me or my family or friends then im a hell of a lot less tolerant i suppose.

Ignorance, bad manners, someone being patronising ill usually just think "wow youre not my sort of person at all" and just walk away not really intolerant of people because they are skinny or fat or old though?
 samstyles

Joined: 6/6/2009
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Posted: 9/28/2009 4:05:04 AM
At work I can be pretty strict and expect a bit too much from project outputs, but with people, ones I care about, its a totally different kettle of fish.

I've realised that I haven't got "doormat" stamped on my head, I'm just too tolerant... I encourage people to think taking me for granted is ok by being too tolerant in the first place.

I have started having higher expectations and wanting more consistency from people in my life, to imagine its too much for them is doing them a disservice anyway. It helps them understand what I need from them, which I'm sure they prefer to me somewhere down the line starting to resent what I'd not complained about earlier!

There is a balance between give and take, being kind, and being spineless! Its ok to let people lean on you, as long as they know they are doing and it's not all one way all the time.

Also, I think another reason I've been like that is to avoid confrontation, but all it does is create a pressure cooker, turning one day's mole hill into a build up of mole hills over many days until they're a mountain or even an earthquake waiting to explode in some people's cases!

In situations where its better to let it go like water off a duck's back, I usually can. People at work have asked me before how I put up with a certain colleague's rudeness towards me, but I really don't care. Sometimes I get a bit irritated, but I cover it well. Sometimes I find it funny, as no one is under any confusion as to who is acting professionally and who is not.

My ex used to find it frustrating to the point of hysteria when I stopped letting his ranting get to me and just answered in as few a words as possible as calmly as still water. :wink:
 SwanSpirit

Joined: 10/30/2008
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Posted: 9/28/2009 5:23:03 AM
Hmmm maybe our level of tolerance can't be measured by ourselves, maybe it needs to be measured by those around us, I know a few intolerant people in RL who would answer this thread with a 'yes I'm very tolerant'. Tolerance levels is all subjective isn't it.

I'm told I'm extremely calm and tolerant, and yet I know I'll stand my ground with things that matter to me even if that makes me 'intolerant'. Maybe that comes with age.
 ~*chelle~shock*~

Joined: 7/11/2008
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Posted: 9/28/2009 1:46:43 PM
My tolerance levels reduced to boiling point at the weekend after three months.
My seventeen year old son and my 31 year old (still very immaturely child minded) brother living under the same roof is a horrible combination!
Neither one of them will own up to mess or destruction. They get annoyed if they have to clean up behind one another and hence they don't so after long shifts away from home they kindly leave it to me along with cleaning, cooking, gardening, DIY and mending broken things.
If I could swear about them in a whole sentence right now I would.
By god us women are not half paying for this independent lifestyle!

Rant over for now but seeing as it took me three months am scoring myself as a ten!
 SwanSpirit

Joined: 10/30/2008
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Posted: 9/28/2009 2:32:41 PM
You sound a bloody saint Chelle.

I'd have thrown a strop way sooner than that!
 ~Hams~

Joined: 9/18/2008
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Posted: 9/29/2009 1:51:04 AM
Msg 63

You should stop cleaning up after your 2 sons.

If they make a mess just leave it even if your house soon resembles the local dump,

They will soon realise they don't like living in filth and start to clean up their own mess

Go on strike!


As for how tolerant am I?

I used to be very but things like bad manners make my blood boil and will make me react.

I might have bitten my tongue before and not said anything but not anymore!
 ~*chelle~shock*~

Joined: 7/11/2008
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Posted: 9/29/2009 2:46:17 AM
One is my son the other one my free loading brother. They don't mind living in filth at all. I tried leaving it and leaving it but it bothers me! I am not mad on housework and cleaning but I can't live in filth.
 Macforty

Joined: 2/12/2009
Msg: 67
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Posted: 9/29/2009 3:41:25 AM
I'm extremely tolerant but only of those people, places or things that are worthy of it !!
 vwulme

Joined: 10/18/2008
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Posted: 9/29/2009 11:19:14 AM
Oh Mac I so agree if I were a doormat I would be cast out from the doormat union for biting prats up the bum. FFS we only have one life honesty is cool IMHO
 cutiebird

Joined: 8/4/2009
Msg: 69
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Posted: 10/8/2009 2:35:13 AM
I can tolerate most thing's, apart from oppression, terrorism. Oh and pain when it's really bad!. But then i cope by going to
 SamsoniteBling

Joined: 5/30/2008
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Posted: 10/8/2009 2:38:48 AM
ZERO TOLERANCE!!!!! Seriously, I am a race car in the red. I am dynamite TNT. I'm a mountain of molten anger. Just yesterday I garotted my Gran with her own intestines just for blowing her nose when I was trying to watch Blankety Blank!
 mr hamilton

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Posted: 10/10/2009 3:52:23 PM

I'm one of those people who can put up with a lot until you get me on a bad day - and then I blow!


if it`s a bad day today i`ll leave you my number

cheers

mr h
 |TheOne|

Joined: 7/19/2009
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Posted: 10/10/2009 4:02:24 PM

I'm one of those people who can put up with a lot until you get me on a bad day - and then I blow! There are some who seem to have endless tolereance levels and will take all the crAp that's thrown at them but at the other end of the scale there are those who tolerate little. I would put myself on a scale 0f 1-10 at about 8. How easy going are you and what figure would you rate yourself?


I would say I am between a 9 and a 10...

I think it's all down to anger, there are two types of angry people as I'm sure you know.

The first type of angry person stands in the supermarket at the checkout screaming and shouting at the cashier because she won't take the coupons, the second type of angry person would be the cashier, she sit there quietly day after day taking all the crap that people give but one day she will snap, pick up a machine gun and kill everybody in the place...

some of the most dangerous people you've ever met are the quietest people you've ever met.
 Mrs Hamilton

Joined: 5/15/2007
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Posted: 10/10/2009 4:04:54 PM

some of the most dangerous people you've ever met are the quietest people you've ever met.


Like a mute with a flick knife?
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