| 3rd date Sex then the guy disappears
Posted: 2/9/2008 6:03:59 PM | Whats Up 3rd date Sex then the guy disappears,
You should have had sex with him on
the first date instead of the 3. This is the reason he disappeared. If your ILL Na Na
was good he would have returned to have sex again or start a relationship with you.
I have never disappeared on anyone myself. I don't have to because I am Blessed with
a 10 1/4" Thick D!@k with a Head like a Large Mushroom. Once any woeman gets to
ride this they can't get enough. Ladies if you are sexually attracted to a man, give him
some PU$$Y. This is the New Millennium, we can do it how ever you want and don't
worry what the next person or fool thinks. So if its a husband or a serious relationship
you are looking for, you need to make that known up front. If not follow this Old Nike
Slogan " JUST DO IT ". To all of you ladies who can't do this, remember what you won't do there are 9 other woeman who will. Get your F#@k On in the 2008 and
stop playing Games. Peace.
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| 3rd date Sex then the guy disappears
Posted: 2/11/2008 7:02:36 PM | I'd just like to remind some of the posters here that almost all of my guy friends are busy sleeping with other women while you're supposedly "making him wait". Seriously, wake up.
Sincerely,
Guys with options | |
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| 3rd date Sex then the guy disappears
Posted: 2/11/2008 7:25:36 PM | | I find this VERY interesting...And i dont think it has anything to do with meeting him from a dating site..the problem is that you slept with him after the 3rd date...men like a chase and a challenge...and you just gave it right up...you have to date like a men so you dont get played like a b1tch | |
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| 3rd date Sex then the guy disappears
Posted: 5/20/2008 5:57:00 AM | | this is 2008, if you go on a date, for the 1st, 2nd, 3rd, and so on, if you're truly attracted to the other it doesnt matter how long you wait or even if you dont wait. we are adults on here, and yes some people do feel that men do like that chase and the wait but then there are others that simply do not. now a days alot of men will not wait around and chase because they can get it from somewhere else. like i said above, if the man is truly into you its not going to matter when u give it up. if he runs after the third or fourth then he really wasnt into "you". it doesnt make you a hoe or slut if you give it up on the first date, it just means that hey, we are sexually attracted to each other, we are both adults and we both want this, if it goes beyond this, then wonderful, if it doesnt it wasnt meant to be. hanging out for the 3,4,5th dates is just prolonging the inevitable if its not meant to be. it wont make u feel any different if you gave it up at a later time than if you would have given it up right away with him leaving after that, for some women waiting it out and then him leaving once he got it, can crush a woman becasue some women fall quick and real hard. which makes it worse. | |
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| 3rd date Sex then the guy disappears
Posted: 5/20/2008 1:06:02 PM | All I have to say is......"Guys are like buses...another one will be along in 5 minutes...."
Just remember we learned from the best...MEN! 
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| 3rd date Sex then the guy disappears
Posted: 5/20/2008 7:18:12 PM | Rat **stard!
Maybe his phone got cut off? Maybe he finally came out of the closet? Maybe his wife found out?
Could never have been the sex. You're fantastic in bed right? | |
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| 3rd date Sex then the guy disappears
Posted: 6/4/2008 3:49:03 AM | Sadly, you met one of many men just looking to play. You are a challenge, until you have sex with them, then its game over and NEXT! Its like the man who connects with you but still logs in daily to see if there is new "eye candy" for him to perhaps taste test.
I have girl friends who fall into the same boat -- serial dating is hard to give up. Who wouldn't want attention from a whole slew of men? Its like playing out SEX IN THE CITY.
I know that I'm not the only one who wished that I could find THAT man and delete my profile once and for all. I AM LOOKING FOR LONG TERM; did that scare you? | |
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| 3rd date Sex then the guy disappears
Posted: 6/4/2008 10:12:25 AM | After reading some of these posts, some take one date. Its amazing how loose women are these days, they they post all guys suck, they are dogs, they are scumbags and they cant' be trusted.
Its pretty dang obvious that they just wanted sex. If you have to wonder about this situation then you have to wake up. | |
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| 3rd date Sex then the guy disappears
Posted: 6/5/2008 2:36:09 PM | | Honesty is not the best policy to some people. So as always be careful who you deal with and what the understanding is before the pants come off. Remember there are plenty of fish in the sea. Let it go. Happy fishing! | |
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| 3rd date Sex then the guy disappears
Posted: 6/5/2008 3:59:58 PM |
After reading some of these posts, some take one date. Its amazing how loose women are these days, they they post all guys suck, they are dogs, they are scumbags and they cant' be trusted.
Women are doing the same things that men do, yet we are referred to as loose (the double standard lives!).
Guys can be, and at times, are big jerks for misrepresenting their intentions. At least most women are upfront about what they are after. Ultimately, it doesn't really matter how long someone waits to have sex, if he's a player, he's going to get extremely busy and skip town. Better to know sooner rather than later.
P.S. There are some wonderful men out there...I just met one. Not all of them are disrespectful to women...some are real gentleman with a conscience. | |
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| 3rd date Sex then the guy disappears
Posted: 6/5/2008 4:42:32 PM |
3rd date Sex then the guy disappears
I would say stop being so niave on your part and don't give up sex so fast it's usually a dead give away . The third date sex rule has been around for a while now. | |
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| 3rd date Sex then the guy disappears
Posted: 6/9/2008 7:54:52 AM | If a guy disappears or doesn't answer his phone after a third or fourth date, then let it go.
You are both consenting adults and sex is sex. Women are not sluts for having sex too early
and men are not necessarily dogs. The problem I have here is with communication. One should answer calls or at least be open about the situation. You can either be friends, sex buddies, or never speak again. The point is both parties should have some kind of closure to the situation. Running away and disappearing is a typical flight option for men who do not like confrontation. Best advice, be careful the next time and continue on your quest. | |
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| 3rd date Sex then the guy disappears
Posted: 6/9/2008 12:16:39 PM | | date longer before being open to sex, the sooner you give in, the sooner he will leave..this society wants alot of instant gratification, this is the result, date for a few months, if he is still around, i bet he will call you the next day | |
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| 3rd date Sex then the guy disappears
Posted: 6/9/2008 12:52:37 PM | Something similar has happened to me. Things aren't always that cut-and -dry. I hadn't had sex with this person, but did meet him on a site similar to this. He lived in another state, but we chatted on yahoo almost every night. We had become very good friends. All of a sudden he stopped logging into yahoo and was no longer checking his account on the other site. I chalked it up as I would never hear from him again. About 6 months later I was on yahoo chat and a box popps up with "hi... i've missed you". I asked him where he had been and it turns out that he had a bad car wreck and had been in the hospital the entire time. He had almost died. (Yes, for you skeptics, he did share pics of him after the wreck and pics of his car too... he was telling the truth here). My only point is this... don't always assume that guys are complete jerks (and don't assume they aren't either). Take things for what they are worth and avoid making negative assumptions about guys just because they are guys.
Peace&Love, y'all
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| 3rd date Sex then the guy disappears
Posted: 6/9/2008 1:18:35 PM | | It means he was only looking for sex. He can hide his profile and sign in all he wants and u won't know it. He could of been married, I have met alot on here or in a serious relationship and just wanted something different on the side. That is why I don't have sex with anyone till I have dated them over a month and know they are into a relationship. The guys that don't stick around I know are only out for sex. If I wanted great sex I would call by old boyfriend that lives 15 min away. | |
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| 3rd date Sex then the guy disappears
Posted: 6/9/2008 1:30:03 PM | at the end of the day you shouldnt be having sex with someone who you think youre going to dump any time soon
if youre undecided about whether you want to date someone then dont "deepen" the relationship by shagging
kissing is ok but there is definately an unsaid social contract whereby having sex with someone youre dating is (unless otherwise stated) a way of deepening that relationship and getting closer to that person
So if they bolt for the door before youve got your underoos back on then definately the person should feel agrieved
However....occasionally its not always the person bolting for the doors fault
maybe the person was rubbish in bed
maybe the person got all clingy after the act. After all 3 dates is enough for nookie but not enough to be picking out curtains
So as always its not always as easy as 1=1=2 | |
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| 3rd date Sex then the guy disappears
Posted: 6/9/2008 2:01:08 PM | I would have to agree with the majority on this one...he got what he wanted and moved on.
Even if he was leaning toward a break-up he shouldn't have slept with you...but that would only happen in a perfect world.
If I am really into a guy and the attraction is strong...I don't wait very long. I figure it's better to find out sooner than later. If he holds me to some ridiculous double standard then I'd rather know that soon too.
Whatever the reason...he made it clear and you found out soon enough. | |
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| 3rd date Sex then the guy disappears
Posted: 6/10/2008 7:06:33 AM | | He is just probably one of those guys out for sex and it just took a little longer with you. Would have made more sense if the sex was on the first date and then he was gone. Live and learn. He probably just has a bedpost full of notches and no real relationships.His loss. | |
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| 3rd date Sex then the guy disappears
Posted: 6/10/2008 7:15:09 AM | | You just got played by a player they are feeding there own insecurities by having sex with as many women they can. also they are feeding their ego's so when in doubt make them wait for it. like a month or two. a palyer will back off or you wont hear from him anymore. they want an easy target. also they use wine or alcohol as a tool the get your wall down. | |
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| 3rd date Sex then the guy disappears
Posted: 6/11/2008 7:29:21 PM | Hi,
I've been reading everyone's entries over the last day or so.. I think that suz40 wrote about her situation to maybe get alittle compassion and see if there were other woman out there who encountered the same experience.. I think most of us have been through this in one form or another.. Yes we should value ourselves and our bodies.. But at the same time we can have weak moments.. So to you suz40 I understand what your going through and how you must of felt.. And to the rest of you, stop being so harsh and show some compassion.. | |
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| 3rd date Sex then the guy disappears
Posted: 6/11/2008 7:34:11 PM | I met a guy online, we went out 3 times, just dates, nice ones however. Kept in touch 4 months, started dating, became intimate 2 weeks later, had good relationship for several months, and then all of a sudden he can no longer date because his grown daughter and grandchild have moved in with him.
I would say the guy you met was just after sex. | |
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