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I'll never understand how or why a man would want another man touching his wife or girlfriend.
Gotta agree with this. I can think my way through it, sort of. As a gender, it just seems that a woman is sexually/physically capable of much more than a man. Probably in like proportion to the size of an ovum to the size of a single sperm tadpole. "Nature", g-g-g-g-God, whatever, sends millions of sperm to take on one egg, or a handful, at most. Cuckolding seems to be an expression of the respect that disproportion commands. I even strongly suspect that the female orgasm is superior.
I just thank the powers that be that (1) women still seem to need us to realize their sexual potential, and (2) on an emotional level, women and men seem much more equitably equipped, and evenly matched, with all due respect to a select few (from what I count of the posts to this thread) of each gender who take up the cuckold mantle. | |
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| Should a guy be up front about his desires to be a cuckold or wait till later to confess it?
Posted: 2/26/2009 4:49:24 PM |
I'm leaning towards editing my profile and putting something on it but I'm concerned that being too specific will scare off many potential matches. What do you guys think ?
If you'd scare people off, they aren't potential matches anyhow. You'd only be leading women on in the hopes that you could sway their desires once you have a relationship of some sort established.. Not the way to go OP. If you desire such a lifestyle, be man enough to state it clearly so you don't hurt people in the process of finding the right woman for you..... | |
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| Should a guy be up front about his desires to be a cuckold or wait till later to confess it?
Posted: 2/26/2009 5:39:13 PM | | BE YOURSELF!!! you might scare off many women but if that is what you want in order to be happy tell her but you cannot go back to her later and try to take back that want ... but she might get sick of it after awhile... honesty is what works the best .. when you find your soulmate then she will accept everything about you .. but first date is deffinately not the time to do it! | |
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| Should a guy be up front about his desires to be a cuckold or wait till later to confess it?
Posted: 9/18/2009 5:19:08 PM | | Kudos for bravery, such topics are more likely left in the closet then talked about openly. Among others this kind of lifestyle is a subculture of swinging, but is in its nature essentially a polyamorous lifestyle. Understandably given the social stigma too many people are far too embarrassed to admit such a thing, or leave thoughts in fantasy. In a lot of cases, at least from what I read, it is best left in fantasy. I am not sure what category middle of the road is, in short I gather from stated facts that you are looking for a woman who would be willing to be your partner while she could engage in sexual escapades with some or many men. Do you plan on watching, or participating? Are your reasons because you feel inadequate to pleasure a woman because of penis size? From any literature I found, there seems to be a common trend of the cuckoldresses engaging in sex acts with particularly larger men, as part of the humiliation that entails such a relationship. Further out there, women engage in sex with the lovers to have them inseminate and impregnate them. I am sure that such ideas and thoughts are great fantasy fodder for you, to each their own. You have to really think about you want from a relationship and no one can dispute your right to the lifestyle you | |
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| Should a guy be up front about his desires to be a cuckold or wait till later to confess it?
Posted: 9/18/2009 6:37:49 PM | Hmmm.... perhaps alt.com would be a better dating site?
IMHO: You should tell her right away. I had a similiar experience with a guy once only he was big into wearing nylons and go-go shoes. I'm good about most fetishes but there are some things that even I don't quite get. Thankfully, every woman/man is different in that and perhaps you will find a woman who is looking for that type of relationship. But do her and yourself a favor: Get it out there relatively quickly and if she isn't into it, perhaps you need to move on because she will not be able to satisfy your desires. Just my two cents. | |
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| Should a guy be up front about his desires to be a cuckold or wait till later to confess it?
Posted: 9/19/2009 5:25:28 PM | all men real men want a hot wife, look at how many men want to share there wifes in the intimate encounter section Sharing your SO is not the same thing as sharing a can of coke with someone. From the point of view of the casual observer cuckolding is about power, humiliation, lust and ego. It promotes no emotional attachment - it promotes in favor lusty passion, inciting these kind of feelings cannot be healthy for a relationship. It defeats all moral conceptions of what a relationship entails. | |
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| Should a guy be up front about his desires to be a cuckold or wait till later to confess it?
Posted: 1/11/2012 10:58:34 AM | IMO it's better to let someone get to know YOU first for a while before revealing any kind of kinks you might have.
Otherwise , you'll be judged more on that than who you are as a person.
On the other hand , if this is a fantasy that you absolutelyMUST fulfill vs one that you'd like to try if your partner is game then you should probably put it out their pretty early on.
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