| Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 4/18/2009 2:34:55 PM | I have to agree, kissing is a bigger part of a relathionship/intimacy. However I dont really like to kiss.  He can kiss me anywhere, and I can kiss him anywhere, just not on the lips. I don't know why, it feels kind of wierd even though I dream of the passionate and romatic kisses. I think though that when i find a guy that i can just fall head over heels for, this will go away. Lol. | |
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| Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 4/18/2009 2:44:14 PM | | Yes, it's very important. It goes hand in hand with any relationship. Now, I can only guess why he doesn't like to kiss, so I won't go there since I do not know him and therfore cannot judge him. If you want your answer then I would just have a serious talk with him. | |
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| Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 4/18/2009 5:17:19 PM | This is my opinion on kissing, as stated in my profile:
"I love feeling of that first kiss; searches for a man who makes every kiss taste/feel like the first; whose kiss will melt me as ice cream does in July!!! With someone special, is not a kiss the very autograph of love? It is something that you can't take without giving; believes kisses never tasted are wasted; and legal kisses are never as good as stolen ones...You Know the KIND!!! " | |
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| Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 4/24/2009 2:32:21 AM | | Kissing is an Extremely Important part of an relationship..If theres no kissing, there's no romance. I'm sorry, but if they don't wanna kiss theres nothing there. It has to be passionate & romantic & kissing is part of it.. | |
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| Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 4/24/2009 3:48:21 AM | Kissing is a VERY important part of intimacy. When you are first dating someone its usually done before any other naked activities. So its the your first impression of each other in a physical and sexual way. That first one is eclectic, as everyone kisses differently and its so exciting to experience someone new and express your passion for them. A good kiss doesn't guarantee you'll get further sexually, but I can pretty much say a real BAD kiss can guarantee you wont! I don't think many women could have sex with nor date anyone who was a bad kisser.
As far as when you're in a relationship, I think its still VERY important. When a couple loses the desire and passion for kissing, they have lost the closeness and intimacy that they had. I think its a pretty good barometer of a relationship - you cant have a close intimate relationship if you dont have some passionate kissing, and if you don't have any passionate kissing, the relationship is going south. | |
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| Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 4/27/2009 2:18:12 AM | | Kissing passionately is a must for intimacy on any level I believe. Id most definately be asking him that perhaps four months back.. Does he nort know how to kiss or does he think you dont want to kiss him? Does he have a breath problem? Ask him everything or the relationship is doomed. good luck :) | |
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| Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 4/27/2009 2:52:28 AM | Yes, if the guy does not like to kiss or doesn't kiss for some reason then he is not the guy for me.
I love to kiss. Softly, roughly, romantically, wildly, innocently, quickly, long and passionately....all of it...every single one of them.
Kissing is awesome.....and I miss it. | |
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| Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 4/27/2009 3:16:41 AM | kissing is sooooooooo wonderful!
there is no intimacy without a kiss.....a knock you off your feet, melt you to a quivering wonder, lead you to the edge of ecstacy kiss.....ah, bliss!
the one thing i'm unable to do for myself!!!!!!! | |
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| Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 4/27/2009 5:58:52 AM | I do believe kissing is a very important part of intimacy...sets the mood....gives both that mellow subdued feeling...a natural drug if you will...hard to imagine going further without it and its hard to believe you have been dating that long with out good make out sessions...Good luck! | |
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| Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 4/27/2009 7:15:44 AM |
Kissing is an Extremely Important part of an relationship..If theres no kissing, there's no romance. I'm sorry, but if they don't wanna kiss theres nothing there. It has to be passionate & romantic & kissing is part of it.. Exactly!  .... and not just on the lips.... all over the body.... and not just as part of the "opening act". Kissing should be there in the beginning, middle and end.... and if done right, leads to a whole lot more of it.  | |
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| Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 4/27/2009 7:32:46 AM | NOT TO OFFEND ANYONE OR THE OP
BUT IS THIS A SERIOUS QUESTION, IF YOU NEED TO ASK IF KISSING IS IMPORTANT FOR INTAMACY THEN YOU HAVE NO IDEA HOE TO BE INTIMATE | |
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| Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 4/27/2009 4:09:52 PM | Ummmm......4 months???
Man is not into you...
Or has a very low sex drive....
Maybe he is only liking your company as a friend....
In my world...if a man is not trying to kiss me passionately by date two....it's going nowhere....
Whether I make him wait 3-4 months for sex is another thing....as long as the desire and passion is there. Playing and deep prolonged necking with hands going everywhere can be just as satisfying for awhile until you are on the same page commitment - wise.
But...this nothing that you have going? Huh!
Why are you in it if you are looking for something else? | |
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| Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 4/27/2009 4:48:46 PM | In my current relationship I am just beginning to appreciate how important a part kissing is to intimacy.
My last relationship lasted seven months. He sucked me in with his kisses. I thought he was the best kisser ever. However his kisses were tied with foreplay. They were foreplay. The relationship quickly became sexual. Once we became sexual the time spent kissing decreased proportionately to the time we spent fvcking. I found that kissing always preceded a sexual encounter but were not a significant part of the action once clothes were off. He hardly ever kissed me in the middle of intercourse.
There was not much kissing after either. When the relationship ended I realized, I was not "in love" with him, I was fooling myself into thinking I was "in love" to justify the sex. Once I woke up to this I ended it.
My current relationship could not be more different. I did not rush into sex the way I did the last time. We logged over thirty hours during the first four dates kissing, touching, and holding each other. I don't think I spent this much time kissing my husband of 18 years, and we had a great marriage. I feel so close to him when he is holding me in his arms and kissing me. When the relationship finally became sexual, the kiss did not take back seat to the sex. The kiss did not become a way to get me in bed. The kiss was not just an appetizer alone, although it could be. It could stand alone as an an entre', or it could be the end of the meal as a dessert. I found the kisses I received during lovemaking were the most intimate. I also find that the kisses that I receive after making love, while we are cuddling, and talking are equally intimate.
The amount of kissing before, during and after love making tells me how much we care for each other. We are not fvck buddies, nor are we friends with benefits. The kisses define our level of intimacy. They make the intimacy between us so special. | |
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| Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 4/27/2009 5:19:09 PM | | OMG, I couldn't imagine a relationship without kissing. It is so important. To me, the kiss tells alot about a person. Sensual, giving, passion, desire. My Ex of 18 years didn't like to kiss. At this stage of the game and my age, A good kiss is mandatory | |
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| Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 4/27/2009 6:17:17 PM | 320 I echo your sentiments exactly. Kissing is a barometer of the amount of intamicy you share with your partner. The day the kissing dries up, is the day that the intamicy dries up as well, and you are either fvck buddies, or in desperate need of another who can give you the passion and intamcy you deserve.
Kissing always proves where you stand with your relationship. When they can't make the effort to kiss, then they soon stop making the effort in other things as well, and it's time to move on. | |
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| Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 4/27/2009 6:52:22 PM | | So I think it's been decided that kissing is the tops. I love it and don't see why some wouldn't, but hey, whatever floats their boat. If the dude isn't able to kiss you comfortably, then obviously he's gonna have some intimacy issues. Just my two cents. | |
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| Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 4/27/2009 6:52:43 PM | | I could not believe it when my g/f told me that she was not used to being kissed while making love...and I thought, when she told me that, what a sad thing...sex with no love...widowsdesire....god bless...you deserve to be loved again...kissing and all the best/rest! | |
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