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 givinitawhirl

Joined: 9/4/2008
Msg: 326
Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 4/27/2009 7:05:38 PM
kissing IS a VERY VERY VERY VERY VERY VERY VERY VERY IMPORTANT!!!
did I say its VERY IMPORTANT??
a kiss can set the mood in a major way!!
 beardedcowboy1964

Joined: 12/27/2008
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Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 4/28/2009 7:06:21 AM
Kissing is a very important part of a relationship, not just intimacy. I agree completely with some of the posts saying that you can tell so much about a person from their kiss. Being comfortable with someone is a huge part of a great kiss, so is a level of trust relative to the stage of the relationship. Gentle, soft, tender, and long lasting kisses are a great way to spend time with that special gal and when things advance to a new level they are one of the best ways to open up to one another while sharing intimacy and passion.

Just my 2 cents worth, but I know that for me, if the kiss is not there naturally it is not going to work for the long run.
 2EachHisOwn

Joined: 10/10/2008
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Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 5/2/2009 4:59:57 PM
I would be "floored" if I was dating or seeing a woman with beautiful FULL lips but she hate to kiss!! aaaawwwwggghhh. Put a fork in her...she's DONE!! YES... YES.... YES..kissing is a very IMPORTANT part of intimacy.... a woman that hate to kiss or DON'T know how to kiss...nighty night!!
 P.R.Handgrenade69

Joined: 4/10/2009
Msg: 329
Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 5/2/2009 5:38:50 PM
We need kissing like we need food, water, and air. It's a very important part of intimacy but not limited to the bedroom.
 cinder728

Joined: 4/14/2009
Msg: 330
Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 5/2/2009 7:16:28 PM
Psychologically and biologically kissing is important.
It has been found that it even helps men to bond with a woman in a biochemical way.
It creates intimacy and caring.

I think it's pretty darn fun too.

He might think he is a bad kisser or has some physical concern.....he might also have intimacy issues?

Not to be rude, please don't misunderstand me...but you might want to also ask a close and trusted friend if you have any kind of bad breath issues...just to be sure it isn't a reaction to you he is having.
 majiczone

Joined: 3/4/2009
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Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 5/3/2009 12:44:40 AM

But maybe he doesn't know how to kiss and he is afraid if you two make out too much you'll find out and dump him. I dunno it could happen.

I was lucky enough at the wonderful age of 16 to have a great awesome instructor, who spent many hours teaching me the art
 Victoria1991

Joined: 4/7/2009
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Posted: 5/3/2009 1:03:35 AM
OMG kissing is a huge part of a any good relationship, the only time when you dont kiss is when your just hooking up or just getting together for a sexual encounter but if your in a good healthy loving relationship then kissing is a must!
 MonzaRacer

Joined: 1/28/2005
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Posted: 5/3/2009 4:15:52 PM
OMG kissing is the best starter for sparking the flame for some fun in the relationship. Victoria, please take this as a compliment, your lips are SOOOO KISSABLE.
Old girl friend loved it when she stayed over for several days and when I went out in morning I would giver her a deep sexy kiss, then maybe a call during the day hinting,,,.
She called this technique "The Slow Burn" and simply loved it.
The first time we ever were intimate together she kept saying a guy had never grace her an oral "O" so when she got her new bar stools, I told her to get one out, fold a big towel to sit on, get a shower and put on the robe I got her, silk of course.
She was told I would be over at 7, showed up at 7:07 and walked in, kissed her, pulled the sash off,opened the robe , picked her up and sat her in chair, got pillows to kneel on, and then SLOWLY worked my way around to the "target".
This girl was honest, cute , sexy and very into me but would never tell me she loved me later on in relationship.
Anyway, 1 hour and 37 minutes later she was "passed out" from exhaustion, so I put her to bed, gently cleaned her up with warm wash cloth and tucked her into bed. Since I was off next day I stayed up till later, went and slid into bed with her, and in morning we started all over. Very fun weekend.
A kiss can start something awesome and beautiful and no kiss is what I would expect from a hooker, as in whos "----" was in there last kind of thing.
Now had one lady who wanted to hold a load in her mouth and kiss me, just not appealing to me, spit or swallow, give it couple rinses of a drink and lets continue.
Some girls have issues with my teeth as I had some bad dental work done and now have some bad teeth, but I am honest and understand, but because I do brush and rinse and dont have rot breath(and dentures are in the works, required not wanted), just results of bad dentist.
 justinjax87

Joined: 1/13/2009
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Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 5/4/2009 3:47:02 AM
Is kissing a important part of intimacy???

does a bear sh*t in the woods?

 riskman

Joined: 12/15/2007
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Posted: 5/4/2009 6:16:33 AM
i cant believe ur guy doesnt like kissing its the most important thing a man and woman can do i wouldnt be intrested in any woman if they werent a good kisser i love to kiss i think its so important its so intimate xxx ricky
 peachgirl2010

Joined: 1/19/2009
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Posted: 5/4/2009 6:35:43 AM
As a dear six-year-old I know put it.....when we are caught kissing, we are "loving on each other"
Kisses are a great way to show affection and love.
Kisses are so very important, they are a way to share how we feel, and are so much more expressive than words. I could live without many things, but not without my kisses......
 littleRainHeart

Joined: 8/25/2008
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Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 5/24/2009 7:46:01 AM
He's gay....................................................
 WeatherGuy80

Joined: 10/11/2008
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Posted: 5/24/2009 8:11:30 AM
KISSING is sooo important within any relationship of intimacy or romance. It's has to be one of the most important things within a relationship that I have with a woman, behind trust and honesty. Making love is at its best when you have a great kisser kissing you back.
 alv2.0

Joined: 4/18/2009
Msg: 339
Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 5/24/2009 8:53:12 AM
Kissing is HUGE!!!!! Someone who is a bad kisser or simply doesn't like to kiss is a dealbreaker for me :s
 SmellOfPoop

Joined: 6/8/2007
Msg: 340
Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 5/24/2009 9:01:04 AM
If he isn't willing to kiss you, then he views you as more of a f##k buddy than a relationship. It is a red flag.
 mydoggie

Joined: 7/19/2007
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Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 5/24/2009 9:12:53 AM
Let me take a wild guess....YES!
A bear does sh*t in the woods.

Kissing is important and not just for intimacy but for everything about the relationship. Its shows the degree of physical chemistry in the relationship. If the kiss is bad, then thats a sign of zero chemistry.
 widowsdesire

Joined: 4/7/2009
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Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 5/24/2009 9:42:29 AM
My boyfriends kisses are wonderful, and passionate. I do know with him that there is a time and a place for tongue kissing though.

If we happened to get together for lunch in the middle of his work day, when he kisses me hello and goodbye, the kisses are just lip kisses with no tongue. Tongue kissing must really turn him on, because in those kinds of settings they are a no go.

When we are spending the whole day together though, I could spend the entire day cuddling on the couch kissing him. Whew! Very nice. Then no holds barred.
 Crunchy Tacos

Joined: 3/26/2009
Msg: 343
Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 5/24/2009 9:45:00 AM
Kissing connects the soul. Perhaps he's not into you enough to do this. Just a thought.
 WeatherGuy80

Joined: 10/11/2008
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Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 5/24/2009 10:12:28 AM
Things in a relationship that is a must:

Trust, Honesty, Love, Kissing, Passion, Morals, Respectful, Compassion, and Loyality

Did I miss anything?
 *buzz*

Joined: 6/1/2006
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Posted: 5/24/2009 11:33:54 AM
Isn't re-affirmation of inner feelings ~ desires ~ passion? Kissing is the language where words became superfluous.
 Mutual.

Joined: 5/5/2009
Msg: 346
Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 5/24/2009 11:50:33 AM
Heck yes Kissing is Important I love to Kiss its the best way to show a woman how you feel towards her & its a BIG TURN ON.. I just wish there were more wman around kelowna that would like to kiss.hmmmm
 Brunette Girl 425

Joined: 11/24/2008
Msg: 347
Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 5/24/2009 4:33:01 PM
Trust, Honesty, Love, Kissing, Passion, Morals, Respectful, Compassion, and Loyality. Did I miss anything?

I would add kindness to your list. I see kindness and compassion separately. Kindness is an act or state of being kind. Compassion being a consciousness of others' distress with a desire to alleviate it.

OP - Kissing is high on the must-have list.
 malibumermaid

Joined: 11/19/2008
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Posted: 5/24/2009 4:58:33 PM
BOTTOM LINE: IF HE CAN'T KISS, OR IF YOU AREN'T COMPATIBLE IN THAT DEPARTMENT, THEN THAT'S AS FAR AS IT WILL EVER GO. PERIOD. AND IT IS COMMON KNOWLEDGE THAT WHEN KISSING STOPS IN A RELATIONSHIP, INTIMACY SUFFERS. AND, BOTTOM LINE, A KISSING ISSUE OFTEN INDICATES A FEAR OF INTIMACY.
 Lovelytonou

Joined: 8/18/2007
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Posted: 5/24/2009 8:44:28 PM
If you are a person who needs to *kiss* then, this is not going to work for you unless he suddenly becomes a kisser.

There's little else that can compare to the touch and passion of a kiss. And, there are a million ways to do it; giving and receiving one as well as hundreds of locations to place them. The thing is, the need to kiss is like breathing for me.
Would I be with a man who didn't like this? Nope. It wouldn't last long.
*: )
 dale ak

Joined: 4/16/2009
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Posted: 5/27/2009 10:26:49 PM
yes it is the tuch of one ot one it is the exp of love a part of one the true way to say i love you with out staying
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