| Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 5/28/2009 1:02:31 AM | | There is sooo much exchanged in each kiss. Long, deep, passionate ones with saliva between you both... it's so important, and makes things sooo much hotter! Research the science behind it! | |
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| Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 5/28/2009 3:30:08 AM | | Agreeed. I like kissing, if it's the right person and there is good chemistry.. but I also enjoy not having to kiss. I'd rather just sex, sometimes.. or whatever else. | |
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| Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 5/28/2009 8:02:40 AM | The passionate kiss is EVERYTHING.
Without it everything else is meaningless.
Imagine an expensive car without gas. Sure you can look at it , sit in it, etc, but without the gas you ain't going anywhere . | |
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| Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 5/28/2009 8:23:06 AM |
A KISS opened both of us to anything and everything and it triggered everything in the brain to make that happen.
^^^this was on another thread...A great kiss is exactly like this. | |
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| Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 5/28/2009 12:23:05 PM | I could swear I answered this question once, but I'll do again.
The perfection of a kiss is the meeting of the hearts of two people. The acquaintance of hearts (unlike the acquaintance of minds which forms with conversation) fills with how long the kiss lasts. Some people attribute a small first kiss to "perhaps they're not that interested". Where a longer kiss is perceived as "OMG, I've met the one!" I'm satisfied with a few seconds, and time to develop more with the kiss.
In this technological age, where we've become separated by screens and mistrust, the kiss (along with face-to-face conversation) is the most connective force in the world.
The winner and still champion--kissing!!  | |
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| Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 5/28/2009 1:23:16 PM | Probably one of the most important parts of intimacy (if not the most important), between the right two people kissing can become an entirely new way of expressing affection, just unique to those two individuals.
Sooooo glad my GF is a great kisser.  | |
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| Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 5/28/2009 3:47:36 PM | To the OP,
Ask him this. Is it the art of kissing that he doesn't like, or is it the "moisture" that turns him off.
I'm kind of weird, and I've been hung by the legs a few times by this, but I CANT STAND having any sort of moisture on my lips. Lip gloss, lipstick, heck even lip balm drives me nuts.
But that won't deter me from getting a good kiss in :D I would -NEVER- date somebody who didn't like to kiss! It's fundamental to ANY relationship! But still, I would have to wipe my lips after if there's moisture.
Perhaps he is afraid you will pass judgement on him if he has to wipe it off ? | |
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| Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 5/28/2009 5:41:47 PM | | This is what I know....Kissing is the most important part of intimacy....cause without a great kiss you'll never get to second, third, or home plate... (sorry watching a recap of today's RedSox game) | |
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| Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 5/28/2009 6:17:30 PM | Can't say I agree with this happy poster:
[quoteKissing is the most important part of intimacy....
But he saves the play with this:
. . . cause without a great kiss you'll never get to second, third, or home plate... (sorry watching a recap of today's RedSox game)
OP, I gotta say, that your thread title reminded me of playing T-ball, not baseball, where that ball just sits up, all still, waiting for everybody to crush it!!!
Yeah, best answer to the title (not your post) is: DUUUUUHHHH!!!!! | |
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| Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 5/28/2009 7:44:06 PM | | I believe that kissing is the key to intimacy. I can't see myself having sex with someone and not have any kissing involved. There are some people who will only kiss someone they feel an intimate connection with. Not kissing you might be his way of keeping you at a distance. Without knowing the two of you or the specifics of your relationship, I'm going to take a leap and say he sees you as someone to have sex with while looking/waiting for that permanent relationship. For me if a guy doesn't have a medical reason for not kissing then there is no chance we will be together and no way in hell would I have sex with him. This is just my opinion based on my experiences. | |
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| Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 6/1/2009 7:02:39 PM | IMPORTANT? It's a MAJOR in my book! Top of the list! Can't do without it in every way shape or form!
There are all different kinds of kisses ....and to me they can say SO MUCH without saying a word. A must have...can't live without it.
NEED a good kisser! One of my favorite things to do!  | |
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| Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 6/1/2009 7:38:54 PM | Kissing is one of the most important things. If he is not kissing you now, and you don't open it up for discussion now, you can bet he will kiss you even less as time goes on.
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| Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 6/1/2009 9:38:12 PM | | Absolutely! Watching two people passionately kissing can be more of a turn-on than actual pornography (admittedly, two women is even that much hotter!). | |
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| Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 6/6/2009 6:07:17 AM | | Kissing will get my Jonhnson back on track eeeeeeeeeeeeevvvvvvvvvvvvvvery time. for me, kissing is the foundation of a good ****. without it.........all is lost. maybe he doesn't know how to kiss. or maybe he's not into you. ask him. if he avoids the topic..............dump him. | |
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| Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 6/6/2009 7:13:44 AM | I don't only consider kissing an important part of intimacy, but I consider it to be the pathway and trigger for intimacy. Kissing can lead to a deeper connection. Its like connecting to one anothers spirit. I believe that when I get those butterflies from a kiss that a spiritual connection has been made which enables all sorts of emotions and feelings to follow. It is my experience that if I am not able to connect to someone on this level, the sex won't be great and my association with them will be limited.
I also believe that anyone that doesn't like to kiss haven't really done much kissing or are just not good at it. | |
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| Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 6/6/2009 8:37:20 AM | I've always got a laugh out of these question type threads. Like every person has the exact same thoughts and actions as everyone else.
There are those who love to kiss, there are those who do not like to kiss often. Big deal. Like there was a book written as a rules and regulations for dating.
I knew some women who after sex would hate to cuddle.
Same as rough sex, just because he doesn't like rough sex doesn't mean he is not into you. | |
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| Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 6/6/2009 9:12:12 AM |
The perfection of a kiss is the meeting of the hearts of two people. The acquaintance of hearts (unlike the acquaintance of minds which forms with conversation) fills with how long the kiss lasts. Some people attribute a small first kiss to "perhaps they're not that interested". Where a longer kiss is perceived as "OMG, I've met the one!" I'm satisfied with a few seconds, and time to develop more with the kiss.
There is also the "Prelude to a Kiss." Title I heard once, not sure where, but it all culminates with that kiss. Sweet, lingering, butterflies in the stomach, lazy, unhurried.
Then a slowly increasing intimacy over time as exploration continues; reaching out to touch just to feel them near and wanting to let them know you're glad they are. Hugging, caressing...... well, you can use your imagination from there. I'm getting to hot to go on.......
Hope to have all that someday.  | |
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| Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 6/6/2009 9:01:58 PM |
The perfection of a kiss is the meeting of the hearts of two people. The acquaintance of hearts (unlike the acquaintance of minds which forms with conversation) fills with how long the kiss lasts. Some people attribute a small first kiss to "perhaps they're not that interested". Where a longer kiss is perceived as "OMG, I've met the one!" I'm satisfied with a few seconds, and time to develop more with the kiss. When you kiss a woman's nape, you're signaling to the spine "it's time"! I used to love doing this when I spotted my ex-wife washing dishes or cooking.
I get up behind her and walk my fingers up her neck, then rub her hairline and massage the back of her head. I'd begin to kiss her softly along the hairline and lean my body close. Her bottom would feel me press and immediately reciprocate. When I kissed her between her shoulder blades, her panties were already on the floor.
The last woman to kiss my neck, made my eyes water. I was soooo turned on because her lips were so soft. It is extremely good foreplay, if you handle your partner correctly.
I grabbed these and combined them, to show the effect of good lips, and good oral activity. | |
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| Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 6/10/2009 9:06:58 AM | | YES..I love to kiss..everything, everywhere..and I love to be kissed everything, everywhere..lol..BUT love really good french kissing...IF he can kiss..haven't really met or been kissed by that many that was good at it..the 2 that were, took my breath away and could have talked me into just about anything..but that is what GOOD kissing does for me... | |
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| Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 6/27/2009 1:54:40 PM | I'm baffled by something. I have been dating the same woman for 2-1/2 years. It frustrates me no end that she has very little desire to kiss me. I am a clean person, and I don't think I have bad breath or anything.
When we say hello, and I go to kiss her, most times she turns and gives me her cheek. We have gone entire days together without so much as a kiss hello or a kiss good night. This really drives me crazy. There are many times that we have sex without any kissing.
I've asked her about this and asked if she isn't entirely attracted to me. She gets very defensive and tells me I'm crazy. She asks me how I can say such a thing after we've just been intimate. To me, it feels like there is something huge missing from our relationship.
Are there any women that can shine some light on this for me? Are there women, just like men, who just aren't into kissing? I'm actually thinking of breaking up with this woman over this.
I would enjoy hearing what others think. | |
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