| Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 6/27/2009 2:05:58 PM | | Um, maybe you should rent or read "she's just not that into you..." 2 1/2 years and no kissing, let alone passionate kissing... Wow... That's incredible! | |
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| Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 6/27/2009 2:14:02 PM | | Not enjoying passionate kisses is a deal breaker to me. If a man cannot or does not enjoy kissing, then there is nothing more to say or do. The exchange of breath between two people through a kiss is comparable to giving up a piece of each others souls to one another. It is deeper than the 'act' of doing such. I will often breathe out into my lovers mouth,and suck his in all in the same moment with small instances of full eye contact. Typically one whom I am with in that manner feels similar and does the same breathing action. It is not only extremely sexy, but also an immense bonding experience. | |
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| Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 6/27/2009 2:22:31 PM | | I agree that kissing is an important part of bonding with another person and I feel it's very sexy. I can't imagine having a real intimate relationship with someone when it doesn't involve kissing on the mouth, the entire face and the ears. | |
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| Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 6/27/2009 2:50:05 PM | | Kissing is one of the most importatn parts of intimacy..gollie...if a hot wet intimate kiss..doesn't get the juices flowin'....then...I say...move on to greener pastures! | |
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| Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 6/27/2009 3:11:52 PM | If a guy who doesn't like to kiss hooks up with a girl who doesn't either, then it's no big deal..but if your kissing personalities are not in sync, give it up! I was with a guy for 5 years who didn't like to kiss much..he'd give me little kisses and make out with me a little, but any slipping of the tongue was few and far between. He was a bit of a germophobe. . the fact that I would kiss my nieces and nephews really freaked him out. LOL Kids have germs, they get you sick, and I could, in turn, get him sick. Crazy!!! I stayed with him anyway because I thought I could deal with it, but it turned into a HUGE deal. Kissing is major!!! One of my favorite things. If a guy won't kiss me ..well and often.. he won't be in my life for long. I'm also a toucher..not in a clingy, hanging all over you sorta way.. but I like affection if I'm into someone..being close..and a guy who doesn't touch me isn't gonna make it either LOL  | |
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| Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 6/27/2009 3:16:45 PM | ugh. maybe he's used to buying sexual services versus a "relationship". a prostitute usually doesn't "kiss" a john, as it's way too intimate.
kissing is not only important, but it can last for hours (and it should!).  | |
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| Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 6/27/2009 3:19:55 PM | for me kissing is one of the most important facets of the physical side of a relationship. i don't know why but the touching of lips is a big turn on for me because it communicates affection and i want my woman to know i love her and that she loves me.
yes we send little notes and we whisper in the ear or leave a flower at the bedside while she sleeps but the act of kissing expresses so much to me. i'm touchy feely as well. | |
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| Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 6/27/2009 4:38:56 PM | | ohh for sure there is no point dating a guy who cant kiss or who u have to teach how to kiss after all if hes a crap kisser he maybe crap in bed also lol!!! good kisser is a must in my eyes :D passionate not slobbery lol!! | |
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| Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 6/27/2009 4:45:22 PM | I am dating someone who does not like to kiss
I couldn't imagine a relationship without kissing. It's a massive element of physical union: you communicate with a kiss, you derive physical pleasure from it, it's no.1 or 2 on the intimacyometer, and it's an emotional sledgehammer too. If you do it right & enjoy it then keep an eye on the time: you can lose almost an entire day from kissing alone!
But, technique is all-important too! That's a whole new thread I think... | |
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| Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 6/27/2009 4:55:40 PM |
The winner and still champion--kissing!! 
Absolutely!!
And OP, if it is important to you, you have to discuss this with your boyfriend!! Tell him!!!! | |
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| Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 6/27/2009 8:42:32 PM | I have to say, I'm really not that into kissing. It might be weird, but I see it as actually more intimate that sleeping with someone, and I've just never been comfortable with it.
(Also, I kinda don't see the point, it really just doesn't feel that good compared to other things you could be doing.) | |
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| Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 6/27/2009 8:44:11 PM | | wow...I love long french kisses, the longest the better....how can you have sex and not french kiss, it is a turn on for me! it is all about the toungue!!!;-) | |
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| Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 6/27/2009 9:50:45 PM | YES!
Kissing is as important as the sexual act. It can increase arousal, show affection/intimacy/feelings, and indicate wants and needs. The way a person kisses you says soooo very much!
Here's something to try:
The next time you are with him, start by YOU kissing him...start it off with a quick peck, like he usually does. Then, take his face in your hands, or put your hands in his hair, or on the back of his neck. Say to him; "I want to kiss you, but I DON'T want YOU to kiss me back"....start slowly, little pecks....then nibbles, a bit of tongue, kiss the earlobe, neck, etc....making each kiss a bit more passionate...if he even attempts to kiss you or acts like he's getting aroused, remind him that he cannot kiss you back...continue doing so until he is so aroused that he cannot hold back...( believe me, he will be)( while you are doing this, kiss him the way you like to be kissed...this way, if it is an issue of him simply NOT being sure of how to kiss well, he'll know how to follow your lead) He will become interactive with you in the act, the fact that he is feeling the passion, but cannot participate drives em' crazy! LOL
When you have given him enough and find him responding...let the kissing continue, and see what kind of kiss you receive next time!
Just a suggestion....
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| Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 6/29/2009 7:25:29 AM | | i want to kiss all the time and i hope any future GF wants the same. as a matter of fact i don't think she can be a girlfriend if she won't kiss me alot, always with the tongue! | |
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| Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 6/30/2009 12:46:48 AM | Well Cowboy Wayne says you may as well tie him down if your not gonna let him kiss you Back LOL....that'll learn "em....Really Kissing is King in my approach to seducing a woman.
Matter of fact I'm a little out of practice, I think I'll have to get on that LOL.
Sweetheart this guy is weird if he don't kiss and his heart is probably not with you...
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| Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 6/30/2009 6:19:09 AM | | Kissing is a huge part of intimacy. Its really importamnt to me, plus I just really like kissing. lol. But I have come across people who just aren't that into it. | |
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| Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 6/30/2009 7:41:21 AM | For me, no kissin' no anything else-
It shouldn't even be an issue, right? I mean we are the only animals who do it!
Yet it is- and it's universal amongst human societies, as far as I know. So it's a real mystery why we find it to be so important.
Even when I've had casual sexual encounters, to get real satisfaction out of it I NEED the intimacy that only kissing can provide-
Anybody have any ideas (scientific, philosophical, sociological) on why this is so? | |
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| Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 6/30/2009 1:32:36 PM | | Gotta have it!!!! Hot kisses ignite everything and turn good sex into great sex. if someone doesn`t like to kiss ya better run for many reasons. | |
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| Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 6/30/2009 4:19:39 PM | Great question:
Anybody have any ideas (scientific, philosophical, sociological) on why this is so?
My hunch is that human identity is in your face, so to speak (and so our profile pictures must show the face!). Talk too, so fundamental to our social nature, is from the face, and often still face to face. So kissing makes for sharing who you are and gives the lips and tongue a whole new way to communicate.
How's that? | |
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