| Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 6/30/2009 5:23:42 PM | If kissing is important to you (which is it to most) then you will never be happy with a man that doesn’t like to kiss. Most people enjoy kissing, it is sensual and a healthy part to any relationship.
I always said. If the man can kiss he will be dynamite in bed!
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dlros
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Joined: 10/14/2008
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| Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 6/30/2009 5:33:59 PM | Princess of Magic:
You are so completely right! Good call- it's all about communication.
Sex itself is a mono-tonal act; add kissing, throw in touching and you have a symphony! | |
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| Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 6/30/2009 7:34:25 PM | I love kissing, and if the guy I am interested in does not enjoy kissing, this is a guy to fear. Kissing is an emotional release more powerful than sex. Your body becomes heightened after a great kiss. In that same stroke, a lousy kiss will send the person home to spank the monkey by himself. | |
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| Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 6/30/2009 7:36:31 PM | | ^^^^funny^^^I said the same thing just a couple of posts ago...I just wasn't up to sayin' she'll go home to her vibrator...oops...there I did it. | |
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TLoCa
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Joined: 6/24/2009
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| You wil be miserable!
Posted: 6/30/2009 7:55:22 PM | Cimacutie,
I don't know you from Adam, so I'm just going to respond from what my reaction was to your question. I love to kiss, french kiss, I like to run the tip of my tongue around a womans lips, i like to nibble gently on her lips. Nice passionate slow kisses are wonderful. the lips are some of the most sensetive parts of the human body. Sometimes whats nice to do is to tell a lover " Look, I know you want to get it on, I do to, but I dont want to kiss you for 3 minutes and then have quick monkey love. I want to have a kissing session like a couple of 15 year olds would have .You're pretty damn sure your'e not going to have sex, you know ther may be some light petting going on, but you'r going to be kissing for like 45 minutes to the point where your lips may be alittle irritated the next day. Kissing is such an important part of intimacy, that I just could not do with that perfunctory little peck or two. I have a girlfriend who smokes she knows the taste to a nonsmoker is a little gross, yet she still smokes a cigarette on the way to my house, of course she's chemically addicted to nicotine, and then she wants to get frisky with me up to and including a happy ending so she kind of trys to avoid my kisses, or make them real short. I start and she turns her head or starts another activity. It is extremely frustrating to me. and while shes puffign that tarstick on the way over here, me, the non smoker is upsatirs, brushing my teeteh and using a mouthwash so that I can offer her the most pleasant mouth possible. I really feel that shes not even trying to meet me halfway. but she thinks that as a guy, I'm so hungry for the other parts of sex that it won't matter to me. Well guess what ? Since the intimacy of the kissing which is apart of sex in general, is missing for me, i feel like she's just coming over so she can get off with me and run out the door so she can get in her car and have the after sex cigarrete. It's killing the friendship. so I don't know how you could kid yourself into thinking you will ever be satisfied in this elationship. You're going to have to do some real communicating and explain why it is so important ot you, how it makes you feel when you are deprived of it, and you're going to have to ask some probing questions in a non hostile manner to find out why he doesn't like kissing (you)! Tom | |
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| You wil be miserable!
Posted: 7/1/2009 9:19:53 PM | | ahhh...sweet passion...a sweet brush of the lips...followed by a nip...softly...on the neck....and back to the lips again....wetter ..moister...with teasing tongues....a hot breath in her ear(no f in' sloppy tongue)...a nibble on the ear lob....and back to those sweet lips...sigh | |
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Posted: 7/1/2009 9:55:46 PM | Irish! ....Smokin'!
(...whew!..)
Kissing is very important...and in how it starts off... | |
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| Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 7/1/2009 10:45:41 PM | I wouldn't spend one minute more dating someone who would not kiss me. Kissing is absolutely one of the best parts of intimacy and once you've experienced that slow, soft, passionate kiss, you will never be satisfied with less.
It is definitely a dealbreaker for me! | |
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| Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 7/2/2009 3:16:20 AM | kissing versus intimacy?
if there is no wonderful, exhilarating, thrilling, passionate kiss.....
there is no wonderful, exhilarating, thrilling, passionate sex! | |
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| Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 7/2/2009 4:40:42 AM | A kiss is one of the most importent sexual contact made between a man
and a women..not only is it the first sign of intimacy..it's also is the first
release of endorphines.. thats if it's done right!! when i kiss a woman and
she does not tremble..or her skin does not become prickly with goosebumps
then i know that it is not a woman that is receptive to me..the act of a kiss
should never be done without a desire in the heart..as most women are
empathic by nature..one of my favorite teases is a kiss..slowly and with desire
sometimes holding my lips away from hers just out reach..then deeply and
with my arms holding her tight.. my hands on the back of her head griping her hair..
as i release her gently biting lips.. OK now i need a cold shower..
Seeyaa!! Dan | |
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| Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 7/2/2009 3:48:16 PM | | This might sound really stupid but i find kissing a more intimate thing than oral sex or fooling around and touching eachother in places. It's an important part of sex for me with someone that i'm at least close to. If i'm with someone i don't know well, i feel less comfortable kissing them than i do with playing and oral. If i'm kissing them i should be close to them as a friend, or it feels strange. | |
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| Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 7/3/2009 8:47:09 AM | | The other day my boyfriend of five months stopped by for a few hours after work. We are accustomed to a lot of kissing. It is not unusual for us to kiss for an hour when we get together before dinner or whatever we have planned. For whatever reason that afternoon the touching escalted to a quickie. I had to cut things short because I had to pick my daughter up from cheerleading practice. Having a little afternoon delight was fun, however as he drove away and I got in my car to go get my daughter I realized how in the absence of our usual kissing routine, it just felt like "sex" and not making love. At this stage of our relationship I know this man cares deeply for me and I care deeply for him. Its just that physical intimacy for me without the long periods of kissing, while physically gratifying, felt emotinally deficient. Kissing for me is an extremely important part of intimacy. | |
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| Oh yeah....
Posted: 7/3/2009 9:09:06 AM | ....and I am very sad about the demise of it.  | |
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| Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 7/3/2009 12:33:15 PM | it is the most important part of any relationship, if the kissing goes or isn't right then, that'd be the beginning of the end. Just being with someone and kissing them for a long time is erotic, stimulating and makes the anticipation of the next level nearly unbearable.  | |
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| Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 7/3/2009 12:53:37 PM | I've been with women who get pissed off if you do too much kissing before you start fvcking... Twice in my life I have had this experience... and I got up and left.
If you "want" me, but you don't need... "me" then I'm just a prop, and I'd rather just be alone, than be seen as a autorobotic sexual aid... nothing more or less.
It's just as well because the sex in a relationship has always been a thousand times better than a tryst with a coworker or a friend of whoever, or anybody else along those lines.
The sex I have in a relationship I wouldn't trade for anything else...    | |
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| Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 7/3/2009 9:54:23 PM | I like kissing far too much to be able to be in a relationship without it. I'm one of those saps that likes to lean over and give my girl a smooch when we're stopped at a red light.
But even more than just the kissing, I really like the feeling when we're just snuggled up close and are touching noses with our eyes closed, and I can feel her breath on me. There's just something so intimate about that. | |
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