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 Miss Poppy

Joined: 7/9/2007
Msg: 26
Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 11/12/2007 5:03:47 PM
Holy crap!
No kissing, no dice! Kissing to me is THE most important part of being intimate. If someone didn't kiss me, I would be like...BYE!
4 months?? Wow.
 short_momma

Joined: 9/23/2007
Msg: 27
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Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 11/12/2007 5:11:52 PM
I think kissing is a big part of intimacy and i want it to be a part of any relationship i am in. If he cant kiss me then i would feel there is a reason, doesn't have to be a reason with me, it could be with him.
 Cimacutie

Joined: 9/18/2006
Msg: 28
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Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 11/12/2007 5:15:37 PM
I definitely feel that way...is it me??? But I know it is his issue so I am going to address it and go from there. Thanks :)
 Gregarious103

Joined: 10/29/2007
Msg: 29
Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 11/12/2007 5:21:43 PM
I agree that kissing is more intimate than sex and my experience says that if it's missing, there is a reason.
 cowtippingmomma

Joined: 11/7/2007
Msg: 30
Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 11/12/2007 5:22:03 PM
Kissing is like a major thing at least in my book. I think that you can feel alot more things from just a kiss then you can when you have sex.

But maybe he doesn't know how to kiss and he is afraid if you two make out too much you'll find out and dump him. I dunno it could happen.
 Gregarious103

Joined: 10/29/2007
Msg: 31
Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 11/12/2007 5:23:01 PM
If it's important to you then don't settle for less.
Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 11/12/2007 5:36:45 PM
Many times the kiss is an indicator of what the sex may be like.

I've never met a hot kisser who was a dead fish in bed. On the other hand, those poor kissers often were dead fish and had low and no skills.

It's a deal breaker for me. Bad kisser, unless they ask for teaching, will not an intimate friend.

ACP
 blondblueyed

Joined: 8/23/2005
Msg: 33
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Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 11/12/2007 6:38:55 PM
It is for me, in fact in my book it is just as important if not more than any other physical act.
 blue sunshine

Joined: 12/23/2005
Msg: 34
Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 11/12/2007 6:43:24 PM
I think.....and this might be an over the top statement....but I Think I might die if I were with someone and they didn't dig kissing as much (or maybe more????) than I do. I can't imagine....

There's probably no hidden reason for his not liking the kissing thing....he is probably just one of those guys who doesn't love it.....I hear they're out there! Good luck darlin!
 washie

Joined: 8/21/2007
Msg: 35
Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 11/12/2007 6:59:24 PM
I am a big fan of kissing. I don't think I could date a man who is not into it. Sometimes it's just a nice little peck on the lips and other times it's a nice deep passionate kiss. Kissing can tell you so much about how a person feels...I think it should be mandatory in a relationship LOL
 tripp007

Joined: 9/12/2007
Msg: 36
Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 11/12/2007 7:05:42 PM
to look at ones lips and wonder what they taste like...to imagine your tongue as it outlines theirs.........yes I would say its a big part.
 Becaa!

Joined: 7/17/2005
Msg: 37
Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 11/12/2007 8:07:46 PM
maybe he's thinks he's a bad kisser?

kissing is great and that but a cheeky peck on the head or the cheek is nice enough!
i love getting kissed on my forehead or on the back of my neck by the guy im dating/or in a relationship with. its really cute and just as affectionate as full on kisses!
 Tigress

Joined: 4/11/2004
Msg: 38
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Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 11/12/2007 8:40:07 PM
Wow! I don't even know how I would react to that. I have never been out with a guy that did not want to kiss me! I would probably take it personally, but after reading a lot of posts here, I see that kissing just isn't that important to some people.

For me, I think it would be a deal breaker. He would definitely not get me into bed without some passionate kisses to warm me up!
 cookiekwan

Joined: 7/30/2007
Msg: 39
Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 11/12/2007 8:44:03 PM
Kissing is just about my favourite thing to do,and is THE most intimate thing you can do IMHO...that's why it's the first thing to go and then the writing is on the wall...If there is no kissing there is no passion.
 mugley

Joined: 12/2/2006
Msg: 40
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Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 11/12/2007 8:49:20 PM
oh yes it is to me, I've had some kisses that rocked my world more than sex did with other people, and what others have said here too, great kisses means great sex is coming!!

btw newbie here, what does OP stand for?
 greeneyedokiegirl

Joined: 10/21/2007
Msg: 41
Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 11/12/2007 9:05:12 PM
I have to say personally... I wouldn't date someone that didn't kiss me... OFTEN! But that's just me....
 stageright

Joined: 8/2/2007
Msg: 42
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Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 11/12/2007 9:15:16 PM
yeah, something's wrong. he's got what's commonly called as "ass breath." ...however, better than ass rot what i hear.
 BeginToday

Joined: 10/28/2007
Msg: 43
Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 11/12/2007 9:15:46 PM
Kissing is very important to me. If anyone's keeping count, here's one in favor!
 stageright

Joined: 8/2/2007
Msg: 44
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Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 11/12/2007 9:18:48 PM
OP stands for odd penis i think. OMG (old mel gibson), if someone called you that i would be pissed!!!
 mugley

Joined: 12/2/2006
Msg: 45
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Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 11/12/2007 9:21:26 PM
OP stands for odd penis i think. OMG (old mel gibson), if someone called you that i would be pissed!!!
10,000 unemployed comedians in the world and you're trying to be another one
 lighthouse1956

Joined: 7/14/2007
Msg: 46
Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 11/12/2007 9:40:58 PM
Kissing is crucial, I would have doubts about a womans feelings for me if I felt she wasn't enjoying our kisses together. My heart actually races fast when I'm kissing. It is so sexy to gently blow a little across her lips, gently brush her hair away from her face, softly press your lips together, touch the tips of your tongues together before anything heavier. Then start exploring the inside of her mouth with your tongue, feel her teeth, cheeks, even her gums., gently nip her tongue and lips.When things get going, kiss her throat, back of her neck, gently nip them, too.

Kissing is a great way to show you not a selfish lover, and a great kisser can prove it even without sex.
 eros7

Joined: 11/5/2007
Msg: 47
Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 11/12/2007 9:47:58 PM
I think that kissing is an important part of intimacy. in all my relationships, if the kiss is passionate then all else will most likely fall into place. i think that two connect initially with personality, but secondly with a kiss.
 trollin

Joined: 5/28/2007
Msg: 48
Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 11/12/2007 9:54:46 PM
I dated a guy who didn't kiss very much and it felt very cold....kissing is very intimate and warm to me.....It can fuel quite a fire.....lol
 livvy h

Joined: 4/12/2007
Msg: 49
Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 11/12/2007 10:02:21 PM
for me kissing is extremly important when it comes to intimacy. If I were dating someone who wouldnt kiss me , Im sorry to say but that would be the end of that. I love to kiss and it speaks a million words without uttering a sound..Id ask him whats up.. if hes not willing to kiss id be rid of him
 *buzz*

Joined: 6/1/2006
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Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 11/13/2007 7:07:35 AM
if the kiss is passionate then all else will most likely fall into place.

Yep, just like a handshake. Flimpsy, floppy, liveless hand ... without a proper acknowledging squeeze makes me always wonder how passionate such a person is, if at all?
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