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| Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 11/13/2007 8:29:58 AM | I once dated someone, who was exactly like this. He actually told me, I asked, that he would never kiss me because then there would be too many feelings involved. WTF - Needless to say, I am not with him anymore. I think kissing is extremely important to have kissing as a part of intimacy.
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| Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 11/13/2007 2:37:31 PM | | kissing is an important part of intimacy i think...i mean like mae west said," a man's kiss is his signature." i would just ask him why, and really have a heart to heart convo about it and all...and if he doesn't give a reason that is legit enough to you...then i wouls say try adn work out if its a good thing but if its not...then get over it ...come on now...there is plenty of fish in the sea..lol :) | |
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| Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 11/13/2007 4:14:38 PM | 4 months and no "break for air or were gonna die" marathon snog sessions?... in the words of an ancient Chinese proverb... "somit dang wrong wit dat der man if he no like a kissin a woman"
take heed of ancient Chinese wisdom and bin the dude and get someone with workable lips, who the heck doesn't like kissing? | |
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| Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 11/13/2007 6:16:12 PM | | Oh yes it is! It's a very important part of intimacy. I've never been with anyone who didn't like kissing. And I couldn't deal with someone who didn't. I need to give and receive lots of kisses. | |
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| Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 11/13/2007 10:36:23 PM | I wrote this for another board on the same topic some time ago and thought I'd share with you all, enjoy.
THE ART OF KISSING
Kissing is an art more than a science.
A kiss is the gateway to intimacy and passion, and getting it right will lead you to a garden of sensuality.
A kiss on the lips should be gentle and inviting, sucking and biting softly, never causing any pain or discomfort.
Remember to kiss other parts of a woman's body, especially her neck, her ears, cheeks, forehead, hands, breasts, shoulders, the small of her back, waist, belly button, thighs, calves, feet, toes and by all means the harbor of her love. A woman should be kissed softly, like a princess, do not lick her face like an ice cream cone, there are other places she would prefer for that action.
Kissing a woman should be seductive, passionate, inviting, somewhat teasing, allowing the mood to build like a summer breeze blowing gently amongst the flowers. Kissing can be dry, moist or wet. Close your eyes and allow your imagination to take control and softly take away her breath.
I love to kiss a woman, there is nothing like a kiss to tell someone that you think that they are the most wonderful person on Earth.
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| Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 11/13/2007 10:37:42 PM | THE ART OF KISSING – PART II
More on the art of kissing…………….for a kiss will tell your partner how much you love and accept them.
When you are with someone who you admire, you both are relaxed and comfortable being with one another, a kiss can be magical and enchanting.
You may tell a woman that you love her, buy her cards and gifts, yet all of that is secondary to that kiss that you give her that tells her how much you really and truly feel about her.
Your first kiss should tell her how happy you are to see her.
The second kiss how much you miss her since you kissed her last
Next, kiss her to tell her how much you love her.
How good she makes you feel,
How much you need her,
That you want her
You want her very much.
And you kiss here and kiss there and kiss over there and kiss this and kiss that and you keep kissing until………………..
Her face is aglow with the sunshine of love,
her voice is sensual and warm
her body wet and alive with spirit
smile radiant
heart is beating to a song
All from the art of kissing.
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| Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 11/13/2007 11:23:09 PM | _Of Course_ it is . .
It's the *Fuse-lighter* of Intimacy . . !!!
Without it, you may as well get Intimate with . . your Sister [or Brother] . . !!!
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| Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 11/14/2007 4:01:32 AM | I once dated someone, who was exactly like this. He actually told me, I asked, that he would never kiss me because then there would be too many feelings involved. WTF -
I think that's the deal with people who don't like to kiss or hug. They are afraid that they might develop 'feelings' for the person. Most people LIKE the idea of developing feelings for another person, but some people think it's just too scary to go there. | |
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| Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 11/14/2007 12:23:30 PM | | It's a very important part of intimacy and if it affects you enough that you have to put a post up, maybe you should talk with him and tell him how it affecting you and possible the relationship. Good communication is the key to everything. | |
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| Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 11/14/2007 12:29:45 PM | Kissing is a huge huge part of intimacy. I don't mean slobbering all over your date or jamming ones tounge so far back you tickle the tonsils lol.
A soft gentle kiss on the lips with enough moistnes to make the kiss mildly wet. Then a kiss on the neck followed by a gentle tounge flicker behing her ear ............etc. so in closing YES kissing is near the top of must do things to have a great and memorable intimacy moment. | |
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| Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 11/14/2007 1:21:18 PM | There is nothing more intimate or sensual such as kissing.
Kissing is a prelude to a lot of wonderful things and it is just so special. I doubt there are words to describe it but, kissing is a big must in a relationship.
I think sometimes just making out with your mate can be so heady......soft and hard.....whispery moans....eyes closed or open.....there is just nothing like kissing.
That being said....OP I would have a talk with your mate. You need to find out what his hang up is with kissing. Sometimes it could be something so simple and you get right back on that horse or sometimes it could be something deeper. The only way to know is to find out.
Just curious to know, didn't this issue come up during your courtship? I would think usually two people who are interested in each other talk about things they liked and disliked......
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| Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 11/16/2007 9:34:18 AM | OMG!! I love kissing and believe it to be a VERY important part of intimacy. It gets the heart pumping and the blood boiling.....absolutely, if I had someone that never liked kissini]g it couldn't last...I need kissing and LOTS of it!!! | |
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Posted: 11/16/2007 9:34:40 AM | | I think its really important when it comes down to it nothing gets you more worked up than lots of lusty intamate kissing,and on the other hand its nice to chill out n have a kiss n a cuddle i think it makes you feel wanted. | |
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| Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 11/16/2007 9:39:50 AM | | OMG!! I love kissing and believe it to be a VERY important part of intimacy. It gets the heart pumping and the blood boiling.....absolutely, if I had someone that never liked kissing it couldn't last...I need kissing and LOTS of it!!! | |
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Posted: 11/16/2007 9:43:05 AM | MOST DEFINATELY! A first "REAL" kiss tells you how compassionate a person is and how they value you. If you have not come to that in 4 months I would try to figure out what is going on or GET OUT. . .  | |
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| Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 11/16/2007 9:43:23 AM | Indeed it is!!! For most if not everyone. You may be dating the 1% that does not! lol
You need to let him know that this is an important part of the intimacy with your partner, and ask him his thoughts on the matter. Communication is so IMPORTANT! He may not even realize that he is doing this or that it is bothersome to you.
Approach the subject delicately.
Best,
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| Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 11/16/2007 10:15:58 AM | If you can't give or return a passionate kiss then you can never be a good lover! Kissing is lovemaking w/o taking your clothes off, an art that many don't really know how to do!
Kissing and the eyes will always tell a story about a person, I judge women on both, everything else will fall into place when the two are there. | |
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