| Is kissing a important part of intimacy??? Posted: 11/16/2007 10:38:38 AM | LuvsToScuba..wow!.......forgot what I was going to post after reading yours....oh yea..something about yes I have to have kissing..especially when my partner has a healthy mouth..have to keep our teeth and gums happy so the rest of the body functions correctly..scuba your post made me hot! | |
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| Is kissing a important part of intimacy??? Posted: 11/16/2007 11:10:22 AM | | Kissing is the gateway to intimacy...the texture of the lips, the softness of the skin, the transfer of passion...and not just on the lips...a kiss across the shoulders as your hands glide down her sides...the slow nibble from her lips, down her chin, along the side of her neck..., that intimate kiss in the most intimate of places...the kiss communicates everything you would ever need to know. How unfortunate that there are those who do not like or want to kiss, for they deprive themselves of the very element of intimacy. Think of how you caught your breath the first time Rhett kissed Scarlett; the passion of goodbye in Casablanca; that hesitation in Braveheart...think of that moment so electric as you bring your lips to hers, the look in each other's eyes just before they close and the lips meet...it is intimacy. | |
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| Is kissing a important part of intimacy??? Posted: 11/16/2007 11:13:46 AM | Cottonblossom, thank you so much. Glad that the words could inspire you in such a way to make you hot.
I love to kiss a woman and I love to kiss her from the top of her forehead down to the pinky toe and EVERYWHERE esle in between.
The kisss can be so passionate, sweet, soft. lovely and juicy. I hope you have someone who can kiss you in that way. | |
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| Is kissing a important part of intimacy??? Posted: 11/16/2007 11:37:32 AM | LuvtoScuba..now why do you have to be in NY??..darn it lol..if you were willing..I would love to see your certificate..maybe make you prove it?..seriously though..how about you start a class to teach non-kissers the hows and whys..might save a relationship and bring some joy to people:)..well..we got AA,NA etc..why not a meeting place to teach the true art of kissing?.. | |
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| Is kissing a important part of intimacy??? Posted: 11/16/2007 11:57:46 AM | I wish I had a $1000 for every woman who had told me that I should teach a class on kissing, and not just traditional kisses.
I probably could make some good money if I could figure out a way to make it happen. Have some female instructors who would teach a SELECT group of men what to do. Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm | |
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| Is kissing a important part of intimacy??? Posted: 11/16/2007 12:06:28 PM | It helps when you really enjoy something, you practice, practice, practice, until you have mastered the skill. Guys all I can is experiment and ask for feedback,swallow that pride for a moment, ask what she likes, what she does not like.  | |
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| Is kissing a important part of intimacy??? Posted: 11/16/2007 2:35:59 PM | | What? No kissing? Do you have sex? For me, if I don't kiss the guy in an initimate way than I am not into him. Yes, kissing is everything, alongside sex of course. That is one of the main ways we show our vulnerabilities and emotions to someone we care about. | |
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| Is kissing a important part of intimacy??? Posted: 11/16/2007 2:45:13 PM | What else will he be reluctant to share if he has an aversion to swappin' spit?
In my experience women like to share their appetizers before we bring it on home. Do you want somethng beyond coitus? IF so, then I would think no kissing is a problem. | |
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| Is kissing a important part of intimacy??? Posted: 11/16/2007 5:38:00 PM | | if it weren't for kissing how would you get those butterflies in your stomach that make you feel week in the knees? Yes kissing is very important for me.. | |
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| Is kissing a important part of intimacy??? Posted: 11/16/2007 6:34:33 PM | | To me it's extremely important. It would be difficult to get in the "mood" for sex without the kissing. Honestly, I think kissing is more personal and more emotional than having sex...of course, in a great relationship they go hand in hand. | |
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| Is kissing a important part of intimacy??? Posted: 11/16/2007 7:53:55 PM | | Kissing is definitely an important part of intimacy. I wouldn't / couldn't kiss this wonderful guy I dated for awhile because he was a smoker and the smell and taste is awful, no matter how hard he brushed or listerined, I felt it was turn off and it affected my ability to fully be intimate with him. But your profile says your not a smoker, hmmmm. Either he doesn't know how or has had some really sloppy kisses in the past and the thought of swapping globs of spit turns him off (you know those types who try to drown you). Talk to him about it...that was the best advice offered. | |
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| Is kissing a important part of intimacy??? Posted: 11/16/2007 8:48:37 PM | | Brave girl to have endured the horror of a guy that doesnt like to kiss for 4 months..he would have lasted 4 minutes with me seriously....kissing is a vital part of intimacy as it usually preceeds further fun things..(wink) ...come on girl, this guy sounds odd and perhaps on the other side of the fence??..consider it..either that or his buckteeth get in the way and hes got a complex about it!! lol | |
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| Is kissing a important part of intimacy??? Posted: 11/25/2007 9:37:59 PM | | If there is one thing that turns me on, it is having my boyfriend kiss me. Kissing is something that is special and can really be the highlight of an evening if sone right. I would suggest that you talk to the guy your dating and ask him why he doesn't kiss you more. Does he kiss you on the face, neck, hand, and etc? If not you are missing out..Nothing like a kiss on the neck to get your insides going. | |
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| Is kissing a important part of intimacy??? Posted: 11/25/2007 11:20:33 PM | For me, it's kissing kissing kissing...it is such a turn on when you are both so passionately kissing each other, nothing else exists, it's such a romantic thing to do, it makes you both all warm and fuzzy...
I couldn't live without it...I need to be kissed! | |
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| Is kissing a important part of intimacy??? Posted: 11/26/2007 2:52:09 AM | | yessssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssss. I am sorry to her the op guy does not like to kiss I love it. Especially when you give one of those long passionate ones to your lover . You know ladies one of those ones that make you week in the knee's your heart race and reminds you that that's one of the only reasons you keep us guys around lmao. | |
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| Is kissing a important part of intimacy??? Posted: 11/26/2007 2:54:48 AM | | hell yes kissing is very important and its not something you should get over. People get intimacy confused with sex and kissing is a part of intimacy so if your boyfriend cant kiss then teach him how to kiss. | |
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