| Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 11/26/2007 3:02:48 AM | | thats stupid as hell if you dont know if you dont know that kissing is the gateway to intimacy and is very important you should really learn something | |
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| Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 11/26/2007 9:38:50 AM | I have to say that Kissing is THE MOST important part of intimacy!! you can tell how into you they are with a single kiss. i love kissing....and if my man didnt like to kiss.....omg i would be in a hell of my own. im not just talking about kissing on the lips either..... there has to be kissing all over to satisfy me *wink*
thats just my opinion though!! | |
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| Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 11/30/2007 2:20:56 PM | | I personally wouldn't make a big deal about it before I've sat down and spoke with him about it, maybe hear why he doesn't like to kiss. He could have a very acceptable reason for not wanting to kiss. | |
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| Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 11/30/2007 6:23:25 PM | | kissing is more intimate than sex sometimes... it shows true affection for the person you're with... to be able to taste their desire for you on thier lips, tongue is an absolute turn on.... | |
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| Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 11/30/2007 8:25:11 PM | Kissing's what revs up the engines, as far as I'm concerned, especially if you have a really GOOD kisser as a partner!
I find that no one wants to just make out anymore. It doesn't always have to lead up to sex, either. It can just be a good ol' fashioned make-out session!
I think kissing is vital in an important relationship. It's intimate. It's personal. It expresses so much. | |
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nona37
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Joined: 11/12/2007
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| Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 11/30/2007 10:06:59 PM | | I think he may be the way he is largely because he does not know any better, maybe you should take the initiative and show him how passionate and hot kissing can be, you may show him a side of intimacy he never knew :) | |
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| Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 11/30/2007 10:52:07 PM |  OHHH MY MY .......................Kissing is a part of intimacy
that shows,just what your partner is made of. 
Having the passsion,the sensuality, the chemistry & a little bit of,
give it all you got  with your smooching makes it so WOW....
Tell your Guy that you enjoy Kissing & want to show him how it can be enjoyable.
Provide him with information on kissing , includidng its History.
I do hope you can get him to see it your way, or you may wind up  again.
best of luck
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| Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 12/1/2007 2:50:43 AM | Can you have any real intimacy without kissing?
I cant imagine wanting or enjoying sex whether purely recreational or otherwise without kissing to be honest
It would be like driving a car without any fuel | |
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| Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 12/1/2007 3:21:40 AM | | kissings a most important part of being close, and intimate, its part of sharing yourself. I would feel without it like he was keeping part of himself back from me!Dont understand how a relationship can survive without kissing without it being platonic? This man sounds very cold and i,d be very wary of someone who can,t give and show their affections freely unless you are that kind of person yourself and can live without it. | |
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| Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 12/13/2007 9:12:34 PM | I think you can tell a great deal about a person by how they kiss. Body language, holding, a moment when the rest of the world stops. *sigh* Or a chicken lipped rigid nervous kiss can speak volumes.
4 months? What are they like in bed? | |
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| Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 12/15/2007 10:40:05 PM | During truly passionate kissing with a loved one , you can taste each others souls through their mouths. Making love to each individual part of a persons face with your mouth is oh so intimate and very erotic. Kissing, everywhere, anywhere, with passionate love, brings out the fire and is what separates humans from animals.
Without passionate kissing there is no intimacy.
So the answer to your question is , Extremely!
OP, pass him by for someone who can connect on the level it takes to become truly intimate. | |
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| Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 12/15/2007 11:27:47 PM | | Yes. One of the most important parts, I think. You guys need to talk about it, but it seems like a reason for that. Why wouldn't he want to kiss, Its one of the age old ways of showing intimacy to a partner. | |
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| Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 12/16/2007 12:15:00 AM | I agree totally..
I used to have a neighbor that was drop dead gorgeous, with a body that any woman would envy.. This was a woman that I wanted to get closer to..
The first few friendly kisses were quick pecks.. I was really anxious to go to bed with this woman.. My expectations were running high..
When we finally had the chance to be intimate, the kisses were still the same.. Everytime we had sex, there was no passionate kissing.. It was very difficult to climb to the peak of ectasy without the passion.. Needless to say; the sex wasn't as good as it could have been.. We remained friends, but the sex was too un-rewarding..
Kissing is a big part of passionate lovemaking.. Without passionate kissing, you're only left with just sex !! | |
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| Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 12/16/2007 12:29:25 AM | | Advise??? If you dont like it, get a new boyfriend...what you miss out today will only grow over time...Give yourself a chance & at least start out on a level you enjoy,,, Be Safe Jr_Senator | |
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| Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 12/16/2007 7:42:37 AM | My best friend is living with someone who doesnt like kissing. Until she told me that, I never knew there were people who didnt like kissing! Honestly, cant imagine getting to the level of having sex with someone if they dont kiss, wheres the turn on in that? Of course there are people who arent very good at it, but maybe they were so shot down because of it, theyre afraid to try now. Kissing has to be perfected with lots and lots (and lots) of trials! lol If he isnt that good of a kisser and now his confidence is low because comments have been made about it by other people he has dated, but he really likes you and wants to make an impression, maybe you need to talk to him about it. Could be fun teaching him how to do it right  | |
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| Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 12/16/2007 8:21:24 AM | If he keeps his kisses, he'll slowly waste them. Kisses are meant to be tasted, like a truffle, from the garnish all the way through the velvety smooth centre. And after the first one has been fully savored, you move on to the next, over and over until you both realize you're late for work.
Kisses are on my Santa list this year. And I've been naughty and nice, so I expect many.
Or does the saying go naughty or nice? I always mix that up. | |
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| Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 12/16/2007 8:55:21 AM | Everyone is mentioning passion, but to me kissing is a sign of true affection. Maybe I'm splitting hairs, but to me they are two different things.
You can have passion without affection, but sweetness, tenderness, honestly caring about the other person; those things are shown in a kiss. That sounds like what is missing for you OP. I'm not saying he doesn't care about you, some people just don't know how to show it, or don't like kissing as some have stated. But the feeling of intimacy that passionate kissing brings is a different level than just a quick kiss followed by sex.
Sorry, trying to be serious here, but I just kept wanting to say "a different level than just a peck and a ****er"
MS | |
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| Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 12/16/2007 8:58:48 AM | | I once dated a guy that we had been flirting back and forth for months and the timing was never right - finally it was and it didn't last too long - he kissed closed lips and totally refused all coaxing from me to "open up" - pardon the pun - if he was that lousy and uptight in kissing then I really didnt want to see how uptight he was in other areas - so NEXT !!! | |
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Ronyag
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Joined: 9/21/2007
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| Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 12/16/2007 10:10:46 AM | I think that kissing is a part of intimacy and the overall relationship. I also believe that alot of men forget that women need to be caressed, kissed and made to feel like a woman. While kissing has many forms, it is most enjoyed as a part of passion between two people. I truly enjoy kissing a woman...letting her know my passion for her. Feeling her response by kissing me back only makes me feel even more special to her.
I dated a woman for a few years who really did not like to kiss, things went well for a while, but we went our separate ways. I like be able to express myself to a woman with my kisses---it can lead to many other pleasures for sure.
So, to finally answer your question, yes I do believe kissing is an important part of intimacy.
Happy Holidays to all!   | |
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