mizbex
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Joined: 8/8/2007
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| Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 12/16/2007 10:15:55 AM | | In my book, kissing is the most intimate act between a man and a woman. Yes, sex can be great, but it does not convey the same closeness and emotion that kissing does, you can tell exactely how someone feels for you when they kiss you. You can't fake it in kissing. | |
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| Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 12/16/2007 8:41:56 PM | | Kissing is wonderful - when I was younger and - shall we say less discriminating about who I had sex with - I had sex with lots of women but only kissed ones I felt something about - I still find kissing wonderfully intimate. | |
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| Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 12/16/2007 9:05:55 PM | | Yes, it is for me. Outside the bedroom, it reminds me of all the intimate stuff IN the bedroom! I'd have to find out what the problem is and see if it can be rectified. If not, or if he's not willing to rectify it, then I'd have to decide if that's okay with me or not. | |
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| Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 12/17/2007 12:21:21 AM | My boyfriend and I give each other a peck when we leave each other but when we're in bed and things are pretty heated, he kisses me, and it's the most intense feeling! I love those kisses because it shows me how he's feeling without him having to say a word! | |
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| Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 12/17/2007 10:30:31 AM | | Kissing is a very intimate act if I don;t get a good kiss a nice slow passioante one of the first date I am not going out witht he girl again. Kissing is important maybe your guy has intimacy problems. They write songs about how good a kiss is. Its really important. | |
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| Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 12/17/2007 6:44:34 PM | | Very important. If I kiss someone and it feels like a brick wall, I'm not going back. It's important to the overall experience, a connection, just as important as looking into someone's eyes. | |
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| Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 12/17/2007 8:28:23 PM | Dont have the energy to read all the posts so sorry if I am repeating but from what I have read I dont think so.
I HATE KISSING! Or so I thought. I didnt care to kiss my highschool sweetheart and we were together for 6 years, didnt care to kiss my ex husband and we were together for 3, didnt care to kiss any ex boyfriends either. But.....
I CANT GET ENOUGH OF MY NEW GUYS KISSES!
Cant explain it and to be honest we laugh about it all the time...one of the first things I said to him was I hate to kiss....lol...now I am constantly telling him to kiss me and that I cant get enough.
Point is there could be something behind it....like you dont have great oral hygene? Not what I am saying but I know that was a big factor to me....I want to kiss someone that has a clean mouth and knows how to take care of himself.
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| Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 12/17/2007 8:41:57 PM | Kissing is very important in an intimate relationship, where there is total commitment, especially passionate kissing..
I have been kissing girls/women passionately since I was sixteen.....I love doing it and others love receiving it, to me it's the pinnacle of intimacy..
When you share time alone, passionate kissing brings that special closeness that two lovers share...It is also an important part in lovemaking, if you are in the stage of your relationship.....foreplay, during and after play...
I don't think i could endure a relationship without kissing and lots of it.....it's a prerequesite of a relationship with me....but thats me.
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^He got it right on the money...OP, there's something else going on........ | |
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| Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 12/18/2007 1:55:47 AM | | Yes, OP, kissing is very important! But, what is his deal?? You were going to ask him and you never let us know what his answer was for not kissing you. Inquiring minds want to know! | |
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| Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 12/18/2007 5:36:06 AM | Kissing is very important. Its such a great rush when you are totally n'sync with someones lips, and your hands are rubbing all over eachother, and you can feel the passion building up by the second... umm... yea, I wouldn't give up that feeling for anything.. bet that.
Not to mention the other obvious plus's of a talented tounge and mouth... I'd say it is, in fact, extreemely important if all parties are to be 100% satisfied. | |
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| Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 12/18/2007 7:43:21 AM | | To me kissing is the biggest part if a girl cant kiss very well or doesnt like to then i cant be with her. I can kiss for hours and could not imagine a relationship without that. | |
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| Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 12/18/2007 8:46:05 AM | | I could never even begin a relationship with a man who did not "love" to kiss....it is so sensuous....and often the most important part of intimacy between a man and a woman....for, to me, the kiss is where intimacy and intimacy ends.........and makes the center of intimacy just that much more thunderous..... | |
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| Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 12/19/2007 2:59:15 PM | There is a reason there is a song called "It's in his kiss". The mouth is one of the most sexually sensitive zones we have. I have been very turned on and off by some men's kisses.
I love kissing. Little kisses, long kisses, butterfly kisses etc. I would not want to be with a fellow who was not into kissing . It is an expression of love and sensuality to me.
As to the reason you do not kiss ask him.  | |
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| Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 12/20/2007 7:44:34 AM | i remember wen i used 2 not like kising..sometimes you jst dont want to...it can get a little distracting, bt i got used to and i love it now
so mayb he's jst not into it atm? | |
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| Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 12/20/2007 9:05:06 AM | So what's the difference between a lover who doesn't kiss and your 'battery operated toy'?......Sorry...but if the guy doesn't kiss....I'd dump him and grab my toys.....I can get myself off just as well but will still miss the kisses....so what would I really be missing?
Kissing is the best thing since batteries were invented!...JK...
Kissing is so much a part of who I am, of how I express my feelings and desires. I couldn't imagine a happy relationship without kissing. It just wouldn't happen.
I suggest you ask him about it...For all we know, maybe he has a problem with one of his teeth and the air bothers it or something. If you feel like kissing is important to you and he doesn't, its time for a change...
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| Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 12/20/2007 9:07:35 AM | | Kissing is an essential/important aspect of intimacy for me. Long, deep, sensual kisses can raise the heat quotient quickly when you are with someone you care about. Trailing kisses along your partner's body in the midst of passion can be very erotic. | |
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| Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 12/20/2007 11:13:00 AM | Kissing is very passionate and should be used all the time. Did you ever think of this, when you passionately kiss a person it leaves marks on the face, swollen lips etc. Perhaps he doesn't want another person, like a wife or other girlfriend to see what he has been up to.  | |
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| Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 12/20/2007 11:54:22 AM | I always know a relationship has run its course by the amount of touching & kissing that's going on.... or not going on. Ask him. All of us here on POF are only guessing what the reason could be, when you can actually find out what the real reason is.
Good luck!
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| Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 12/20/2007 11:00:52 PM | Is kissing an important part of intimacy????
LORDY, LORDY YES.
I could kiss (neck, soul kiss, passion kiss, whatever you want to call it) for hours before moving on to the next step. THEN I'm steamin' !!!
I myself don't know how this question could even be asked. | |
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| Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 12/20/2007 11:54:46 PM | | I think some of it has to do with kissing being too intimate for the person. And some men do not like to kiss a woman they are not 'in love' with. I shitcan men who don't like to kiss me. Forget that. I want passion and lips! It's unacceptable. | |
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