| Would you let someone teach you how to kiss?
Posted: 11/13/2007 5:13:51 AM | Let me get this straight, someone who apparently has already kissed me (how else would they know), and thus I find attractive, wants to teach me how to kiss?
Well hell's bells, this means I find her attractive, and she finds me attractive enough to find an excuse to kiss me more? Why the heck would I let my ego get in the way of this? 
I'm sorry, I think I realize why I don't get dates--I see the forest, everyone sees the trees 
I wouldn't care if she was right or wrong, hell ya I'd let her teach me | |
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| Would you let someone teach you how to kiss?
Posted: 11/13/2007 9:01:42 AM | | Hmm. I've only ever been the kissing teacher, never the student. (Mind you this was in college, a million years ago.) If I actually found someone who thought they could improve on my abilities, why not? Provided they were terribly polite and nice about it, just as I was. | |
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| Would you let someone teach you how to kiss?
Posted: 11/14/2007 5:30:25 AM | I've never had any complaints on my kissing abilities, but this question brings to mind a partner I had at one time. We got along beautifully ~ my only complaint was "he can't kiss" ~ (VERY important in my book). Where I once had the attitude if you can't rock my world with your kisses, we're not going far ~ my tune quickly changed to yes ~ you CAN teach someone what "you" like simply by 'taking the reins' so to speak. I never once mentioned he was a bad kisser ~ I just used a little more agression while in the lip lock position ........ whaaaalaaaaaa! He ended up being a GREAT kisser ~ I just had to have a little patience, and be willing to silently teach him what I liked.
Now ~ to answer the question: If someone told me (on a first date) I was a bad kisser, it would depend on how great everything else was about the date as to how I'd take this comment. If the date was awesome in all other aspects and I wanted it to go further, I would be receptive to "lessons" ~ LOL. If it wasn't so great, it'd be a great excuse to move on.
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| Would you let someone teach you how to kiss?
Posted: 11/14/2007 11:26:01 AM | Looking back when I didn't know what a French kiss was about and how it tasted, you could imagine what it was to experience it first time ever. Hmm ... I suppose I *took to French like a duck to water* LOL, and never looked back.
P.S.
"Like a teacher - like a pupil" | |
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| Would you let someone teach you how to kiss?
Posted: 11/14/2007 12:07:49 PM | Yes . . I would . . !!
I consider myself 'good' . . but , since I haven't had much practice in the last 9 years . .
I'm Open for a remedial Re-training course . . 
Is there a Certified Tongue-wrestling Instructor available . . ??!.... | |
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| Would you let someone teach you how to kiss?
Posted: 11/14/2007 1:02:15 PM | uuuuuuuuhm, not sure here, but in my limited experience, I have not met 2 women who like to be kissed the same way!!  To me, kissing has always been a mutual thing, and yes, sometimes communication is necessary, but always, always, always, individual to the occasion or persons involved. | |
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| Would you let someone teach you how to kiss?
Posted: 11/14/2007 1:15:19 PM | | I think its funny that just about everyone thinks they are master kissers. There are many styles of kissing and it really depends on the persons preference. With me the breathe has to be fresh, or no matter what style it is, it will not be hot for me. Thats most important! | |
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| Would you let someone teach you how to kiss?
Posted: 11/14/2007 4:36:04 PM | | kissing...it's one of my favorite things to do as long as someone is a good kisser. i've had a couple good kissers and many that really didn't trip my trigger so-to-speak. i've been told that i am great at kissing, but they could have just wanted more, LOL. actually, i think i do pretty well because when i am really into it, i can be very passionate. i wouldn't mind if someone asked me to try it a different way. i haven't been as bold to tell most of the others that i don't think they kiss that well because most of them were very defensive men. i don't mind suggestions or a little helpful criticism. as far as ending the date, i hadn't in the past, but if someone doesn't turn me on from just kissing, it's going to take a lot more in the personality area to convince me. | |
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| Would you let someone teach you how to kiss?
Posted: 11/14/2007 6:14:34 PM | I had a woman tell me she was going to teach me how to kiss. The thing is, we'd never kissed before. So I wasn't too offended.
And, yeah, she gave great kissing lessons. | |
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| Would you let someone teach you how to kiss?
Posted: 11/15/2007 1:41:02 AM | everyone kisses differently, what worked for the last might not work for the next!
Most times it easy to guide someone but yeah talking about it is probably your best bet!
One guy i dated kinda probed me with his tongue continuously, it was not a pleasent kissing technique and im sure he bruised my cheeks after a while!
the worst are those you dont care to open thier mouths, i like a passionate kisser not a peck here and there! | |
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| Would you let someone teach you how to kiss?
Posted: 11/15/2007 2:52:39 AM | Who really thinks they're a bad kisser?
IF I got that kind of feedback, and it was a woman I'm really interested in (and you can bet it would be, or I wouldn't be kissing her in the first place!), I think I'd have to be some kind of idiot not to take it.
Of *course* I'd be annoyed at first (actually probably more like mortified) - no one really likes to hear they're bad at anything - but I would *really* want to know how to improve. I'm always open for any instruction on how to please women, general or specific! Plus kissing lessons just sounds...fun. 
That said...I've sort of gotten consistent feedback to the contrary, so maybe I'd feel differently about it if it actually did happen to me? Hard to say.
What I'm curious about is...has anyone done this? What were the results? Or have you *not* done it, even though you kissed a bad kisser, or did you just let it go? | |
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| Would you let someone teach you how to kiss?
Posted: 11/15/2007 3:02:53 AM | | I agree with you cinderfknrella...everyone does kiss differently. Thats why I think it is important to be a versatile kisser. What I mean by that is, when you kiss someone for the first time, pay very close attention to how they kiss, then make the necessary adjustments on your end. If that fails, and they do mention something, then you may want to listen to what they have to say. I am not trying to brag but, every woman I have ever kissed has made it a point to tell me how good of a kisser I am, and I attribute that to being able to conform my style to theirs. | |
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| Would you let someone teach you how to kiss?
Posted: 11/16/2007 1:33:23 PM | i agree wholeheartedly with Tek ^^^^ above. you mirror their actions in the beginning and as you get to know each other better open up the lines of communication in regards to smootching.
i had to do this with a woman who thought that her tongue was the propeller on the Titanic. it whirled around and around at 500 rpm. i'm surprised she didn't take off like a helicopter!  tom | |
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| Would you let someone teach you how to kiss?
Posted: 11/16/2007 1:52:25 PM | agreed.. preference.
I'd be pretty pissed off if i found out someone who i kissed and didn't like the way they kissed had been taught to kiss like that.
I kiss the way i kiss because that's how i like it..
Besides, what is a good kiss?
Would i let someone teach me to kiss different.. nope!
Would i teach someone to kiss different..nope! | |
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| Would you let someone teach you how to kiss?
Posted: 11/16/2007 1:53:22 PM |
Would you let someone teach you how to kiss?
Yeah sure, I'd be curious about how they preferred to kiss, and if I had obviously already wanted to kiss them and had you might as well plod along hadnt ya?
Would you be annoyed if someone told you that you were a bad kisser?
Course not, thats like saying would you be annoyed if someone said they didnt like your favourite TV programme
Everyone has their own likes and dislikes and there are countless ways of kissing so its no big deal
And some minor variances can be quite fun to try now and then
Would you end the date there?
Why? Either you see if the kissing styles can find a common ground if the attraction is enough to want to do that, or you just scrap the kissing and carry on chatting, or if yer pissed enough I suppose you could forego the kissing and just move on to the oral and see if you fair any better on their other lips....
Would you be mortally offended if your date suggested "teaching" you?
Mortally? Like have a heart attack and drop dead? Erm......nope
I would only be mortally shocked at anything if someone turned up on a first date with 12 kids and a vicar wearing a wedding dress and chaperoned by a man with a shotgun really
Thats a silly question
Would you actually do what he suggested?
Is it me or is this starting to feel like Deja vu incarnate? | |
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| Would you let someone teach you how to kiss?
Posted: 11/16/2007 1:59:43 PM | ^^^ wholly quote-ing!............. ummm how's you do that?
there are countless ways of kissing
there are....?...i don't know, maybe i'm way off here, but isn't kissing just rubbin' lips...?
after all ...a kiss is just a kiss...but kissing is.......lip action no?
edit: oh...you fixed it....damn, and it looks so nice.............. | |
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| Would you let someone teach you how to kiss?
Posted: 11/16/2007 2:07:41 PM |
there are....?...i don't know, maybe i'm way off here, but isn't kissing just rubbin' lips...? and after all ...a kiss is just a kiss...but kissing is.......lip action no? Surely tho, if that WAS true everyone would kiss exactly the same way and this thread wouldnt even exist? so obviously there must be different ways of
kissing?
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| Would you let someone teach you how to kiss?
Posted: 11/16/2007 2:29:40 PM | Kissing goes along with making love as well. If you can't take a little direction what can you do? Why be offended? If I was a bad kisser I wouldn't have a problem accepting it. Even though I have been told I was a good kisser numerous times in my life, without asking of course, I would definately do whatever he wanted me to do. That is if he was worthy of a guy to be kissed. :)
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