| |
| Would you let someone teach you how to kiss?
Posted: 11/16/2007 4:37:05 PM | | Oh my. If you think you are a good kisser now... just think back to all that you learned along the way... a little touch here, a flick there. why in the world wwould you ever want to stop learning...... | |
|
| |
| Would you let someone teach you how to kiss?
Posted: 11/17/2007 10:00:28 AM | Kissing Lessons?!? Do I need 'em? Heck NO! (yeah, right. On the other hand, It's all about the 'chemistry' - but that's another thread) Would I let them? HECK YEAH!
So. I meet a POF lady, on the first date she would not let me kiss her g'nite. Seems she had just experienced a self-proclaimed 'wurld-class' kisser whose oral inspection of her tonsils left with - shall we say.. a bad taste in her mouth.
Our discussions around that experience went from 'men really need to learn... to: ya gonna teach me? and has lead to lots of teasing, fun and anticipation. If our schedules ever coincide again, (yet another thread) ...I hope she follows thru. WHAT A GREAT WAY TO GET TO KNOW SOMEONE! | |
|
| Would you let someone teach you how to kiss?
Posted: 12/15/2007 5:33:10 AM | | Would I be offended if a date told me I was a bad kisser ?? Yes.. There are more subtle way's of getting the point across without critism. "EXAMPLE" I dated a lady once who even after 2 dates would simply not kiss me . I mean we kissed but it was a closed mouth peck then she would turn her head and lay it on my sholder. We seemed to be compatible in all other way's except the kissing part so I asked. Do I have bad breath ? She said no. Do you like to kiss I asked. She said,,,, love kissing. Hmmmm.. I was confused so I asked her if she would show me how she liked to be kissed. She agreed. Let me tell you. She turned out to be a great kisser and lover. Dunno !! Maybe she wanted to take the lead but was too shy to do so without some coaxing.. | |
|
| Would you let someone teach you how to kiss?
Posted: 12/15/2007 5:44:58 AM | | On a rare occasionan I've been told I'm not a good kisser, I always rack that up to the guy and I just not being compatable. Anyone that is into me has always said I'm amazing and one of the best. But I kiss very passionately and deeply... so if they're afraid of that then they'll probably think I'm horrible. The ones that weren't so great, I tried to teach them by example first and if that didn't work then I'd simply say something like "are you ever going give me a real kiss??" and then they'd start to get the hint to pay attention to what I was doing. | |
|
| Would you let someone teach you how to kiss?
Posted: 12/15/2007 9:21:18 AM | | Practice makes perfect. I'm all for practicing as long as she'd like if she's the right woman. Never a bad thing to put a little work into pleasing a mate. | |
|
| |
| Would you let someone teach you how to kiss?
Posted: 12/15/2007 9:06:29 PM | I wouldn't have a problem with it. I think that is something couples tend to skip over. Learning what each other like in the way of kissing and talking about it could really improve things...there are big individual differences. Too many people kiss their partner and are pretty happy with it. Therefore they don't really make an effort to imrpove. If it ain't broke don't fix it kind of mentality.
Add another vote for communication. | |
|
MykleJ
|
Joined: 11/2/2007
Msg: 60 | |
| Would you let someone teach you how to kiss?
Posted: 12/15/2007 9:17:22 PM | | I think that you can be taught how to be a good kisser. It just takes patience and time, I've nevr had that problem of being a bad kisser, I was dating a women once and while we kissed her hips would slowly start to move. By the time I started unbuckling her pants ahe was really turned on. So I guess that qualifies me as an amazing kisser ;). Just tooting my own horn too. | |
|
| Would you let someone teach you how to kiss?
Posted: 12/15/2007 9:40:59 PM | Ultimately aren't we all taught how to kiss every time we kiss someone new?
Anyone who enjoys kissing for the intimate and exquisite experience it is pays attention to what they are doing and the reaction it inspires......... By paying attention you learn what your new partner likes, and ultimately each couple develops their own style of kissing that melds their likes and experiences.....
I know that each relationship I have been in has developed its own unique style of kissing. None was better or worse than the other....... It worked for both of us in the relationship.......
Kissing is about sharing the most intimate thing two people can share......We owe it to our partners to learn about what they like and combine it with our likes into a unique style and experience..... | |
|
| Would you let someone teach you how to kiss?
Posted: 12/15/2007 10:29:03 PM |
lol It makes me laugh when people say they don't need that help, they are the best at kissing. TOOT TOOT!! Own horn people.
Yeah, but for me it really IS true. | |
|
| Would you let someone teach you how to kiss?
Posted: 12/15/2007 11:01:43 PM | | For me it has been simple really. If I am involved with someone who's kissing techniques could use some improvement, I simply tell them, relax, sit back and let me make love to your face. They are put on the receiving end with no pressure to perform , they can then just enjoy what is happening to them and they always learn from the experience............ummm kissing is the absolute best form of intamacy. | |
|
| Would you let someone teach you how to kiss?
Posted: 12/15/2007 11:05:04 PM | I would and I have and it was amazing.
I totally haven't got mad kissing skillz, yet xD. I'm always looking for new expiriences and learning opportunities. | |
|
| Would you let someone teach you how to kiss?
Posted: 12/21/2007 1:18:46 PM | | Bad kissing is like bad sex, usually it comes from being selfish and getting what you want, you also might not be selfish but in too much of a hurry to be fully involved in kissing. There might be a few people whos lips and tounges do not function properly, or those who are inexperienced. Frankly I love kissing and making out and savor every moment of that part of being with a woman. | |
|
| Would you let someone teach you how to kiss?
Posted: 12/21/2007 1:24:04 PM | It's been a few years since I've had any Practice . . so . .
eventhough I don't *NEED* a teacher . . .
I'd actually _Appreciate_ a -refresher course- . .  . . | |
|
| |
| |
| |
| |
| |
| Would you let someone teach you how to kiss?
Posted: 12/25/2007 6:53:36 PM | Would you let someone teach you how to kiss? I’d let them show me how they like to be kissed.
Would you be annoyed if someone told you that you were a bad kisser? I’d be shocked, but open to further discussion.
Would you end the date there? No
Would you be mortally offended if your date suggested "teaching" you? No, not mortally. But a little humility would go a long way here.
Would you actually do what he suggested? First I’d want to know why I’m doing this with a man. | |
|
| Would you let someone teach you how to kiss?
Posted: 12/25/2007 7:47:27 PM | Would depend upon how much of a turnon THEIR kisses were. If their kisses dropped me to my knees? SURE I'D TAKE LESSONS! LOL
How silly to be so rigid that one thinks one cannot improve?
 | |
|
| Would you let someone teach you how to kiss?
Posted: 12/25/2007 8:57:35 PM | I don't think there is a such thing as a bad kisser.
Every woman I've kissed didn't kiss exactly the same.
My last girlfriend, we had a very peculiar kisssing style, it was very...animalistic. I didn't kiss her "normal". I can think of another one who didn't use any tongue at all. I can think of another who was a bad kisser, but she really wasn't a bad kisser. We just didn't kiss the same.
We took it slow and worked are way around, we had to "teach" each other so to speak.
Kissing is like dancing, it's a team effort. If someone is kissing bad, it's because you're not on the same...I don't know what the word is. If a couple kisses bad, its not the fault of the individiual participants, it's the fault of the couple. You gotta learn each other.
I dont know if that made any sense. | |
|
| Would you let someone teach you how to kiss?
Posted: 12/30/2007 7:57:25 PM | Did a thread search on this, and nothing came up.
I've seen a few posts that said that you could teach someone how to kiss.
People can learn to do pretty much anything with enough practice.
What I want to know is:
Would you let someone teach you how to kiss?
I would let a woman I was dating teach me how she liked to be kissed, yes.
Would you be annoyed if someone told you that you were a bad kisser?
Only if they were not willing to show me how they liked to be kissed. What works for one woman does not necessarily work with another and my name is not Kreskin.
Would you end the date there?
Not necessarily. See the previous point.
Would you be mortally offended if your date suggested "teaching" you?
Not at all.
Would you actually do what he suggested?
Tricky question. In principle I agree with it but since I would not be dating a guy to begin with, the answer has to be "no."
I'd like to see men's and women's opinions on this, please. I'd really like to see how many people would be willing to accept that they are a bad kisser, or that they could improve, and would accept the tips and do them?
Chalk me up to the "willing to be taught" crowd even though one woman's "great kisser" is another woman's "lousy kisser" at times.
Kissing is like dancing, it's a team effort. If someone is kissing bad, it's because you're not on the same...I don't know what the word is.
Page? Wavelength? Radio Frequency?
If a couple kisses bad, its not the fault of the individiual participants, it's the fault of the couple. You gotta learn each other.
I dont know if that made any sense.
Yes it does and I agree. | |
|
Home
login 
