| Would you let someone teach you how to kiss?
Posted: 12/30/2007 8:24:34 PM | | I always thought I was pretty good at kissing, because I read a few books and never had any complaints.Until I was kissing this woman with a European background and relized there was a whole new level.I learned a good kiss is a whole body deal.Very exciting | |
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| Would you let someone teach you how to kiss?
Posted: 12/31/2007 9:51:20 AM | hehehe... let him teach you to do it EXACTLY the way he likes so that when you feel like being a lametard you can do it wrong then laugh at the face he makes...
sometimes doing that'll get you in trouble though. 
Also... you probably shouldn't do that unless you're fairly comfortable and close with him... cause you know some people on here take this way too seriously and would tell me I'm playing headgames... when in reality... I'm just being a nuiscence.. My boy doesn't care, he knows I'm just being me, it's called an understanding between jackasses. ^___^ | |
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| Would you let someone teach you how to kiss?
Posted: 3/18/2008 6:27:55 AM | I think kissing is very much like making love in that we each have particular likes and dislikes...neither is right or wrong...just preference. To be so closed minded as to think I "my way is the only" doesn't make sense to me. We should be open to what the other person wants and enjoys in addition to our own preferences....so the answer is "Yes" I would let someone teach me how THEY like being kissed.
Now that being said, I can't stand having a tongue rammed down my throat on a first date when I hardly know that person. I think French kissing is a more passionate and intimate type of kissing and something I don't do with every Tom,****and Harry I meet. ...but again, that's MY personal preference.
I recently met a man who seemed very nice and at the end of the first date (after a couple of sweet pecks during the evening) he rams his tongue down my throat. When he asked to see me again I told him my feelings about French Kissing and that he was moving a little too fast for me. Instead of saying, "that's cool, I can back off a little bit" he said he felt I was over-reacting and thought we had potential, but that he hoped I would find someone who was willing to move at the slower pace I wanted. Now that's someone not open to compromise. I wished him and his tongue well  and moved on.
I teasingly now inform my dates of my preference for a "tongueless" first date....and they have all been cool about it....God Love 'Em! 
When I meet my Mr. Close to Perfect I will certainly want to learn his preferences in kissing and love making (if and when it got to that point) and hope he would want to learn mine. That's what it's all about folks...compromise. 
Rose Mary | |
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| Would you let someone teach you how to kiss?
Posted: 3/18/2008 7:21:39 AM | Sure, why not? If it was someone I wanted to spend a lot of time kissing, then I'd be quite happy to learn how they liked to do it.
Everyone has different preferences for kissing anyway, so you never really seem to end up kissing any two people quite the same way.
I'm not so arrogant as to assume I can figure out exactly how every girl likes to kiss, or that every girl will like to kiss the same ways I do. | |
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| Would you let someone teach you how to kiss?
Posted: 3/18/2008 7:45:29 AM | Not only teach me, but allow me to teach them as well.......
Kissing is a lost art to many, and when you find another that kisses in that sensual way, takes their time, and uses it as some of the best foreplay........it becomes an intricate part of love making and relationships........
Just as with many things that I have learned over the years, kissing is another one that some took the time to teach me long ago, and once learned, perfected my way to suit my personality and style. I am happy to partake in a wonderful kiss, and if the attraction and chemistry is there......that kiss will create "sparks"........and we all know what that means.......
Just my opinion........   | |
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| Would you let someone teach you how to kiss?
Posted: 3/18/2008 7:50:05 AM | I never have had any complaints,but if I really liked the guy and he wanted to teach me better techniques w/ the art of kissing...bring it on...should be alot of fun practicing  | |
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| Would you let someone teach you how to kiss?
Posted: 3/18/2008 10:47:22 AM | | It is just like anything. Everyone kisses differently. SOme more frocefull, some more soft. It no different then getting your lady to help you out with using your fingers on her, or going down on her. It's all about communication and being open to suggestions. | |
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| Would you let someone teach you how to kiss?
Posted: 3/18/2008 5:12:44 PM | | Isn't kissin a natural without havin to be taught??? if you don't like the way a person kisses and you want more out of them tell them or just go with the flow. If he/she isn't a good kisser to you ask your self why you standin there for? You be the judge, if you or your partner is not used to kissing then you or your partner need practice I would think. Just try to do it with a natural way of it without hurtin' that persons feelings. | |
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| Would you let someone teach you how to kiss?
Posted: 3/18/2008 8:40:58 PM | I don't have that problem and have been complimented on my kissing, but if I was with someone and they offered to "work with me" on the kissing, I would have to think they liked me enough and were interested in pursuing the relationship if they offered to improve my kissing to what they liked. And if I liked them back, I would want them to show me what they liked. Unless it was truly a turn-off to me, or I didn't like their version of kissing and/or teaching, I would want to improve it. I believe that kissing is truly a lost art - many relationships could be passionate much longer or re-ignited if the participants took the time to engage in some sensual kissing, and not just on the lips! If you've never tried it, you have no idea how provocative great kissing can be, especially when it doesn't end up in sex! It can stoke the fire, for sure.  | |
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| Would you let someone teach you how to kiss?
Posted: 3/18/2008 8:54:12 PM | Another kissing topic,, Didn't anyone play spin the bottle when you were kids,, or give a girl a nickle just to get one,, I charged a dime,, that might be where it all starts,,
You may be able to teach some one the moves, But you can't teach what is natural to him or her,, If someones lips are hard, and you like soft, if some ones tongue is wide, narrow, long, short, some one who's mouth is always dry,, or drooling,,,
The trick is,, and its part of that chemistry that is difficult to explain. You just became one with each other, yet you do learn their likes and dislikes,, like gagging someone, or drooling all over them..
All that said,, you need the passion,, the desire,, the lust,, those and more need to mutual,,
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| Would you let someone teach you how to kiss?
Posted: 3/18/2008 11:21:24 PM | I think "whatever floats your boat". Excellant kissing for me is really imperative to being stoked for what goes on below..and I think everyone has methods of kissing that they prefer, much like we have different errogenous zones, etc. If I was with someone who wasn't doing it for me in the kissing department, I would make suggestions of what really turns me on in the kissing technique. If communication is open, and people can follow suggestions in the kissing department, then all will fare well with communication and openness in the other areas of lovemaking. It is not about hurt feelings...or taking things personally...it is about getting attuned to what makes the other person feel good and wanting to do your best to fulfill their needs without compromising yourself( don't do anything that makes YOU feel uncomfortable).
Happy Kissing!! :-) | |
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| Would you let someone teach you how to kiss?
Posted: 3/19/2008 9:45:10 AM | people have different ways they like to be kissed.. i would be offended if i was on a date with a guy and he says " i dont like that, can i teach you how to kiss?" yeah id end the date there lol cos thats just rude. if however he just said "this is how i like it" and then shows me.. thats great. i have had to tell a guy how i like to be kissed before..
i really liked him, but he was just soo sloppy and it was grose.. so i just sort of showed him how i like to be kissed, he wasnt offended, he was great after he knew what i liked.
i love kissing and i do think i am a good kisser, maybe cos ive had lots of practice lol, i dont know, ive never had a guy wanna change how i kiss.. im a pretty laid back person so i dont think id get offended by that anyway.. | |
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| Would you let someone teach you how to kiss?
Posted: 3/19/2008 1:59:31 PM |
Kissing is unique each time. Sometimes soft will light two fires..sometimes intense will be like fireworks...sometimes passion will build...and emotions will "glow" as the fire builds...and builds...and builds!
Teaching to kiss or learning a new technique always makes me glow! | |
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