| Would you let someone teach you how to kiss?
Posted: 3/19/2008 2:14:19 PM | | I hope so, and I hope she teaches me how to make love to her and every other aspect. I don't think I'm a bad kisser or lover, and I have never had any complaints. But I think every woman I have ever kissed and/or made love too, has been different. Sure you take things you have learned from other ladies into the relationship, but I love learning how to make that woman purrr!!! | |
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| Would you let someone teach you how to kiss?
Posted: 3/19/2008 2:30:47 PM | Well, feedback on how well you're doing is and should always be appreciated. And if you're doing it wrong, take steps to learn how to do it right. So if someone is willing to teach you, go for it.
If I was told I was a bad kisser, i'd take steps to not be one. But that's just me. | |
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| Would you let someone teach you how to kiss?
Posted: 10/27/2008 4:32:07 AM | Different people have different ideas of the perfect kiss, it’s a matter of compromise but I am always willing and keen to learn as I want my partner to be happy  | |
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| Would you let someone teach you how to kiss?
Posted: 2/19/2009 3:11:11 AM | Kissing is all about reading body language.....Go with the flow...when the kisser and kisse are in tune to each other the kiss can be so intense and the fires within your loins will burn so hot you might think you are gonna explode instantaneously..
Whew ...Mercy...Wow....  | |
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| Would you let someone teach you how to kiss?
Posted: 3/1/2009 11:19:07 PM | I welcome the idea...
As pathetic as it sounds, 23 yrs old and I'm a clean slate!
Never had that crash course with the opposite sex in grade school, never had a girlfriend, never even been kissed. It's ridiculous and somewhat pathetic... I'm not really ashamed of it and trying change my luch...
So I hope that when I do find a girl and if it gets to that point, chances are anyone I see is going to have experience in way more than just kissing, I hope that she will coach me in whatever areas I need more confidence in. | |
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| Would you let someone teach you how to kiss?
Posted: 3/2/2009 6:43:30 AM | Hmmm...I believe in communication with your partner, however, if its a first kiss or second kiss and its not really GOOD, i'm not sure if either of us will be motivated to give further instruction, you know what i mean?
Kissing is the basis of "The Start of a Good Thing", so if it isnt all that good and you feel you have to INSTRUCT this person to do it a BETTER way, then i cant imagine there's a lot of natural SPARK...maybe not worth investing anymore time...
Wouldnt get very far from there...however, if you're with someone for awhile (but i dont think you would be if their kiss didnt match you) talking thru situations like kissing or even sex is absolutely a must...you need to hear what it is that turns them on, how they like certain things, the way the like it...take it all under advisement...
That said, if they are going to GUIDE me (thru instructions) I get to do the same back. Fair is Fair  | |
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| Would you let someone teach you how to kiss?
Posted: 3/2/2009 7:35:59 AM | | well I think that i do pretty ok in the kissing category...I have actually had compliments ...But sure If I wasn't doing it the way she wanted ...I would be glad to take lessons on how to KISS HER .../I aim's to please ....I have kissed a lots of girls ...with lots of different styles of kissing ....... but have never had a bad kiss | |
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| Would you let someone teach you how to kiss?
Posted: 3/2/2009 7:49:12 AM | 1. Would you let someone teach you how to kiss?
LOL. There is only one possible answer to this. She will do that the moment our lips touch, as I will be doing. If discussion is appropriate, e.g., a woman to whom I am attracted is going to explain to me how to get her going more effectively than I already have (we are already on the cusp of something, or the issue almost never comes up), whether it be suggestions about kissing, anywhere and anything, touching, use of the wizard's wand, incantations, spells, ambience, music, word associations, favorite foods or anything else, I'm going to be takin' copious notes.
2. Would you be annoyed if someone told you that you were a bad kisser?
Annoyance, irritation, anger, pique- not in my playbook.
3. Would you end the date there? Withdrawal is a last resort. I do that once, after all else has failed, and creative solutions are a specialty of mine. Lol.
4. Would you be mortally offended if your date suggested "teaching" you?
Mortal offense? You mean, like capital crime? I have never been offended mortally, fatally or otherwise at anyone's suggesting specific ways that I might improve. Bemused? Yes. Amused? Routinely. Curious? Always.
5. Would you actually do what he suggested?
If we're still talking about kissing, then you're beginning to get weird on me. Would I be open to learning about something, anything, from a male? Of course. I might quibble about the method of instruction, but my mind really is quite open.
Human beings are the most fascinating creatures, and a woman is especially so. She will have my attention no matter what she is offering. | |
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| Would you let someone teach you how to kiss?
Posted: 3/2/2009 7:53:06 AM | That wouldnt be a problem for me, either. Most of the time i end up doing the instructions or the other person kinda adapts to my kissing.
Would this happen, however, if i like the person enough, sure.
I wouldnt end the date there, but it would be slightly embarassing.... | |
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| Would you let someone teach you how to kiss?
Posted: 3/2/2009 9:02:48 AM | | Kissing is pretty natural. Everyone can kiss. How you liked being kissed is all a matter of personal preference. There are different ways to kiss but unless you aren't really human I don't believe that someone can be a "horrible" kisser. Someone may think you kiss bad while someone may think you kiss fine. I think it's okay to show someone how you like being kissed but to say you have to "teach" someone seems like you're full of yourself. You're automatically assuming that you're a good kisser when in fact you may not be good to a lot of people. I'm not sure what the OCD obsession with kissing absolutely perfect is anyway. It seems like another lame excuse to be used by people who are too afraid to actually commit to a serious relationship. | |
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| Would you let someone teach you how to kiss?
Posted: 3/2/2009 9:16:07 AM | Ultimately aren't we all taught how to kiss every time we kiss someone new?
Anyone who enjoys kissing for the intimate and exquisite experience it is pays attention to what they are doing and the reaction it inspires......... By paying attention you learn what your new partner likes, and ultimately each couple develops their own style of kissing that melds their likes and experiences.....
I know that each relationship I have been in has developed its own unique style of kissing. None was better or worse than the other....... It worked for both of us in the relationship.......
Kissing is about sharing the most intimate thing two people can share......We owe it to our partners to learn about what they like and combine it with our likes into a unique style and experience..... | |
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| Would you let someone teach you how to kiss?
Posted: 3/2/2009 11:16:51 AM | ultimately each couple develops their own style of kissing
My previous significant other was a great kisser. I doubted he could be topped. Since ending that relationship my kissing had consisted of the quick peck on the lips that was stolen at the last minute of a first date. Of course nothing like I was used to.
The first time a current beau kissed me my immediate thought was, "this is different." Not better, not worse, just different. It was a first date, and the kisses were nice and not overly aggressive, and were well received. They were intimate enough that I knew he felt that spark we all look for in our date.
I have come to the conclusion that no two people kiss alike, we all have our own particular styles and preferences. When two people kiss for the first time is is merely a glimpse into the future. I liken it to a dance, where one partner takes the lead and the other partner willingly follows. Sometimes you take turns controlling the choreography. With time and practice it becomes effortless and a couple naturally follow a rhythm that is unique to "them."
Kisses that at first impressed me as "nice", now after the fourth date, are kisses to die for. I could kiss this man from sunrise to sunset and not grow bored or weary. At the moment his kisses are something I long for.
I do believe that often the way a man kisses you is a clue to the way he would make love with you. I have found in the past that a terrific kisser is often a terrific lover.
Perhaps it is because the same attention you take to learn to kiss a new partner, is the same attention you take to learn to make love with them. It is something unique to the pair. It is all about the dance. | |
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| Would you let someone teach you how to kiss?
Posted: 3/2/2009 1:47:46 PM | | One of my funniest lines that i say in a crowded club or party is when asked why my ladt relationshit didnt work out. i tell them this. "she broke up with me cause i didnt know how to kiss".. several times women wanted to test me out to see if i was for real or not. | |
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| Would you let someone teach you how to kiss?
Posted: 3/2/2009 2:46:29 PM | I adore kissing!! Love it! I would've never thought it unpleasant had I not met KOC...
I dreaded kissing KOC when I was with him. Why? Because I needed a bib. Never was "swapping spit" more literal then when kissing that man. It was utterly disgusting.
If I'm not mistaken, he was 10-12 years my senior and a bit too insecure, so I never told him how I felt about the kissing which was just the tip of the iceberg... | |
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| Would you let someone teach you how to kiss?
Posted: 3/2/2009 4:10:46 PM | | I think I kiss pretty good, but would love to be taught on doing better...one night a woman took me onto the dance floor and just schooled me on how to dance, being a student is fun and sexy! | |
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