| Re: Anybody finding love out there? Posted: 6/10/2004 6:37:35 PM | True love is something you'll only know the meaning of when you find it, yet you still will not really be able to define it. Love is a word that no other words can do justice.
I still don't know what love is, but I have found a person I would like to get know better. So, to answer to the thread is no, but in a week, a month or a year it could be yes. Or maybe it doesn't really matter, there's always reason to be hopeful.
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| Re: Anybody finding love out there? Posted: 6/11/2004 8:45:02 AM | Hi I was one of those people who thought that, cyber romance was just ridiculous.
Well I have been talking to this very special man now for 1 month. Is a month now I'm in chat.... I really want know him better He give me what I never Had before...He is so sweet and real I'm crazy for him... I havnet met him yet but ..I love him so much... U never know what might happen or how love might find u.
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| Re: Anybody finding love out there? Posted: 6/11/2004 8:59:31 AM | Ti amo...love is great...being in love is the only way to live life....When you find someone as special as I have found..you feel alive and wanting to face the challenges of life Even if she lives in another country, its worth the pain of being away from her until me meet, this seems like a pretty nifty way to introduce ones self to many women...And im lucky enough to find one I really want and desire...Ti amo | |
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alura2
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| Re: Anybody finding love out there? Posted: 6/12/2004 3:14:22 AM | Fer sure, Alura....I swear I found a really cool momma{besides you}, a sexy Italian teacher who is gonna teach me to speak and write Italian. I figure if I'm gonna spend so much time on this computer I might as well pick-up another language in the process.....and I was lucky enought to find a great teacher.....Aio ti amo tantissimo.......tanti baci <--looking forward to travelling to europe again....been a long time | |
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| Re: Anybody finding love out there? Posted: 6/12/2004 4:18:01 AM | People be 4real............you not going to find real love online! Lust maybe , but not love sowwy:-)
So just take online for what it is ......fun!
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rjn40
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| Re: Anybody finding love out there? Posted: 6/12/2004 8:05:09 AM | | I can see it being a different way of finding love, but I do think it can happen. people meet and get married on the internet all the time. it just doesn't happen over night, but I think you can find love online. | |
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| Re: Anybody finding love out there? Posted: 6/12/2004 8:23:16 AM | | I have a friend at work that met her man online from a dating service, and now they are married, so I know for a fact that it can happen!..... That was one of the reasons that I got into it!..... I know that it's not all hopeless!..... Like rj said it does take time, because it doesn't happen over night!...... | |
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| Re: Anybody finding love out there? Posted: 6/12/2004 8:28:47 AM | | I had to grab my pic off my profile on paltalk......lol. I'm always glad to see you in here Gothic... you sexy thing you *wink* | |
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| Re: Anybody finding love out there? Posted: 6/13/2004 9:18:28 AM | | yep, keep your faith. there is someone for everyone in this crazy world. I have met a few very nice ladies on here, even if it has only gone to a friendship, it still gives me hope that maybe on day one will come along with a little more intrest than friendship. I do think no matter what, every relationship has to start with friendship first, so who knows, maybe I have already met the person that will become closer than a friend to me, maybe not. Just never give up on what you want, and dont settle for anything less than what you are worth... | |
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| Re: Anybody finding love out there? Posted: 6/13/2004 10:19:19 PM | | Ahhh love. It seems to sneak up on you from the most unlikely places. It's true you find it mostly when you're not looking. HOWEVER, one must be out and about (or online, I guess) for love to find you. The reclusive hermitt, no matter how much he/she may want it, will never find true love.................so sad. Oh well, so much for philisophical (spelling?) digression. Anyhow, have I found love? Not yet, but I will!!! Chao ya'll | |
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| Re: Anybody finding love out there? Posted: 6/15/2004 12:58:51 AM | | I think first you must love yourself..before you can love some one else...you must know what makes and keeps you happy and satisfied,I used to think that 'love sucked' but now it seems that 'love rocks'- well some loves rock-rocks my world..thats all that matters Rockin my world | |
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| Re: Anybody finding love out there? Posted: 6/15/2004 3:22:31 AM | Love.... his ways are hard and steep...sword hidden may wound you. ...his voice may shatter your dreams...devastates as the north’s wind makes you bloom so it will chop off you...as crowns you so shall he crucify you. as he ascends to your height and caresses your tenderest branches, So shall he descend to your roots and shake them in their clinging to the earth. All these things shall love do unto you so you may know the secrets of Love...you may Know if is it Love. Is love what you found? If in your fear you would seek only love's peace and love's pleasure... Then it is better for you to pass out of love's door...into the seasonless world where you shall laugh, ya...but not all of your laughter...shall cry, ya but not all of your tears.
Melina
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| Re: Anybody finding love out there? Posted: 6/15/2004 9:53:33 AM | Ti amo Melina
That was an awesome read...the way you describe things gives new light to hidden emotions....How do you stir feelings that were hidden away?? Are you a witch??LOL Well if you are, could you fly over here and put a spell on me??Please!!!! T.J. Muuaaahhhhhhh | |
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| Re: Anybody finding love out there? Posted: 6/15/2004 10:08:32 AM | They often call me fairy... I am not a witch of it even if at times it would be suitable and unfortunately I'm not even a fairy... But I have two wings on myheart that make me fly and dream... right now I am flying and you know where..... Melina
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alura2
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| Re: Anybody finding love out there? Posted: 6/15/2004 1:40:03 PM | In general::
I agree with some as much as I disagree. I believe love can be found in all aspects of life, if one was so inclined to remain open-minded. There are as many problems online as there are IRL. Example;
Those looking for a "personality based" relationship might wander onto a dating site such as this to avoid people judging them plainly upon looks. Wanting people to get to know "the real me".
Problem with that; A fairly large percent of those people are acting upon what they think will land thier greatest catch, hencefourth they are not themselves, but what they believe people will want.
"IRL relationships" Are horribly based upon looks, there is no way around it. If someone catches your eye from acrossed the room, you don't think; "Hey, he looks like an honest person." Or "She has great morals." You are beaming with attraction for that person because of looks, and looks alone.
So in conclusion, finding "love" anywhere has it's Pro's and Con's. If you are willing to accept that, you luck for love has greatly increased.
...Then again, I could just be a ranting lunatic. ;) | |
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| Re: Anybody finding love out there? Posted: 6/15/2004 5:06:58 PM | Opinions are a dime a dozen, but voicing them could be priceless.
I won't condemn those who 'put on a play' in search of affection or love, but I will say they need to find a new hobby.
If someone was truly interested in finding love, or something close to it, they wouldn't play games.
I say, be who you are, if people don't like you, a fresh batch of cookies will be done within the hour. You'll eventually eat one that won't burn your tongue. ;) | |
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