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 meowgrrrr83

Joined: 10/23/2007
Msg: 26
What women mean when they say they're sexy
Posted: 11/15/2007 11:16:59 PM
HUH???
I'm with you on this one OP..

What is the need to say such thing... its in the eye of a beholder...(pictures)

Intelligent,caring, understanding etc (personality traits) ... Can't tell so from the pictures, can you now???

p.s
I did notice comments from my sex stating: it means she is in touch with her sexuality...HUH??.. Why can't she say something along the lines of sexualy open minded, or list this under her interests: sexuality...
 Pamperpooch000

Joined: 11/7/2007
Msg: 27
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What women mean when they say they're sexy
Posted: 11/15/2007 11:20:41 PM

And here I thought it was all about that song by Right Said Fred.
"I'm too sexy"


That was the epitomy of 'tongue in cheek' seixiness. I must admit, I find that very appealing in a man. I think men are more sexy when they are cheeky with it.
 Pamperpooch000

Joined: 11/7/2007
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Posted: 11/15/2007 11:26:31 PM

I did notice comments from my sex stating: it means she is in touch with her sexuality...HUH??.. Why can't she say something along the lines of sexualy open minded, or list this under her interests: sexuality...


Not everyone views sexiness by the pictures. Some people see it on a deeper level. Attitude is the biggest sexy attribute, and of course, if you have looks too, you've got the best of both worlds, but to say you are sexualy open minded can be mistaken for too many things on the internet. What does it matter how a woman words it, or whether she does or doesn't, everyone's different. I personally would rather read a profile of a man who stated he was sexy rather than humble anyday.
 chavalita

Joined: 11/9/2006
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Posted: 11/15/2007 11:30:40 PM
Agreed Pamerpooch! And there is nothing sexier in a man then when he is sexy and doesn't know it!

But getting back to the op's question I think sexy is a state of mind and a mood just like any other emotion. It is very personal. And members of the opposite sex define sexy in very different ways. I once had someone tell me my ass looked sexy in a pair of workout/yoga pants. I looked at myself when he said this and I thought he was cracked. Sexy wouldn't have been my choice of words to describe that outfit!! LOL
 meowgrrrr83

Joined: 10/23/2007
Msg: 30
What women mean when they say they're sexy
Posted: 11/15/2007 11:36:32 PM
"Attitude is the biggest sexy attribute, and of course, if you have looks too, you've got the best of both worlds"

Agree with you 100%... Attitude speaks volume aka.. what one says in the profile...
 codeegirl

Joined: 9/17/2007
Msg: 31
What women mean when they say they're sexy
Posted: 11/15/2007 11:39:37 PM

I think to a lot of women it means that they are in touch with their sexuality and are willing to let themselves enjoy it and all that accompanies it to a level that they consider healthy and sufficient. It is more about attitude than how many men fawn over them or where their neckline falls.


Exactley!
 Pamperpooch000

Joined: 11/7/2007
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What women mean when they say they're sexy
Posted: 11/15/2007 11:43:26 PM
OMG, just had to say I love your doggy
 *Tee*

Joined: 9/4/2005
Msg: 33
What women mean when they say they're sexy
Posted: 11/16/2007 3:56:09 AM

I don't announce it on my profile either, but I thought the OP wanted to know what they meant by it. I personally agree that if you feel something you don't need to shout about it, but I don't think that thinking they are sexy makes them full of themselves though, and anyway, if it does, where's the harm in it. Surely it's better to feel sexy than insecure and miserable.


I agree that feeling sexy is better then feeling insecure and miserable. Thats not what I meant though....feeling sexy is different then stating on your profile like, its a fact that you are sexy. Whats that saying? Sexy is, as sexy does...not as sexy proclaims? lol
I don't even know if that made sense..meh..

As somebody said above...there is nothing more attractive then a person who is comfortable in their own skin.... and doesn't even realize the sexiness they exude. Personally, THATS sexy to me...
 agent4664

Joined: 11/13/2007
Msg: 34
What women mean when they say they're sexy
Posted: 11/25/2007 6:34:38 PM
hmmm for me, i think it means that I have a strong sexual presence/appetite, yet I dont want to be treated like a w****. If he waits long enough to earn "it" he Won't be dissappointed :)
 1SweetSarah

Joined: 11/6/2007
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Posted: 11/25/2007 6:45:35 PM
I'd say stating that one is "sexy" would simply mean that they are confident, openminded, and probably enjoy sex and intimacy.
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