nrml67
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Joined: 9/30/2008
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| He is friends with many of the women he has had sex with. I don't get it.
Posted: 11/19/2008 4:00:08 PM | I can't see what the problem is.
I'm still good friends with ex girlfriends from 20 years ago, and still talk to most of the women I've been out with. I used to like them, they used to like me, we get on well together and have a lot in common. The only thing is we aren't good together as boyfriend and girlfriend.
When I have a girlfriend I have no problem with them meeting and talking with the ex's, not sure about them being friends and talking about me, but they probably have better stuff to talk about.
It's all about being civilized and open. If he was hiding his ex's you might have more of a problem. | |
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| He is friends with many of the women he has had sex with. I don't get it.
Posted: 11/19/2008 4:13:54 PM | Sounds like a man i know named Carl Fantz LOL
well back to the question, i feel two people can be friends. i mean it could have ended in a peaceful way but it will also bother me. if it was like one person no big deal, especially if i was introduced to her but many women i agree i would be worried. ask him to introduce them to you. if there is nothing going on he should have no issues with that, if he tries to weasel ou tof it its a red flag | |
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| He is friends with many of the women he has had sex with. I don't get it.
Posted: 11/19/2008 4:28:53 PM | I think it depends on what your diffinition of a friend is.
Mine is someone who's so dear to me that I'd lay my life down for them, and in the case with your friend here, I happen to still be very good friends with all my past lovers.
Just because things did not work out in a relationship does not mean I need to cast someone who is an important life shaping figure for me aside. I was dating a gal I met from her recently and we called it off, but we're still good friends. I told her that I'm not a jealous type and don't mind if she still talks with her old friends and exes, even hangs out with them, because I'd do the same, and hey, if she wants to make a mistake by hooking up with them while she's with me, then bravo...it shows her true colors, and proves she's not mature enough to really be with a guy like me anyways. I would not have cheated on her, even with these old friends. I would however be dissappointed if she didn't trust me just because I retain important people who I have history with and love dearly.
Just my take on it.
Ken | |
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| He is friends with many of the women he has had sex with. I don't get it.
Posted: 11/19/2008 5:15:50 PM | I think he's a bit insensitive to your feelings describing his past sexual encounters for sport! What a jerk....I think the guy has problems letting go of his FWB...or he's hoping for that scenario. I would turn the tables on him and see how it feels to him...or just don't waste your time and show him the curb!   I think some guys get off on the rush of getting a rise out of all the female attention past or present...he loves to be chased...I think its called narcissism! | |
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