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 Ave Caesar

Joined: 11/11/2007
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Posted: 11/17/2007 1:25:37 PM
I don't find the fake boobs attractive.
 lonemonkey

Joined: 11/7/2007
Msg: 27
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Posted: 11/17/2007 1:41:36 PM
If being jealous, angry, verbally abusive and manipulative is part of this poster's idea of being a real woman, I'm not on her team.
 pr0ud p4p4

Joined: 10/20/2007
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Posted: 11/17/2007 1:44:01 PM
^^^^^^^^^^she doesnt have fake boooobbbies and i would boink her lmao
Just making a point monkey
 Goodnight MoonFish

Joined: 4/21/2007
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Posted: 11/17/2007 1:51:23 PM
Wow,

I agree that this is a very angry rant. Don't know the background nor the reason for it but at various times we all have had a reason to blow some steam off.

The only thing I disagree with is the generalizaiton of men on this site that seems to happen with far more frequency than women.

In regards to the subject of men basing their dating strategy on the looks of women, I agree this goes on. However I believe this goes on with equal frequency in women.

I will admit to checking out the competition in my area for the affections of the fairer sex. A week ago, I came across a gentleman's profile that had only been up a week. A very good looking man with several flattering pictures. However he obviously had spent just a few minutes on his profile with at most two sentences of very little consequences written on there and no first date information. But, in one week he had been put on 43 womens favorites lists.

So anytime I see a heading that mentions don't care about looks, money and success or just looking for a good man, I just take it with a grain of salt
 druid417

Joined: 11/5/2007
Msg: 30
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Posted: 11/17/2007 1:59:21 PM
I actually find that I can't even enjoy porn like most horny men because of the outright "alien" looks of the women in that world, aside from the over all "immoral" aspects. Sometimes I think those porn stars/celebs are going to morph into reptiles before my eyes!
 carolann0308

Joined: 12/9/2006
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Posted: 11/17/2007 2:19:16 PM
I think the OP is just pissed off at one man. Unfortunately she is taking it out on the rest. If I had the money I wouldn't think twice about fixing a few things.
I've always wondered how John Bonjovi has remained 30 while I keep getting older, so it's not always the gals that feel the pressure to look young. There are few people in Hollywood that have not had something done. You don't drink, party and go out till all hours and still remain young and firm at 45. Unfortunately we all buy into the myth. I love the fact that I have aged and have more wisdom and experience than I did at 25. I think I am more attractive and definitely have more to offer now.
 DonnyRovers

Joined: 7/27/2007
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Posted: 11/17/2007 2:23:29 PM
Is it just me or has anyone else seen the resembelance of fake breast implants & frogs eyes.

They never seem to look in the same diretion, usually one to the right & one to the left.


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Just to give my opinion on the OP.....I've seen your picture & think some guy will be very lucky as you are very pleasing to the eye (beautiful)
 socaltony66

Joined: 9/14/2007
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Posted: 11/17/2007 2:40:44 PM
Wow, who hurt you? Maybe if you weren't so bitter, you might find a nice guy. Sounds like you might be a bit envious of these women but I digress, we live in a society that has adopted this instant gratification ideology and I believe that's a part of what you are talking about.
No one seems to want to get to know each other anymore, it's all about "hooking up" and having sex. The other problem I see, and I'm sure I'll get slammed for it, is chivalry is dead and women killed it. Why? Because a lot of women want it both ways: they want to be treated as equal but yet they still want the guy to pay for everything, open doors for them and buy them stuff. I was brought up the old fashion way and didn't mind doing stuff for the ladies, however, that being said, women today don't appreciate it and expect it. On occassion, some women will get pissed if you try to open a door for them and do the right thing. See the guy's dilemma? Then you wonder why men act the way we do sometimes.
Of course that doesn't excuse some guy's behavior but I can't speak for them. Pick and choose your battles my dear. Maybe if you focused on what you want and how to get it instead of what others want and how they get it, you'd be in a better position to have your cake and eat it too.
 crayonzz

Joined: 11/14/2007
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Posted: 11/17/2007 2:56:27 PM
Ahhhh! Bingo! You are soooo right!

Us guys DO like to drooooooollllllllllll over the fake tits, and tans. Even the paper ones in the mens mags!

We like to drooll over them We do not like to date them, we are not "all over them" and we do not even contemplate sex with them.

Once again you have the right reasons. They are too high maintinance, and they are totally useless as anything but a decoration (not a sex toy, you got that bit wrong)

We do not love them (you got that one wrong too)
And these women certainly will nt do "anything to please a man" (wrong again) Thier fake tits and tans are to out do the other women, not to attract men.

These women do NOT get massive attention. Just a lot of looks.

Now lets just get down to tin tacks Green shall we.?

Guys are after three things in a woman. In order of importance.
- 1/ Likes me
-2/ Likes guys
- 3/ Likes sex.

None of those have anything to do with appearance. You want guys? You show them affection. The sillicone queens don't get the dates cause they have thier noses in the stratosphere. If you arent getting the dates there's a good chance that you are unconsiously imitating them.
 crayonzz

Joined: 11/14/2007
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Posted: 11/17/2007 3:00:35 PM
John Bonjovi is in the right profession. Rock keeps you looking young. No idea why.
Rod Stuart, Paul McCartney, and the Rolling Stones all look a bit past it but they don't look in thier sixties.

As well as rock , motorcycles also keep you young. Whick is probably why Suzi Quartro, who is into both, is scraping sixty but could pass easily for thirty something.
 carolann0308

Joined: 12/9/2006
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Posted: 11/17/2007 3:03:39 PM
Suzy Quatro? Geez that is a blast from the past. I first heard of her through the English teen mags my Granny would send to me at Christmas. But who can forget Pinky Tuscaderos's little sis.
 laSWEET

Joined: 10/11/2007
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Posted: 11/17/2007 3:08:45 PM
opie...I just took a look at your profile and glanced at your pictures...hun I',m not sure if you realize this , but you are beautiful and any man would be lucky to have you...give yourself some credit and take a look in the mirror...
 lonemonkey

Joined: 11/7/2007
Msg: 38
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Posted: 11/17/2007 3:28:44 PM
It's spirit, attitude and having the right hormone balance that keeps me happy ... but maybe being on the pill makes me fake in your opinion.
 Boater777

Joined: 9/3/2007
Msg: 39
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Posted: 11/17/2007 4:43:29 PM
personally, I've never dated a woman who's had plastic surgery(wouldn't have anything against it though, to each his own)
 Leeanne

Joined: 10/14/2005
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Posted: 11/17/2007 5:03:27 PM
OP hang in there - I have had many hot looking guys ask me out in the past! Why because they said they couldn't stand the kind of women you described. They liked the fact that I didn't mind getting mussed up - I could play basketball without fear of breaking a nail - I looked fresh and hot without taking hours and tons of money to do so!! Oh and they liked the feel of 'real' boobs! Just be confident with who you are and the world will be at your feet!
 Cunning_linguist

Joined: 10/19/2007
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Posted: 11/17/2007 5:14:08 PM

You guys seem to be all over the fake tits, fake tan, fake hair, fake nails, bleached teeth, and obviously very high maintenance, self absorbed women. Basically sluts who have had a lot of sex with guys just like you. Women who haven't found their value outside of a sex toy and really don't have the time to give or do anything for you.

So where does that leave us real women? The women who have chosen to be authentic. It's hurtful to see you guys drooling over the very women that you love to hate...you love them cuz they stimulate you, and hate them cuz they're whores and you're basically just another ego trip to them. They're women with low self esteem, but what you see is women who will do ANYTHING to please a man...any man, including you.

I'm jealous of the attention these women get. I could get it too, but I won't get my boobs done and look like a cheap whore. Of course, if I did get that kind of attention, I'd know it's from losers who just want to get off on me, and I can't imagine that makes a girl feel that special.

I guess I want you guys to choose US, because we too have all those body parts, and can present them to YOU and not the entire WORLD....we will save our bodies for you...and we won't bail on you for the next guy who's going to tell us we're hot.

I want you to know that I'm THAT SEXY......and if you're good to me, I will blow YOUR MIND sexually, intellectually, emotionally, and happily - only yours though.


Oh dear

And what? You think that acidic self debasing vehemence IS sexy do ya?

What a ridiculous tirade that really is

For a start most women dont have fake tits, just because someones are better than yours doesnt mean theyre fake

And visually a bloke wouldnt know if they were or not, so could equally be drooling over a really nice REAL pair

Tans MIGHT be fake, might be from a recent holiday OR just might be the natural skin tone of someone with a mediteranean heritage

Bleached teeth? How do you know? Many women DO actually have amazing teeth simply because they have always looked after them. Again, its hardly something anyone but a dentist would know from across a room, maybe not even them infact

But if all that IS what you define as a fake woman whats a real one?

Someone with half a set of green teeth? Sagging miniscule tits? Pale almost white skin? Skin head hair cut? Chewed finger nails? And dresses like Hyacinth Bucket?

Flippin heck, some people talk about penis envy, but I really think at times that some women have complete body envy, I really do


What you wrote not only belies the "intelligence" you claim to have, but shows an inate amount of self recrimination, perhaps even loathing and a very very two dimensional and bitter view of the world, men and women in general


Infact someone prone to such emotional and illogically nonsensical outbursts would, to me, be almost as tediously "high maintenance" as someone who lived to maintain their "bait" even when in a relationship


As much as I could tire my fingers out stating that not EVERY bloke likes someone who looks overly preened because that in itself often belies a severe lack of self confidence and severe self image problems and an ego that needs constant feeding its hardly worth the effort, because even if you outshone any woman on the planet physically what you have shown in this outburst would dwarf any external appeal totally in pure vile vitriolic ugliness

Infact I'd be inclined after reading this to suspect that the men you talk about probably didnt go and talk to the "fake" women till AFTER they had spoken to you
 finneganne

Joined: 7/31/2007
Msg: 42
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Posted: 11/17/2007 5:28:46 PM

I'm looking for a man with integrity and strength, a man who I can count on.


This is the problem. You're looking for something that doesn't exist.
 ~Myth~

Joined: 6/1/2007
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Posted: 11/17/2007 6:05:23 PM
OP . . . you are coming across VERY HURT . . . . along the lines of "woe me" . . .

Your profile reflects that you are SEPARATED . . . which could be the cause of your "woe me" mentality . . . you really don't sound like you are ready to date.

Once you heal you might see things differently . . . or at the very least not be soooo "jealous" of other women cuz they are getting more attention than you . . .

Best of luck,


~Myth~
 cottonblossom

Joined: 11/5/2007
Msg: 44
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Posted: 11/17/2007 6:15:17 PM
my my..I bleach my hair & have white teeth but sweetie I am not a cheap whore nor any other woman that that keeps herself up..I do have my real boobs ..those are holding up quite well..but if/when i would choose to enhance them does not make me "high maintenance" or a slut..all this judgement over a womans hair color & skin color etc..small minded &cruel in a way..I always believe in different strokes for different folks..also..have you tried initiating emails on your own or do you just wait for someone to come along and make you happy..I met the man I am dating now because I viewed his profile and emailed him..because I asn't meeting who I wanted..so I actually picked him..I asked him why he didn't ask me out after viewing my profile and he said..he thought he was out of my league..so even women that do the things you citicize don't always get attention and dates anyway..we have alot of fun together..I emailed him because of his Harley ..but still dating him because he is a REAL man..he doesn't judge me,control me..and places no conditions on me..just accepts who I am..hes a great guy
 ciccone

Joined: 4/24/2007
Msg: 45
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Posted: 11/17/2007 6:16:45 PM
since when do fake tits, fake tan, fake hair, fake nails and bleached teeth make a person a slut or a whore????
one day you will find someone loves you for you and the way that you look, maybe first thing you should change though is your stereo-typing!!!!
 Scheherrazade

Joined: 11/5/2005
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Posted: 11/17/2007 8:08:24 PM
I notice she started this thread, but has not bothered to come back and respond to any of the comments made.
 350CC

Joined: 9/27/2007
Msg: 47
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Posted: 11/17/2007 9:05:27 PM
Ya know my dear, I must say that you are worrying all about the wrong things. Instead of worrying about the guys that want all that stuff worry about yourself. I was like that to a certain point but then one day I woke up and realized why am I worried about something that I don't have and better yet, don't even know. Yes you might be missing out on the best fish in the sea but you also are possibly missing out on the worst fish, you never know and like they say what you don't know won't hurt you. I have talked to so many different ones and you can usually pick them out right away, so for your own sake, stop worrying about something you don't have.
 green iiiis

Joined: 10/28/2007
Msg: 48
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Posted: 11/18/2007 12:16:18 PM
Wow. I'm surprised at the responses....so many, and so varied.

So I sound angry huh? I think I'm confused more than anything. There's some mixed messages out there. Maybe I'm trying to make sense of them, and that's why I posted.

To each there own...I'm sorry that I came across as seeming judgemental. can

I love and support women, we truly are amazing creatures - having said that, it's not easy being a woman these days - and I doubt it's ever been easy. Our primal goal is to attract men, and isn't it sad when it's come down to smoke and mirrors - though I guess every era has had it's techiniques -- corsets etc....It's out of control now -it's dangerous NOW....eating disorders, self esteem issues and depression...Women (some/many) are struggling. People DIE over this people!...vanity, the NEED to be accepted, the NEED for validation. Some of the women who posted got my point, and I thank you for understanding what I meant. It's coming around to the guys now...maybe once they feel the pressure of trying to be perfect, will they truly understand. And it' ALL about money. The cost of feeling ok..if you don't feel ok, buy this product.

I want to age with dignity. Life is going to get ugly - illness will come, and there's nothing pretty about that. Maybe I'm prepared to live in the real world!...Besides, there's a TON of money in antiaging...we live in a society where the worse you feel about yourself, the more you spend!! I guess there will always be shallow, superficial people.....and they're sure to make a BEAUTIFUL COUPLE...haha...

Thank you for your feedback about my profile (the not replying to emails part)...I didn't realized people wanted 'not interested' replies...so I'll be sure to keep that in mind. Thanks.

Oh, and for the record, I don't recall saying that I'm not getting any interest on here. I do. I'm smart and have my own opinions...and THAT is a beautiful thing!....

WOMEN ROCK!....
 green iiiis

Joined: 10/28/2007
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Posted: 11/18/2007 12:20:44 PM
I just checked back...guess I've been out livin...
 slideforlife

Joined: 3/6/2007
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Posted: 11/18/2007 12:35:50 PM
so now you're back to entombing yourself in your self-made mausoleum?

last time i checked, no one was putting a gun to anyone's head forcing them to do anything to get dates.

we all like what we like. take it or leave it.
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