| Real Women vs. Fake women
Posted: 11/18/2007 3:32:08 PM | | "It takes a lot of money and effort to look this cheap and easy." -Dolly Parton | |
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| Real Women vs. Fake women
Posted: 11/18/2007 3:39:37 PM | Whoa! You sound really bitter. I doubt that you will generate any positive feedback frome the male "fishies".
I'm sure you will meet someone, but first work on yourself. i.e. generate positive energy/self-esteem. Who cares if women want to enhance their boobs, get their nails done, etc.....worry about how you present yourself to a potential partner. The rest is irrelevant.
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| Real Women vs. Fake women
Posted: 11/18/2007 8:13:59 PM |
having said that, it's not easy being a woman these days - and I doubt it's ever been easy. Our primal goal is to attract men, and isn't it sad when it's come down to smoke and mirrors
OMG . . a woman's role is to "ATTRACT MEN" . . . especially in today's society?!!
It's coming around to the guys now...maybe once they feel the pressure of trying to be perfect, will they truly understand.
So now it's the man's/men's fault that you feel the pressure to be perfect . . . Geeeeze . . . do you have any idea what type of pressure it puts on a partner to have to validate someone that has no sense of self?????
I guess there will always be shallow, superficial people.....and they're sure to make a BEAUTIFUL COUPLE...haha... ^^^You seem very ANGRY that a man you cared about picked a woman that you are describing in this thread. There is always 2 sides to a story . . .
Yes . . . IMO I agree with you that you are very confused . . . again let the ink dry on your divorce decree before you venture into the dating world. . . you seem to have lots to sort out . . .
Best of luck,
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| Real Women vs. Fake women
Posted: 11/18/2007 8:24:56 PM | | You are a beautiful woman, and I can't figure for the life of me why you are so angry. Someone must have hurt you pretty bad. I can't imagine anyone turning you down. You sound serious, so I have to tell you -- Not all men are like that. Hope you feel better. | |
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| Real Women vs. Fake women
Posted: 11/18/2007 8:41:01 PM |
This Thank you for your feedback about my profile (the not replying to emails part)...I didn't realized people wanted 'not interested' replies...so I'll be sure to keep that in mind. Thanks.
Most guys would rather have some sort of "rejection" reply and if they say "why not?" or try to continue then don't reply and block them.
p.s.
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| Real Women vs. Fake women
Posted: 11/18/2007 10:30:14 PM | Haha, I have fake hair, fake nails, sometimes a fake tan and I wear makeup every day. Yet I am the most low maintenance laid back chick you would ever meet. Nothing wrong with improving your appearance. But the chicks who make a living out of it are stretching it a bit far. But then I don't live in SoCal so who knows.  | |
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| Real Women vs. Fake women
Posted: 11/19/2007 12:12:16 AM |
It's coming around to the guys now...maybe once they feel the pressure of trying to be perfect,
Okay lets see
you speak of a physical sense - yet when a man does this he is labeled vain with comments like " i don't want a man i have to fight for mirror time " or " I don't want a man that will spend more time in the gym than with me"
for a long time now - no since the beginning the pressure for men to be perfect has been shouldered by all men
men have shouldered the burden of perfection from the beginning
The burden to be a good provider --- yep bring home the mammoth to bring home the six figure paycheck
the burden to be a good protector -- okay men kill that predator hanging around the cave too off to war you go and try not to get killed protecting our rights and way of life
the burden of being genetically alpha or superior so that a woman see's him as being able to provide the DNA for strong healthy children ( deny it as much as you will but today that still does cross a womans mind even if fleeting )
to me fake boobs nails bleached teeth and coloured hair seems a lot easier than the examples I have given | |
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| Real Women vs. Fake women
Posted: 11/19/2007 12:31:14 AM | Personally, I MUCH prefer REAL boobs. Fake boobs LOOK good, but FEEL BaaaaaaD
A wholesome down to earth woman is much more desirable than an artificial surgically enhanced version. | |
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| Real Women vs. Fake women
Posted: 11/19/2007 1:04:28 AM |
I just checked back...guess I've been out livin...
Wow, well thats such a brill convenience you happened to fit checking back now into your schedule then really innit?
The thing about "livin" is that I'm not really sure its quite that when done through what seems like a red haze really
Having such a wealth of vehemence, resentlment, anger, fear and sweeping generaalisations in an outlook tends to predetermine the outcome of any dalliances and any results even if those outcomes and results WOULDNT happened if not for those influencing factors being there to begin with
We dictate our own destiny by deciding what the expected outcome will be as that makes us see what isnt there, miss what is, hear what was never actually said and ignore that which doesnt fit our expectations
As for the female striving for perfection and "modern life", much if not most of that has nothing whatsoever to do with men, women CHOOSE the way they live and look and much of that is influenced by womens magazines and media which in turn is controlled and directed by women in order to secure and maintain advertising from beauty product manufacturers and service providers
Were ALL female targetted and driven media sources to push the view that men preferred women who were more "as is" then fewer women would feel totally innadequate when they looked in the mirror AND more women would start to think the majority of men want what the majority of men DO actually want for a change
Another thought here, you go on and on and on about men who chase the dolly birds (many of whom ARE actually natural btw, they WERE born looking THAT good) but what about chubby chasers?
They ALSO wouldnt look twice at you either would they? So how come you dont have just as much vehemence for them? How come THEY didnt feature just as much in your diatribe?
The reason is simple, its not what those men "prefer" thats the problem, its (IMO obviously) your own internal demons at play, and your own feelings however buried of innadequacy compared to the "false women" you refer to
I'd be a hyndred men you fancied could run off with massive bloated behemoths and you wouldnt bat an eyelid, wouldnt possibly even notice and wouldnt want to rant and rage about it, because you dont envy the look and figure of THOSE women
So the problem here isnt re the men, its not even really with the stunning women, its between you and.........you
Now from your photo you actually look pretty ok really at a glance, but no amount of natural beauty, poise or attractiveness will compensate for the quite blatantly UNnattractive mindset shown on this thread, hell, loads of men would be put off simply by you using the word "sisterhood" because of the type of personality that tends to use that word naturally
Men might often be attracted by whats on the outside in the initial stages to varying, but its someones personality that makes them want to hang around
And if this thread and even your subsequent post is a good example of your mindset then its not your outward appearance that would send men running to find the nearest vaccuous empty headed dolly bird, its what they saw when they got past your outward attractiveness that would be more likely an explaination | |
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| Real Women vs. Fake women
Posted: 11/19/2007 1:08:44 AM |
i love real women,i meet many beautiful ones on a celebrity site called plusmingle.com/user/big3
Thats not "real" women, its fat or large ones
Infact for the most part their added size is just as fake and non "real" as silicone implants or fake hair, they just bought it via macdonalds and burger king rather than a plastic surgeon
Anyone who thinks a woman being "real" equates them having a BMI equivalent to a sumo wrestler is simply confusing the word "real" with "supersized" as thats NOT a trait limited purely to "fat uns", being fat however IS | |
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Posted: 11/19/2007 3:45:06 AM | I would have gotten here sooner but, I had a hard time getting past all the fake women with their fake boobs, fake tans, fake hair, fake nails, who are lined up outside my door trying to have sex with me all the time .
It's so tiresome having sex all the time with sluts who would have sex with a guy just like me. | |
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Posted: 11/19/2007 7:26:20 AM | i think any lass has the right to look after herself any way she wants, for her own gratification or to attract the sort of bloke she wants.. some with their all natural beauty, some like to wear makeup, some wear makeup and false nails, some get a lil botox or whatever and some go the whole plastic surgery route.... we all have our different likes and dislikes, not everyone is for everyone and all that jazz (..or even blues.. or rock.. or whatever  ...)
the types of chaps you'll get writing to you will be the ones who like you, how you like to express yourself, so no need to worry about the other ones who prefer other types of women... it saves time in cutting out chatting with the incompatible and allows you to connect with those who like your style..
it's groovy baybee! (i gotta stop watching those late night austin powers movies..  ) | |
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| Real Women vs. Fake women
Posted: 11/19/2007 7:39:11 AM | Green,
In your photos you are wearing make up, right? Shame on you. That is a way to better yourself beyond what is originally there. So stop calling women who do all these things whores, they are not, they are well, like you said insecure and can go to an extreme. But what is wrong with trying to look good. Nothing. Unless you are jealous and also very, very insecure. | |
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Posted: 11/19/2007 7:45:03 AM |
So the problem here isnt re the men, its not even really with the stunning women, its between you and.........you
Very good statement indeed. Some social anthropologist have studied why women dress up, wear the make up, the boobs, all that stuff. What they found is not that they are doing it for the men. Nope. They are doing it to compete with other women. | |
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Posted: 11/19/2007 8:03:55 AM | | I would point out that this is a false distinction. Dolly Parton is just as real as any of the ladies here. A woman with lots of makeup or the best boobs money can buy is just as real. Hey, I don't cotton to that kind of lady but there is nothing wrong with those that do! | |
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Posted: 11/19/2007 8:57:48 AM | wow bitter just a little. as far as i see it that if one was a great catch then surely they would have had a bite or two. dont hate the women that can seek happiness in any matter they choose. if you are not getting any replies from good men then look in that mirror to see what is missing from the inside instead of worrying about the athletic appearance of the outside of an empty body.
i have nothing to fear from other women taking from me.... ive never come short of partners lol. there are no statistics on what makes a good women or man.... just what our preferance is and what we can live with perhaps we choose mates on our sexual emotions or finances and so on.... comes down to everyone is differant and if u cant attract a man is your fault try finding what u have to offer and step it up. | |
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Posted: 11/19/2007 9:07:18 AM | Why would getting your boobs done (as you word it) make you look like a cheap whore?
I have plenty of friends that have implants for numerous reasons & they are perfectly respestable. | |
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Posted: 11/19/2007 10:19:36 AM | | WOW...You are very angry and I am willing to bet extremely hurt...Did your ex take off with one of these whores you are spewing about ??? To each their own, if someone takes pride in themselves and works on their appearance (male or female) why should you or anyone else care ??? Yes, in my opinion some go to the extreme, for whatever reasons...who am I and who are you to judge them ??? What is acceptable before it is extreme? Make up, nice haircut, manicured nails, visits to the dentist ??? Triple E enhancement, botox to the point of no nerve reflex ??? Society is made up of all types of people...What one man loves, another may loathe...There is someone out there for everyone...And not all women that choose to enhance themselves are whores...I would believe there are more whores who do not take care of themselves because they are addicted to crack and cocaine...And my heart bleeds for them !!! Take a look at yourself on the inside, because my guess would be that if you are this enraged, no matter how pretty your outside is, many men and women are going to find you very unattractive...I do mean this in all sincerety and wish you health and healing !!! LLL | |
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| Real Women vs. Fake women
Posted: 11/19/2007 10:39:54 AM |
I'm sorry that I came across as seeming judgmental.
fake tits, fake tan, fake hair, fake nails, bleached teeth, and obviously very high maintenance, self absorbed women. Basically sluts who have had a lot of sex with guys just like you. Women who haven't found their value outside of a sex toy and really don't have the time to give or do anything for you.
Green iiiis, maybe you should look up judgmental because this did not "seem" judgmental, it was judgmental.
I wonder if you are still checking back here or ran when you hid your profile because of the response you got here.
Its narrow minded women like you who antagonize the lables that should be way outdated for todays women. I don't need fake boobs, I've been in a DD cup since I was 14 yrs old. I did not ask for big boobs, I was born that way. Yet since age 14 women like you have looked at women like me and labeled us "Slut" because of something we could not control. Yes I dye my hair. Its the same ugly mouse brown yours is and women for thousands of years have sought ways to enhance their hair. We do it because it makes us feel good, NOT to seduce men. I do not wear fake nails. I do not have to. My own natural nails grow long, currently they are over an inch long, painted pink and well manicured. I do it because I like the way it looks. Doing so does not make me a slut or a whore, it makes me comfortable with myself and if a man is attracted to me because of these enhancements, he is still not going to get into my bed until I like who he is personally and he likes who I am inside as well as out.
It does not bother women like me that women like you think we are cheap sluts. Most of us pity you because we are a lot more comfortable in our skin than you are. Men seek us out for the confidence and security they cannot find with a low self esteem woman like you. | |
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| Real Women vs. Fake women
Posted: 11/19/2007 10:50:28 AM | | personally, I cannot stand an overdone woman...give me someone naturally pleasing to the eye and I'll give her the kind of sunday mornings her barbie doll friends only dream of. | |
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Posted: 11/19/2007 6:03:34 PM | | Wow..........Get over yourself. I think you need more than cosmetic surgery. You need a good Head Dr. You are miserable. | |
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Posted: 11/19/2007 6:14:52 PM |
You guys seem to be all over the fake tits, fake tan, fake hair, fake nails, bleached teeth, and obviously very high maintenance, self absorbed women. Basically sluts who have had a lot of sex with guys just like you. Women who haven't found their value outside of a sex toy and really don't have the time to give or do anything for you.
So where does that leave us real women? The women who have chosen to be authentic. It's hurtful to see you guys drooling over the very women that you love to hate...you love them cuz they stimulate you, and hate them cuz they're whores and you're basically just another ego trip to them. They're women with low self esteem, but what you see is women who will do ANYTHING to please a man...any man, including you.
I'm jealous of the attention these women get. I could get it too, but I won't get my boobs done and look like a cheap whore. Of course, if I did get that kind of attention, I'd know it's from losers who just want to get off on me, and I can't imagine that makes a girl feel that special.
I guess I want you guys to choose US, because we too have all those body parts, and can present them to YOU and not the entire WORLD....we will save our bodies for you...and we won't bail on you for the next guy who's going to tell us we're hot.
I want you to know that I'm THAT SEXY......and if you're good to me, I will blow YOUR MIND sexually, intellectually, emotionally, and happily - only yours though.
I think it has always been the case that the woman who acts as if she is highly sexual on the surface...for example the provokative photos and flashy flitations in a profile...tends to be the cold fish or is fickle one-on-one.
Likewise, the woman who stays a bit back from the front of the group...tends to be the more interesting woman one-on-one.
And I think most men know that...or at least the prescient ones do.
It all works out...no worries. | |
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| Real Women vs. Fake women
Posted: 11/19/2007 6:23:07 PM |
think it has always been the case that the woman who acts as if she is highly sexual on the surface...for example the provokative photos and flashy flitations in a profile...tends to be the cold fish or is fickle one-on-one.
Huh? So.............If you find yourself a nice little wall flower Amish woman, she will be "HOT" but the woman who is sexy looking with cleavage showing is a "COLD FISH"? WTF? Never heard that before. | |
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