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| Real Women vs. Fake women
Posted: 11/19/2007 6:25:45 PM | Men will always be attracted to young, healthy, nice females. A firm, feminine body (not overweight, not underweight, waist approximately 70% of hip size, mature but not saggy breast appearance), unwrinkled skin, it all signals someone who's in the prime child bearing years, and best able to pass on our dna. That's why we're attracted to 'fake' women. They appear to be 'real' smart choices to procreate with, that's what we're hard wired to want to do. Besides, most people are fake anyway. The vast majority of women use stuff to 'enhance' their hair texture, color, and shape; make up to 'adjust' the color of their skin, increase the softness of their skin, hide their natural scent, trim away natural nail growth to uniform lengths, wear 'f0undation' items to change their figures, shave away the 'real' amount of hair they have on their bodies, wear footwear that changes their posture and height, etc. etc..
I don't know any 'real' women. I don't think I'd want to go out with one, either. There's a good reason why so many women go to extremes to have as close to what they think is a 'perfect' appearance. Because it works. | |
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| Real Women vs. Fake women
Posted: 11/19/2007 10:54:12 PM | "All women, whatever age,rank,profession or degree,wether virgins,maids or widows,that shall impose upon,seduce or betray into matrimony any of His Majesty's subjects ,by scents,paints,cosmetics,washes,artificialteeth,false hair,iron stave hoops,high heeled shoes,bolstered hips,or padded bosoms shall incure the penalty of the law enforced against witchcraft and like misdemeanors and , upon conviction, that marriage shall stand null and void"
Act of British Parliament 1770 | |
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| Real Women vs. Fake women
Posted: 11/19/2007 10:59:07 PM | i feel you on this, but you're judging women solely based on fake physical attributes. not all women with fake tits are indeed fake...
i too am jealous of the attention they get, but then again the general population is ignorant in one way or another, judgemental, and a follower of what the media says is beauty...
i judge people too, on their actions towards me, not how other people receive their fake nails... | |
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| Real Women vs. Fake women
Posted: 11/19/2007 10:59:28 PM | "You guys seem to be all over the fake tits, fake tan, fake hair, fake nails, bleached teeth, and obviously very high maintenance, self absorbed women"...
What the hell is wrong with you to say such stupid narrow minded crap??
Ok... don't take care of yourself...if you choose so...but don't bash other ppl who choose to do so in this way..... High maintenance ---self absorbed....(  )
Grow up girlie.... | |
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| Real Women vs. Fake women
Posted: 11/20/2007 12:31:45 AM | Wow, you seem really bitter.You sound like you have been hurt alot.Let me first say that I myself am quite natural with a very full figure and have no enhancements.I would be considered overweight in todays world. So I'm speaking as a real woman myself when I say that it is very judgemental of you to condemn any woman because she wants to try and make herself as attractive as she can be by plastic surgery or otherwise.
Yes, there is a proliferation of over enhanced females out there but hey, to each his own.Fake tans and fake boobs are just ways women try to make them selves look younger and more attractive to men and it works for some. There is someone for everyone out there and why should you care if these women want to surgically enhance themselves?If it improves your self esteem than so be it.
Do you not have your hair done, where make-up and otherwise try to make yourself look attractive?Maybe you don't have any bodily imperfections that you think need correcting buy many woman feel that they do and if they have the means to fix them and it makes them feel better ,why not?It certainly does not make them a whore!You sound just as bad as some of he men you are complaining about.
I live in the LA area (plastic surgery central)and I have had many very nice, handsome and intelligent men contact me and I'M real so they do exist.Many men appreciate a real woman and I can testify for them!Besides ,why worry about men who are attracted to those types of women.They obviously are not men you would want to date anyway.
Being jealous of other women is not attractive either.Be confident in yourself and radiate that to your perspective fellows and you will win their affections everytime. | |
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| Real Women vs. Fake women
Posted: 11/20/2007 6:24:49 AM | | The way I see it, men are visual creatures, some women no that, get it and play off of it . But the fools are the girls who think they can keep this man, when he is only doing what his natural instincts are telling him to do, which isnt a bad thing, he is going to be attracted to a womens smell , voice , looks, its inevitable. men no when a women is not able to reproduce anymore when a womens body changes. That why the chase younger women because men no instinctvely that women are still fertile in there youth. Men can reproduce well into there 70s. Its scientific , so they never stop being visual, Did you ever here the phase men chase women cause they fear death. Well a man by nature and evolution feel the need to reproduceuntill he dies . Its all about reprodcing. We are animals, and to pro create will never end unless a small nuclar bomb wipes out all the men, or women on earth . If you really want to be educated about it go to your local library and get some books on the creation of man. These fake women will get old just like you and me and they will have serious problom for real if they have nothing inside them, not to say that all women who alter there looks dont have much inside. everyone wants to be loved some peoples just do understand how to attain real love, or they may get caught up in the whole looks thing and forget they need to nurish what is inside. | |
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| Real Women vs. Fake women
Posted: 11/20/2007 7:09:06 AM |
Unfortunately there are too many guys who put these types of women on a pedestal or even worse, date them.
Frankly, I love breast implants, in fact, prefer them. It doesn't mean that I only date women with them or other "fake" attributes. I just love a lady who takes the time to keep herself up and look her best. I cannot be the only one, right? But from reading the posts on this thread you might think so. I think all too often on forums like these, you have a plethora of guys saying the politically correct things in order to increase their standing. I'm not saying ALL guys do this, but a lot do. I also believe that many men are actually trying to convince themselves of some of these viewpoints but reality contradicts their written sentiments. What they do not realize is that they are ultimately setting themselves up for failure. I feel that ultimately, honesty is a more desireable quality than political correctness and honestly, I like breast implants, dyed hair, painted fingernails, etc.
I thoroughly enjoy the time when my significant other is getting "ready" to go out with me and we are leisurely enjoying a drink while laughing, talking and I am putting on my tie while whisperng in her ear from behind how beautiful she looks. I love the fact that she is making herself look good for herself and for me. It's a very small sign that she cares and I in turn do the same. It's all good and to each their own.
Does all this make me vain? Possibly, depending on an individual's point of view. But I'd rather embrace and be happy with who I am than try to conform to someone else's idea of wha is right and wrong. What's right for you may not be right for me. If people could accept that, the world would be a much more peaceful place.
As for the OP, it seems as though she has somehow been hurt by someone who had preferences much like mine and for that I'm sorry but you can't blame people for having preferences. Preferences just ARE. They are not right or wrong.
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| Real Women vs. Fake women
Posted: 11/20/2007 7:57:24 AM | I dont understand what the OP would think that just because a woman chooses to tan, wear fake nails and has a boob job that makes her a slut.
It's women like this that makes it hard to get the respect we deserve from men. Men take their cue from us women and they treat us the way they see us treat each other, furthermore if this is the way we choose to go about dealing with issues of being single then people will always end up alone and complaining to the end of their days.
Not every tanned, fake nailed, big boobed woman is a slut. Stop generalizing and get to the bottom of your issue. You want to know why men are attracted to women who are more visible, well thats because men are visual creatures. This is not to say that some men dont take the time to notice an attractive women who puts on no airs about her. They do if she is secure in her femininity and her self-esteem is good.
Someone is out there for you, but in the meanwhile dont put down the other women who use what they have to get what they have. That is petty and not very attractive on your part. | |
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| Real Women vs. Fake women
Posted: 11/20/2007 8:30:04 AM | Oh what a wonderful world it WOULD be tho if all the firm, slim, long nailed, perfect hairstyled curvaciously physically abundant stunning women WERE actual bonefide "sluts" in the true sense if the word
Oh yippee yum yums   | |
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| Real Women vs. Fake Women
Posted: 11/20/2007 9:57:10 AM | You tell 'em, Green iiiis! I've noticed this my whole life and it still, at 51, makes me feel so inferior when Miss Glitz & Glamour walks in and every damn man in the place rushes to fawn over her! And to make it just a little worse, most of the men admit they know there's not much substance to her, yet they're all over her anyway.
Guys, can you imagine how that makes the rest of us women feel? Yes, as Green iiiis said, we're jealous of her. Jealous of the attention she gets. We've got everything she's got and MORE! Intelligence, a sense of self, commitment, humor, wit, charm, etc. We've got all the same sexual parts, too. AND we're willing to share ourselves with you... But it seems that the only thing that matters is the way she looks or what she's willing to show. And, yes, we understand that y'all are visual and easily distracted by beauty, but it can be embarrassing when you act like you've never seen boobies before. Do you have any idea how long we'd hang on the memory if once, just ONCE, you acknowledged her presence, then turned your back to her and continued your conversation with us? Well, you know how long we remember if you do something wrong? Even longer than that, guys!!!!!! That's how long we'd remember. Try it. Start with Green iiiis and then me, okay?
I'm off my soapbox now. Thank you. | |
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| Real Women vs. Fake Women
Posted: 11/20/2007 11:16:57 AM |
We've got everything she's got and MORE! Intelligence, a sense of self, commitment, humor, wit, charm, etc.
The problem in this reasoning is that sometimes "Miss Glitz & Glamour" happens to have all of those qualities as well, then well... you don't have everything she's got and MORE. At that point it's just bitter jealousy. Sorry. No sense b!tching about it.
I don't know for sure, but it seems as though George Clooney is a nice, intelligent, definitely witty, humorous and charming fellow (do I have a man-crush?...). There is no sense in me b!tching about the women that find him attractive and desire to be with him. Why should I? I say give the guy a little "golf clap" and say "good for you" and then turn my attention back to the one that loves me.
There will ALWAYS be someone out there who people consider a better "catch" than ourselves (Hell, Brad Pitt even left Jennifer Aniston for Angelina Jolie), we can't focus on them or we doom ourselves to the the bitter, poison pill of jealousy. | |
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| Real Women vs. Fake women
Posted: 11/20/2007 12:07:28 PM | when im in the clubs i dont see another woman as compitition because i know what i have to offer and my abilities of making a man happy so i think they see that kind of confindence and follows the scent of it. i would say though if their is a really hunky guy with a wallet bulging or anything else for that note, then i see the women going nuts to see who wins the pot and bags him up for the night to which this routine brings out the fake girls.
so if ur not part of that group it should not bother u that they compete. to be jealous is stupid unless u want the fake implants and cant find a sucker to pay for them.
keep in mind that they have it bad cause they amount to being a trophy on the mans arm that measures his wealth or worth to which is not what im looking for.are u | |
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| Real Women vs. Fake Women
Posted: 11/20/2007 1:56:16 PM | "Weve got everything shes got and more, Intelligence, a sense of self, commitment, humour,wit, charm, etc"...
how do you know she doesn't have those qualities too? ...i get so tired of all these 'asumptions' and 'judgements' people make... if you dig a little deeper, it's your insecurities that really need to be addressed...
not every woman who you see as "miss glitz and glamour' is a Paris Hilton copy, ie, a barbie doll with an empty shell....one of my best friends has fake boobies, porcelein veneer teeth and fake hair, not to mention a knock out body.....but she has one of the best personalities i have come accross, and men, once they have gained their composure around her, and stopped drooling, actually acknowlege this....and shock horror!!! shes really nice and doesn't have a pretentious bone in her body, she is also very sweet and sooooo not b**tchy....
next time you see one of these "fake' girls walking around , why dont you approach her and have a conversation with her before you start judging/attacking her? you might be suprised!!!! | |
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| Real Women vs. Fake women
Posted: 11/20/2007 2:10:10 PM |
How many women would stay with a man with a small penis i mean really small, or man boobs. Its like double standards (dont look at the barbies but you better be handsome in shape phiscally and financialy) ironic lmao
This is hardly an "average" guy, nor is a 300 lber. I get her point, men go for the high-maintenance woman and wonder "why all the drama? Why she treat me so bad? I nice man"
But I don't get the vitriol of the post, because--to be Frank, I'd rather be Stuart, thank you--would she really want those men anyhoo??? Men who are into fake stuff are usually pretty fakey themselves and only going for those women so OTHER men look at them and say, Hey, he's got a GREAT woman, HE must be great". | |
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| Real Women vs. Fake women
Posted: 11/20/2007 4:07:33 PM | | You sound very angry......somebody must have hurt you very badly. I am sorry for that...but I don't think it's fair that you put all men into one category. There are wonderful, sweet, caring, nurturing men out there. If you'd lose that tude, maybe you'd even find one. | |
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| Real Women vs. Fake women
Posted: 11/20/2007 4:51:42 PM | I don't know about the fake women. I see men that like a variety of women. One guy actually seemed like he thought I should put on weight. That was kind of weird.
I think it is creepy when I see the men in their 50's checking out girls that are barely 21. I figure they must be really fooling themselves, don't have their bifocals on when they look in the mirror, and just drink too much to realize how stupid they are acting.
I see men that have sex changes and have no hips. I am jealous that they don't have hips and look better in a skirt, but I wouldn't want to be them.
I see women that have two water balloons that don't lay down when they do, but I wouldn't want to have implants either.
Some women look better with blonde hair, some look better with brown, and so on. Just because I can't color my hair, doesn't mean I think these girls look fake, that is their choice how they wear their hair. Now I can add hair... and yeah, it might look fake, but it is fun for a change.
Plastic surgery, hey if these women want to deal with the pain and have the money, let them go for it! I personally don't like pain, so I won't be getting any. Even the lasar surgery for the eyes scares the heck out of me.
I prefer to see white teeth than stained teeth, so sure, let them bleach their teeth.
I want to rock someone's world and hope that I am attractive enough with what God gave me to do that. Of course I am also going to do the best I can to eat right and exercise to stay healthy too.
If a man isn't into me and into someone that is all about plastic surgery etc. etc., well then that is who he should be with. That is his choice, not my loss. | |
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| Real Women vs. Fake women
Posted: 11/20/2007 5:45:33 PM | I guess the point of this is, women that don't shower need love too???? | |
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| Real Women vs. Fake women
Posted: 11/20/2007 6:15:46 PM | Some women look good with false nails and fake boobs and hair extentions, some just look like old slappers.
But if they feel good about themselves then they are at least happy slappers. | |
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| Real Women vs. Fake women
Posted: 11/20/2007 6:23:47 PM | | until they start making intelligent, stimulating conversation transplants..i think you are safe. | |
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| Real Women vs. Fake women
Posted: 11/20/2007 6:29:29 PM | | You cannot judge a woman's virtue by how much plastic surgery she has had. | |
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Posted: 11/20/2007 6:38:08 PM | | i have a REAL problem with this forum...first of all the op is a hater...in every sense of the word. I have my nails and toes done every couple of weeks, do I do it for a man...nope, i do it because I like it, I go tanning to...I am a natural redhead and if i didnt tan the sun is my worst enemy, again...i dont do that for a man either...no offense fellas, but I also get up at 5am everyday to go run two highly medical group homes, I come home and have manage to raise two great kids, and if I want to spend my money on myself that does not make me fake or a slut( i think that was the word she used) I am not high mantanance, or sleeping with anyone, so OP before you go knocking your sisters...get your fact straight and leave the rude remarks to people who deserve them...like women who bash other women. | |
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| Real Women vs. Fake women
Posted: 11/20/2007 6:38:09 PM |
I guess the point of this is, women that don't shower need love too????
I am sure that is funny somehow. But seems like the women that are really vain, the ones that color their hair, plastic surgery, etc. etc. seem to shower and bathe more than most, or maybe that was just the girls I knew that were totally vain.
I really think that every man is different and attracted to different things and a woman that gets tons of cosmetic enhancements doesn't seem to have a better love life than a woman that doesn't.
I think lack of grooming is a different thread. | |
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| Real Women vs. Fake women
Posted: 11/20/2007 6:48:51 PM | | Wow! What is a fake woman. These threads are loaded with alterior motive! What a trivial thread to post! There is no such thing as fake people, people are just people! So you are angry and do not respect women with "unnatural enhancement", well might I suggest then that you do not date any of them!!!! | |
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| Real Women vs. Fake women
Posted: 11/20/2007 8:20:51 PM | Wow - talk about stereotyping! OP you are in the same category as the girls you proclaim to be sluts.
Once again, judging someone purely on their looks without taking the time to understand them as a person.
Heather Locklear? Darling, but she has lots of 'help' with her looks.
Jessica Alba? Beautiful, but the camera angles help.
Pamela Anderson? An attention whore and probably your ultimate example. But also a mom with Hepatitis trying to get through life.
The more you hate, the less attractive you are. Don't worry about what others do. | |
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