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 miss_contemplative

Joined: 3/12/2008
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How Many Seek Love Over Sex?
Posted: 9/20/2009 8:41:51 PM
I'm actually just sticking around to hear everyone else's drama. It's enough to keep me single for a long , long time LOL!

When it comes to sex vs. love?

Hmmm...I believe in sex.

Not so much in love. I doubt I'm that lovable.
 WanderingRonin

Joined: 3/9/2008
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Posted: 9/21/2009 1:02:52 AM
Feh. At this point, I'll take one or the other.
Most likely the other since I am not really good at loving people. I have grown uncaring these past few months. We'll see if I can turn it around...
 w3bb3r

Joined: 9/11/2009
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Posted: 9/21/2009 1:09:00 AM
Well, I seek both. If someone can enjoy two flavors of ice cream in one cup, it would be one nice dessert.
 TedJMill

Joined: 7/6/2005
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Posted: 9/21/2009 8:30:10 AM
I want love, affection, companionship without sex.
 Ependa

Joined: 7/16/2009
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Posted: 9/21/2009 8:33:47 AM
nope..I'd rather just have sex at this point, especially after some recent interactions. However, unfortunately I'm not wired that way. I need something more. I don't buy into the whole growing old bs..but I do think just taking every single day and being grateful for every single day is a great start. And you're right..sexual compatability is a very import factor and should not be overlooked.
 scottdehart

Joined: 6/5/2009
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Posted: 9/21/2009 9:34:04 AM
I'd prefer Love first, if that's there then the other will follow.




And be incredible!!!
 Hearttune

Joined: 4/28/2008
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How Many Seek Love Over Sex?
Posted: 9/21/2009 10:37:39 AM
God comes first for me. Human relationships are secondary. It keeps things in perspective, like getting carried away by such silly questions as this.
 *buzz*

Joined: 6/1/2006
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Posted: 9/22/2009 1:44:14 PM
Ahhh ... not taking shortcuts in this delicate department

P.S
Nurture ~ relish ~ cherish
 *Just Jim*

Joined: 7/6/2007
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Posted: 9/22/2009 3:12:25 PM
buzz said,
P.S
Nurture ~ relish ~ cherish


This is the perfect trifecta of being in love,living in love,sexually in love!!!!!!!


And just wondering how's the weather in England in the Autumn, cuz it seems quite warm to me?
 Belle Lass

Joined: 8/27/2009
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Posted: 9/22/2009 4:39:47 PM

I want the love... I truly want some good honest love, don't get me wrong sex is great but if theres no love then I don't want it.

Always has been my criteria.

I vote for Deep Love and Steamy, smoking hot sex at the same time.

I will take some of this for dessert, though!
 verityone

Joined: 10/23/2008
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Posted: 9/22/2009 4:58:08 PM
One relationship my gal was not interested in sex except maybe once ever 6-8 months! -

Note to self: Morehead, Kentucky has got some dead fish...

Next I had a relationship in which my girlfriend wanted it MUCH MUCH more than me, and it got frustrating sometimes. I remember doing serious important things and her mind was on love making.........could of gone all day and night 24/7.

Note to self: Morehead, Kentucky might not be so bad after all....
 IgorFrankensteen

Joined: 6/29/2009
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Posted: 9/22/2009 5:25:51 PM
I'm currently looking for both, but if it takes as long as it seems it might, I'm likely to reach the age where only the love is possible.
Yes, the description you have given is a sign that you're getting to be a big boy now, maturity-wise. I suspect that more guys than don't, ACTUALLY feel exactly the same, and for a longer part of their life than they realize. We are encouraged NOT to admit this, to ourselves or others, hence the mostly-joking accusations that you aren't a real man. It's actually a SECRET part of why men don't marry the girls who sleep around a lot: it's not that we don't feel that we can trust them, it's that we don't think they sleep with us because of who WE are.
SHHSHHHH!!!! Don't tell the girls. We want them to keep thinking it's all because we're lascivious, randy, manly, carefree jerks. That way, we have an easy excuse when we screw up other stuff.
 wild1-1

Joined: 9/5/2009
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Posted: 9/22/2009 8:29:21 PM
I am looking for love and LOTS of sex!

If you are looking for a long term relationship, make sure your partner thinks the same as you or else somewhere along the line she will either dump you or cheat on you.
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