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| My life will never be the same....I experienced my first failure to launch.
Posted: 11/21/2007 8:46:38 PM | Been talking to alot of my friends about this and it seems it happens to them all the time. Some started along time ago as far back in in thier late twenties, So i guess when i look at it that way experiencing my first on the wrong side of 40 is nothing to go bridge jumping about.
But it is rather scary the first time something like that happens to you. I am sure most guys go through the same thing i am the first time it happened. | |
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| My life will never be the same....I experienced my first failure to launch.
Posted: 11/22/2007 1:19:04 AM |
I think i might just give up on sex all together, If i can no longer depend on the "hammer" then all is lost.
Yes! Definitely! Give it up completely! If you reach a point when you think you need glasses, pluck your eyes out. If you begin to lose your strength, just kill yourself. Great ideas! | |
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| My life is now officially over....I experienced my first failure to launch.
Posted: 11/22/2007 8:26:03 AM | """So nice to know my pain can bring a smile to your face Discofied, I will go back to crying in my pillow now.""
Dr. Jekyll, Depression can be the cause of a lot of Forum Posts on POF. Have you been able to get any kind of erection in the last few days? Seriously, dont let these whiney forum members prevent you from getting "the vaccine". Thats all it takes now adays, one little shot, and you will be good to go for up 48 hours straight (no pun intended), so you will always be ready if the mood strikes.
Could the problem be what your GF looked like? Maybe you need a young flemish lobototomist to fluff you with some non-antibiotic silicon lubricant. Can you get an erection if someone is filming you, or you are alone and filming yourself? That often helps. Good Luck, and HAPPY TURKEY DAY....GOBBLE...GOBBLE | |
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| My life will never be the same....I experienced my first failure to launch.
Posted: 11/23/2007 7:49:07 PM | Dr. Jekyll,
Please go see a physician. As many others have posted, it could be the signs of something else going on with your body. Not just cardiovascular issues, but diabetes as well. So, the most important thing to remember here is, if the rest of you is not in good health neither will he be. And really what good is a hard if you are falling apart in other areas? | |
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| My life will never be the same....I experienced my first failure to launch.
Posted: 11/23/2007 10:31:15 PM | | Jeeze ...it only happened once. Give yourself a break. If you keep hammering on yourself it is going to become a self fulfilling prophecy. It is not that big a deal. If a man couldn't get it up when he was with me I would be thinking there must be something wrong with me. The focus is not just completely on you. | |
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| My life will never be the same....I experienced my first failure to launch.
Posted: 12/1/2007 6:49:39 AM | "Jeeze...It only happened once. Give yourself a break. If you keep hammering on yourself it is going to become a self fulfilling prophecy. It is not that big a deal. If a man couldn;t get it up when he was with me i would be thinking there must be something wrong with me. The focus is not just completely on you"
Well that nice of you to say, but i doubt if the woman is at fault in anyway in those kind of situations. | |
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| My life will never be the same....I experienced my first failure to launch.
Posted: 12/2/2007 1:22:43 PM | No. You life will never be the same. Yesterday is gone.
Our bodies change as time passes. That is just the way things are. And you are not alone, for if you were then things like Viagra wouldn't be prescribed as often as it is.
Sometimes, not always, but sometimes, the woman you are with just isn't "there" for you. Other times, alcohol, stress, depression, illness, and a host of other things can interfere.
Talk to the lady. Talk to your doctor. these are the ONLY two who can help you resolve this.
We on this forum can only offer our advice or opinion. And it may or may not help all that much.
Your woman. You doctor. Period.
IMO.... | |
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| My life will never be the same....I experienced my first failure to launch.
Posted: 12/2/2007 5:32:59 PM | I thought it was about another "problem" ......about launching the load or completing the act. My problem is that sometimes I take too long or simply can't cum, women don't seem to like that. It wouldn't bother me if it didn't bother them.
If you can't get an erection, if it happens often get checked for heart disease, clogged arteries, or diabetes. It could save your life. Impotence is often the first symptom. | |
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| My life will never be the same....I experienced my first failure to launch.
Posted: 1/7/2008 6:33:18 AM | And this is the reason why I love being a woman.... Sorry OP... I can imagine the shock of not being able to reason with the "buddy"...
Here is the thing...
Are you aroused at this moment and the "all mighty' refused to co-operate...
Funny isnt it... usually "all mighty always used to jump the gun, and now when in need he gives up... maybe he is just a deep sleeper and needs some serious shake and choke to wake up... maybe even some intense rub-a-tug... its all in the challenge... depends on the detemination of a woman...
Perhaps your shock, and this "feeling" of being deserted put him to coma before the guy had a chance to recover....
AGAIN... love being a woman.... | |
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| My life will never be the same....I experienced my first failure to launch.
Posted: 1/7/2008 6:47:59 AM | | Hey buddy, chin up. I'm quite surprised no one has flagged this post for deletion based on it being a self-pity thread. The woe is me attitude doesn't bode well for future encounters where you may attempt to get it up effectively my friend. Hold your head high and maybe look deeper into the problem for a solution. If you've gone this long without a failure to launch then its certainly safe to assume things have worked fine up until this point if you are getting this bent out of shape over it, right? Erectile dysfunction can be caused by about a 1000 different things, from your diet and lack of sleep to about 850 different pills (some very common and over the counter type stuff) to stress in one's life. Maybe you were worrying about getting it up and THAT caused the inaction?! LOL Who really knows! I think the only way you are going to fix it is if you just get back up on the horse and keep trying. You are just over 40 now I'm guessing.....do you really want to be celibate for teh next 30+ years?! And lets face it sex with the self is no where near as fulfilling as with another woman, or man if that's your gig. And a few women have pointed out a very big point here for you to remember, that when this sort of thing happens the woman usually takes it much harder than you will. Granted there are some really shallow, self-centered people out there that may ask you what the hell is wrong with you bc they are SO hot. These people you shouldn't even worry about. With an attitude like such they don't deserve the stiff arm of the law from a good guy anyway until they check it at the door. | |
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