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| Do guys like single moms?
Posted: 7/12/2009 2:18:33 AM | | i met this girl off this site...and i fell in love with her...and she had two kids...we got each other name tatted ...i treated her kids like my own...but she cheated....anyways jus wanna let u know that there is a guy out there that will love u and ur child...like his own...its up to you to keep him | |
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bia1
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Joined: 6/30/2009
Msg: 974 | |
| Do guys like single moms?
Posted: 7/12/2009 2:17:33 PM | | I find it extreamly funny that you jacob808, and many others like you seem to think that single moms, like myself are looking for a free meal ticket. And you have no idea how very wrong you are. Yes granted the occasional single mother is looking for a free ride, but the majourity of us have done it on our own for the majourity of the childs life, and even with a man will continue to do it on our own. And last I checked is it not usually the women who cooks and does all the other house work on top of working a full time job? We are the ones who make sure your fed every night, make sure you are comfortable, make sure you are fed and hey STILL TAKE CARE OF THE KIDS! I think it is completly disgusting that you can catagorize single mothers as these leechy, money hungry good for nothings. We do NOT look for a free meal, we are looking for someone who loves us, wants to be with us, can make us laugh, can hold us when we need to be held to emotionally sapourt us, just like you and every other person out there, and just because we have a child why dont we deserve that? My son is 13 months old and I have done a damn good job taking care of him. I am not looking for another father he has one of those, I am not looking for someone to pay my bills, put a roof over my head or fill my stomach. I DO THAT! I went back to work my son was 3 months old in order to do that and yes you have the NERVE to catagorize me, and other women like me? How dare you! | |
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Keldor
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Joined: 6/28/2009
Msg: 975 | |
| Do guys like single moms?
Posted: 7/12/2009 2:53:31 PM | Hi there,
Too be honest it can be a put off because where i live UK there are so many young girls that all they do is have a kid to get on benefits and a free place to live and never have to work again, but i think it depends of the person as well, i may be hesitant at first but if we get along and click then it doesnt bother me, but i do not want to raise someone elses child because they just got pregnant for an easy life and broke up. | |
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| Do guys like single moms?
Posted: 7/12/2009 4:22:42 PM | Sorry to hear about ur fella leaving u this way it must have been so hard to take 4 u? I think it really depends on what the guy is looking for, becoz sometimes guys don't mind single moms who have a child as long as they like each other thats the main thing i think.
But then on the other hand guys to get put off when a lass they like has a toddler, suddenly they think too much responsbility i duno i could be wrong.
Your nice looking i don't see why you should have a problem in finda a fella that likes you for what you are and got.
What kinda guy you looking for? Whos your type? | |
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| Do guys like single moms?
Posted: 7/12/2009 8:00:09 PM | | Not all guys are afraid of single moms. I would they are afraid of a single mom that want's someone to just help take care of their child because the father was not man enough to be a real dad. I know where you are coming from I am a single dad with a 3 year old and a 8 month old, and I'm the one that takes care of them. Try those boots on :) | |
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| Do guys like single moms?
Posted: 7/31/2009 4:26:38 AM | i personally have found single moms are often a good catch.
reasoning for this is it often forces a girl to grow up and realise the priorities in life. u can often meet a 19yr old single mother who outstrips a 30yr old singleton :p
the benefit of this is u dont get as many games. they more often know what they do and dont want, and have no time to muck about.
yes to be honest it is harder dating a single mother, but i think the benefits outweigh anything else | |
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| Do guys like single moms?
Posted: 7/31/2009 7:15:42 AM | | as a 44 y.o. single guy; here's my take: when i was young and interested in chasing women around, i would have been a terrible dad. now that i'm older, and have my life in order; i regret never having kids. i was a good stepdad for a few years; but the two girls' father was destuctive. it was very difficult when they would spend a weekend at thier dad's, and come home sunday saying "our dad says we don't have to do what you tell us." when i was paying half the bills, i tended to dissagree! now i think i would welcome kids; as most women my age have them. my only wish is that thier bio. father is in prison or dead, so that he couldn't interfere and impose his will. so, YES guys like single moms. | |
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| Do guys like single moms?
Posted: 7/31/2009 11:15:11 PM | | if love snd only pure love is in the equation then nothing should stop anything. | |
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| Do guys like single moms?
Posted: 8/1/2009 12:17:31 PM | I know from a past experience if you really like a woman it wont matter if she has kids.
Up until a couple years ago I didn't want to get involved with a single mom. I didn't want the time we spent to have to be worked around her kid(s) and I thought if I really liked her it would bother me that I wasn't the father. But a couple years ago I reconnected with a girl who I had a crush on in highschool and never really got over her and realized they come with the package. I ended up falling in love with her 4 year old daughter too and would have been honored to be her step-dad.
Unfortunately things didn't work out and we never did date and are no longer friends as of a couple weeks ago by her choice but I know now that kids come with the package sometimes and there's nothing wrong with dating a single mom if you really like her. | |
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| Do guys like single moms?
Posted: 8/1/2009 12:38:41 PM | hey!!
No not every guy likes a single mum because some think ur just after them for there money and ive found that with a lot of men.
i becaame a single mum at just turned 16 and had jerks ever since until i met my fella now!! and he's amazing and he doesn't care im a single mum!!
There is some guys out there just don't give up hope just yet xxx | |
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| Do guys like single moms?
Posted: 8/1/2009 12:39:56 PM |
the benefit of this is u dont get as many games. they more often know what they do and dont want, and have no time to muck about.
I wish that was the case with mine. She had no clue what she wanted and strung me along. I know that the majority of single moms know what they want but if I ever get in a situation like that again I'm walking away. It's not worth the stress and potential heartbreak if she chooses to not date you. | |
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| Do guys like single moms?
Posted: 8/1/2009 1:27:52 PM | | im a single mom of four boys my ex decided he didnt want more kids so he met someone eles on the internet and god it hurt i hate being on my own and i dont know weather guys think if i say nice things she will talk to me or they want something eles is there any real men out there i dont know i just know its not fun im loved by my children but i want some one to love me who know hun | |
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| Do guys like single moms?
Posted: 8/2/2009 4:48:53 AM | Great!! Many of best mates are unmarried mothers, and I passionately enjoy spending time with their children..
However,....
Quality Relationship Demands Quality Time, and with 3,4,5+ children is unlikely to be feasible...
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| Do guys like single moms?
Posted: 8/2/2009 3:27:11 PM | | It does change things. It is a different world dating and having children period. Some men will mind and some some wont. All ages have there own issues. I have a teen girl (17) who has plain old just not liked someone I was dating. She is just grouchy in a lot of areas right now and is not a help in the dating world for me. She is getting better now (thankfully!) I also have a 7 year old son that I just don't expose to my dating, unless it got to a point where I knew I was going to really date someone for awhile. | |
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| Do guys like single moms?
Posted: 8/3/2009 10:05:03 AM | | I have always liked single moms... if you like the girl than you have to accepted the whole package... I do not base how I feel about some one on if they have children or not...now as a single dad I like the fact that if a girl has childern then she understands that I am also a package deal... | |
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