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 anicegirl34

Joined: 10/19/2005
Msg: 51
dating at work
Posted: 11/10/2005 2:32:22 AM
I wouldn't - I've had the opportunity, but it just isn't kosher...the fact is that if it ends badly, you still have to work with that person everyday, which would not be comfortable....and even if it is good, you are open for office gossip, and everyone would be watching your every move....all in all...not a good idea!
 sexxievie

Joined: 5/29/2005
Msg: 52
dating at work
Posted: 11/10/2005 4:53:34 AM
No, never done it, and I dont plan to ever do it either. I just think it is not appropriate, I don't mix business with pleasure, and besides I want to keep my private life, "PRIVATE"
 johnglc

Joined: 5/27/2005
Msg: 53
dating at work
Posted: 11/10/2005 5:12:03 PM
i did and we ended up living together for three years.I WOULDN'T DO IT AGAIN.Too many headaches!!!!!!!!!!
 sonoranstud

Joined: 7/24/2005
Msg: 54
dating at work
Posted: 11/11/2005 1:10:46 AM
i dated someone that i was working with side by side everyday.it worked out fine from our standpoint.but our other coworkers were jealous of it and always were sticking their noses where they did not need to be.it ended after about 4-5 months.i lost respect for the people i worked with who stuck thier noses in my business.soon after our relationship ended i left that job and started my own business.f***
the corporate world.

i am like alot of others in the fact that most of women i meet are at work and yes i would do it again and handle the politics of it alot better.
 rainbow_fish

Joined: 8/2/2005
Msg: 55
dating at work
Posted: 11/11/2005 12:23:37 PM
dating at work..... danger danger danger !!!!!!!
 mikedanger

Joined: 4/13/2005
Msg: 56
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dating at work
Posted: 1/27/2006 4:57:17 AM
i dated 2 of my employees simultaneously, an' they were cool w/ it, but after we broke up, each quit, an' i lost 2 really good salespeople!
 Angel without Halo

Joined: 10/22/2005
Msg: 57
dating at work
Posted: 1/27/2006 8:15:57 AM
I know that I've responded to a similar thread but here goes. Based on my years working in Human Resources, I've had to deal with the fall out of people who have dated/messed around at work. It is not a particularly easy mess to clean up and I have seen people's careers come to a halt, where they're only option was to resign. It really does not reflect well on either party. I've said it before but I will say it again, do not fish off the company pier.

A.
 sportsman96

Joined: 9/9/2005
Msg: 58
dating at work
Posted: 1/27/2006 8:23:49 AM
If there is one place I'd stay away for dating, it would be workplace...... business and romance dont mix for me.

 mikedanger

Joined: 4/13/2005
Msg: 59
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Posted: 1/27/2006 8:30:16 AM
angel, sporty: an' i KNOW that, but as i've said elsewhere, "the only thing i can't resist is temptation" - o. wilde it just got the better o' me....
 Angel without Halo

Joined: 10/22/2005
Msg: 60
dating at work
Posted: 1/27/2006 8:51:22 AM
^^^^^^^^^That's it, no more fishing poles for you

A.
 mikedanger

Joined: 4/13/2005
Msg: 61
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dating at work
Posted: 1/27/2006 9:05:38 AM
aww, ma! but wally an' eddie got theirs....!
 Moving in Stereo

Joined: 11/20/2005
Msg: 62
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dating at work
Posted: 1/27/2006 2:25:37 PM

Have you or do you do it ?


Have not done it since I was a teen. Where I work now, 90+% of the employees are guys, and of the other 10%, most are married middle-aged women. Not really any opportunities even if I wanted to date at work, and I don't!

I have seen several situations end VERY badly, and there have been 3 or 4 sexual harassment cases that I'm aware of.

So at work, it's strictly business...
 mw6

Joined: 10/22/2005
Msg: 63
dating at work
Posted: 1/27/2006 8:03:43 PM
DANGER WILL ROBINSON, DANGER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

...Unless you really like having your life turned upside down and EVERYONE you work with know about it, whether you want them to or not.
 i_am_a_hot_man

Joined: 1/14/2006
Msg: 64
dating at work
Posted: 1/27/2006 8:27:09 PM
I would never date someone at work..period!
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