| Proving you're single???
Posted: 11/23/2007 4:54:19 AM | If someone needs "proof" then I'd be inclined to steer well clear of them as theres a very good chance they have some serious issues they havent worked through yet a while
Alternatively, if they were a real hotty they could share my bed for a week and see if any partners or wives ask them what they think theyre doing there
That'd work too
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| Proving you're single???
Posted: 11/23/2007 9:09:46 AM | I contacted a guy, and we were really hitting it off, he lives far away, heavy email and phone calls,
I wanted to be sure he was for real, because lets face it there are many married
people on here looking for well you know,
anyways before I would continue on with our online dating
I asked to speak to someone from his family....mother .....sister
and his mom called me and I talked to her for quite a while.
Thats how I did it.....may seem strange....but it worked for me | |
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| Proving you're single???
Posted: 11/23/2007 9:18:03 AM | Why bother with her? Shrug. One reason to not sign up for customer cars.
I'd not worry about it, this is your only possible date ? IF yes then worry more about yourself than her, otherwise take a different girl to date. | |
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| Proving you're single???
Posted: 11/23/2007 9:18:23 AM | Lol that's funny. Tell her you'll provide her proof as soon as you get her pyschiatrist's report. :)
I had someone accuse me of that before just because I'm quite slow to introduce any potential partner to my kids. Oh well. | |
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| Proving you're single???
Posted: 11/23/2007 10:14:47 AM | ha, yeah I had thought of something like that. I think it would be appropriate.
I'm just curious as to where she got this idea from, or maybe it is just the voices in her head? lol | |
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| Proving you're single???
Posted: 11/23/2007 11:29:27 AM | | she was probably just saying that...as her way of "good bye". maybe she just wasn't interested anymore. | |
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| Proving you're single???
Posted: 11/23/2007 7:40:11 PM | | Dude its voices in her head, there are 3 billion women on the planet, 1/3,000,000,000 just yell "NEXT" or now serving number 53. | |
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| Proving you're single???
Posted: 11/23/2007 7:51:15 PM | Perhaps she talks with numerous men and has you confused with one
of those she talks to.
I had that happen to me tonight. He had me confused with someone
he chats with from this site. Made me laugh, but hey, it was interesting.
He has now been deleted.  | |
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| Proving you're single???
Posted: 11/23/2007 8:04:10 PM | | She's been burned, probably more than once, in the past and you would likely be explaining yourself to her for no good reasons if you continue with her. Trust issues. | |
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| Proving you're single???
Posted: 11/23/2007 8:47:43 PM | | If you're feeling the need to defend your "singleness" to someone before you even really know each other, what's it going to be like further on down the road? What happens when the "are you cheating on me" comes out of her? I'm doubting you could get a "proof card" for that lol | |
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| Proving you're single???
Posted: 11/23/2007 10:50:25 PM | "Is there any relatively simple way to prove to someone your marital status? More importantly that you're single? There's a marriage certificate, but no single certificate..."
Time will tell. | |
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| Proving you're single???
Posted: 11/23/2007 11:05:04 PM | Ha, yeah, I bet they'll have a section for it on the new National ID Card.  | |
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| Proving you're single???
Posted: 11/23/2007 11:27:22 PM | | I was talking to a guy for quite a while--He said he was very single--when I got an email from his wife. Apparently, he wasn't as single as told me. How can you be sure of anything a person says online? | |
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| Proving you're single???
Posted: 11/24/2007 4:59:03 AM | | mate the easiest way to prove your single is to take the ring of your finger .. or at the very least cover it with a bandaid .. also .. dont iron your clothes .. and wear your socks for more than one day .. so they get that single pong of them .. works evrytime for me just ask my wife she will tell you ... | |
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| Proving you're single???
Posted: 11/24/2007 5:36:03 AM | you could get a lawyer to draw up a legal decree for you to use for dating... other than that simple way to prove it? nope.
someone could have no records because they married in other countries.
far as her jumping all over you, thats what happens when you have an idiot doing research, they get wrong people with the same name and fly with it.
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| Proving you're single???
Posted: 11/26/2007 2:51:19 PM | | Gosh--how's about from NOW ON no one EVER lie about your single/not single status?? Then we can all enjoy the rainbows and teddy bears without a care in the world. | |
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| Proving you're single???
Posted: 11/26/2007 2:59:50 PM | | I don't see how that could be possible. I guess you could get someone to do a complete search of your life and prove that you're single today, but then you could get married tomorrow. | |
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| Proving you're single???
Posted: 11/26/2007 3:04:22 PM | | for me, that one is EASY. i'd invite her over to my place. once she sees it, she'll know i'm single. women are good like that. | |
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| Proving you're single???
Posted: 11/26/2007 3:22:04 PM | I'll throw in my 8 cents here.. if anyone asked me to prove I'm single, I simply wish them a happy life and move on. One should never have to prove anything, especially online to a total stranger.
Answering your question: Yes, it is very possible to prove your single status. You can go to your local City Hall's records department and about $20 they can issue you a notarized certificate stating you've never been married... in that state. This means you have to go in person to every state's "any city" City Hall and get the same certificate for that state. To avoid doing that, pray that your local City Hall's records department is online to all states' records.
Unless the girl actually does the foot work herself, which means you'll have to give her your full name and social security number, she may call you a liar even if you have your legally documented proof of your status.
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| Proving you're single???
Posted: 11/26/2007 3:32:13 PM | Ditch this one, man.
You're already into trouble.
You don't need paranoia like this in your life (unless you're getting REALLY good sex out of it!) | |
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| Proving you're single???
Posted: 11/27/2007 11:32:28 PM | WHY DONT YOU JUST INVITE HER OVER FOR DINNER AND A DVD....
THAT SHOULD SOLVE IT ....
ITS NOT ROCKET SCIENCE PEOPLE..... | |
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| Proving you're single???
Posted: 11/27/2007 11:49:18 PM | I can appreciate why you are left scratching your head on this one.
While there are any number of statistics about the numbers of married/separated people claiming to be single vary, it still is a significant number. So the prudent person might want to excercise caution about that sort of thing. The came could be said for any other issue, not just marital status. Unfortunately, this does seem to cross over into a genealized perception "I assume this unless you prove othewise" mentality that just comes across as more than a little wary. It can easily become downright defensive. If this is she road she has taken...I can see why you were taken aback.
Still, I don't think that you have to feel the need to "prove" anything to anyone. This is not a court of law, and you do not have to follow the Federal Rules of Evidence. Or any other rules for that matter. If in the course of contact through e-mails, meet-and-greets, etc it becomes clear that there is no connection or issues of non-compatability (for whatever reason) then feel free to move on. This goes both ways.
So you have my sympathy.
Good luck! | |
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