| Am I cursed?
Posted: 11/24/2007 5:01:19 AM | ClearandBright,
Please live up to your logon name! Do not put too much thought into the fact that this "dude" actually has the ability to hex you and prevent you from success.
Apparently you are doing that to yourself because you cannot let go of the BS trip that this "dude" gave you in the past.
You certainly seem to have to ability to make opportunities for yourself, follow through with those opportunites and MAKE them happen for you!  | |
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| Am I cursed?
Posted: 11/24/2007 5:08:31 AM | why don't you get get a book of curses of your own, cancel yours and put one on him? sounds to me in your situation this would work.
If you go to a asian all you can eat buffett, you can get some chickens feet ...... | |
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| Am I cursed?
Posted: 11/24/2007 9:27:10 AM | Check out witchvox dot com for some more information on curses.
They do work, and you don't have to believe in them, that's garbage.
Seriously doubt you really are cursed, but it wouldn't hurt to be sure.
There is a pretty good Pagan forum, can't think of the url right now, do a google search for such things.
Good luck! | |
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| Am I cursed?
Posted: 11/24/2007 2:35:06 PM | >>He found a book on curses and claimed to place one on me, so I would never hurt anyone the way I hurt him. <<
If the "curse" was that you wouldn't hurt anyone the way you hurt him (or, more to the point, the way he feels hurt by you), then so be it. The worst to come of that is that you won't be hurting people. Not such a curse, really more of a blessing.
But, you feel cursed. That's the point. I would suggest you try not to give him so much credit and power. If you could laugh him away, that would be ideal. I believe in karma, what "goes around comes around," the threefold law. So, my favorite curse is "May you get what you so richly deserve."
If you can start thinking and believing that you deserve to meet someone who is truly ready for you and at a place in life to start a relationship, then I think you'll be receptive to those types of people. And hopefully only those!
Best to you! | |
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| Am I cursed?
Posted: 11/24/2007 2:47:34 PM | If you are cursed so are a LOT of other people.
Truth is, that scenario happens often and it just
seems so unfair at the time.
There is no such thing as a perfect person and
those types may appear to change temporarily
but the catch is, it is the honeymoon stage and
they will revert back to their old ways. Be
thankful they left your life. | |
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| Am I cursed?
Posted: 11/24/2007 2:53:01 PM |
If you go to a asian all you can eat buffett, you can get some chickens feet ......
LMAO  | |
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| Am I cursed?
Posted: 11/24/2007 2:59:21 PM | wait , some dude went out and got a book and curses , and put one on you ? and hes 33? hang on i gotta go find a new pair of shorts , im laughing too hard here.....
ohhhh man the people dateing on the internet are really something .... | |
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| Am I cursed?
Posted: 11/24/2007 3:14:04 PM | Today Im going to undo your curse for you..Today and for the rest of your life you are going to feel positive confident and attract into your life the most wonderful luck.. From today you will feel more confident and happy.. Everything that was negative you are going to replace with positive happy thoughts and all outcomes will be successful from now on.. Every time you turn on your computer you are going to feel confident.. because today I have taken your bad cursed and replaced it with feelings of positivity and love..
Have a wonderful life.. its yours. keep happy.
with love Catherine aka star.xxx
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| Am I cursed?
Posted: 11/24/2007 4:21:41 PM | | No, I think you have a gift for helping the down and out recover. If you make a lover out of a patient, you'll have neither in six months. I think like other professional, the naturals are much more gifted, but the same not get too attached to broken wing because (s)he has to fly the coop. Who helps the helper, or who cares for the caregivers, is quite a dilemma for many of them. They can be too good at helping anyone other than themselves. Doctors make the worst patients. Why don't you try letting a man help you, even though you're better at it. Ergo, ego. | |
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| Am I cursed?
Posted: 11/24/2007 5:31:57 PM | | Isn"t that kind of like the plot fothe movie Good Luck Chuck ? | |
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| Am I cursed?
Posted: 11/24/2007 7:39:42 PM | | Lol, wondered that very thing about myself a few times! I'll admit, it does kinda make ya think you might be, from the things ya said, but truth be told, you aren't. You just allowed him to plant doubt there and it prolly made the guys run, and the ones they ended up with were just more confident in themself....guess they picked up on that lil' insecurity thing. | |
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| Am I cursed?
Posted: 11/24/2007 8:05:30 PM | I can answer the curse thing for you.
Magic isn't meant to be used in that manor.
People that "dabble" and do so for selfish or malignant
reasons will get what they put out...threefold.
Besides which, it takes significant skill to put a curse on someone.
Not something that you can do by just picking up a book one day.
Don't worry about being cursed.....you aren't.
It sounds to me like that guy suffered from low self-esteem.
Do not give up, you aren't cursed in any sense of the word.
I suggest changing up your routine if you are not meeting people.
Go to new places, converse with new people.
Swim in new ponds as it were.
It is cliche, but it will happen when you least expect...and when you stop focusing so hard.
I wish you the best. | |
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| Am I cursed?
Posted: 11/24/2007 8:15:00 PM | That is how curses work. The person who curses the other plants the seed in their subconcious then they take it from there. The more naive, innocent, ignorant, impressionable the person is the more easily it works. By the way.. sounds like he was a seriously scary person. At 33 he was going for an 18 year old BECAUSE you were innocent and naive. He was a predator. You need to watch the video called "the Secret." You are seeking this out to punish yourself on his behalf because you believed his BS about the curse (yeah riiiiiight! I just put a curse on everyone reading this.. you must send me all your money and jewels or you'll only meet people who make fun of your belly button for the rest of your dating lives! ...pretty silly huh?)
You are creating this pattern because you believed a monster who manipulated you. Human beings have a really strong drive to create and recognize patterns. Fear is also a very strong motivator. Narcissists and abusers often seek out much younger partners (male or female) and pressure them into a relationship (especially one that is quickly intimate). They use many tactics to punish. This guy sounds like a REAL luzer. You should be glad you got away before he really hurt you.. now quit doing the job for him.. | |
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| Am I cursed?
Posted: 11/24/2007 8:47:53 PM | | LOL. I'll trade you Selena! I have a Tom curse! | |
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| Am I cursed?
Posted: 11/24/2007 9:23:44 PM | When I was 18, my (later to become) ex-wife placed a "Curse" on me with the help of her friends, wishing me to burn in hell. A few months later, I was driving 75mph and had a blowout. By the time I got stopped my tire was smoking. I chose to crawl along the shoulder to the next exit, and the tire caught fire. I managed to escape with my stuff but the car was completely written off. I had just paid it off, too, and the junkyard gave me all of $25 for it while the counter guy sold its rear axle for $200. I was livid.
And my dumb ass ended up marrying her a few years later.
Is it any wonder it lasted a few months and earned me my first divorce? | |
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| Am I cursed?
Posted: 11/24/2007 10:16:53 PM | There are no such thing as curses - the only way they work is if we believe in them (even if we subconsciously do) - when we do - we seem to get into patterns, or do things to 'set ourselves up'.
Besides - there is a belief that if someone curses you - can really curse you - then the will get it back threefold. | |
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| Am I cursed?
Posted: 11/24/2007 10:41:03 PM | Read the book "The Secret"... It will change your thinking patterns. Every thought you project is an 'energy'. The book tells you how to put your thought energy to achieve only good things your way. At the moment you're only thinking about what you have experienced so far with the men you've had in your life... and thus you keep attracting the same kind.
As such: In a way You actually are cursed because of the negative energy and thought patterns you are projecting. Get the book OP, it's written in inspirational paragraph form and is very enlightening. | |
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| Am I cursed?
Posted: 11/24/2007 11:24:08 PM | When I was 18, my (later to become) ex-wife placed a "Curse" on me with the help of her friends, wishing me to burn in hell. A few months later, I was driving 75mph and had a blowout. By the time I got stopped my tire was smoking. I chose to crawl along the shoulder to the next exit, and the tire caught fire. I managed to escape with my stuff but the car was completely written off. I had just paid it off, too, and the junkyard gave me all of $25 for it while the counter guy sold its rear axle for $200. I was livid.
And my dumb ass ended up marrying her a few years later.
Is it any wonder it lasted a few months and earned me my first divorce?
It makes me laugh when people call Metaphysics the secret.. But That is exactly what the secret is... Metaphysics. There is more to this than the law of attraction.. but the fellow poster is correct...
Trust me stove top The Law of Attraction states that we attract into our lives, that which we focus our thoughts upon. If your thoughts are constantly on positive outcomes and good results, then that is what we will manifest. If, on the other hand, your predominant thoughts are on negative outcomes and poor results, then that is what you will attract. This is based on the fact that the Universe is simply vibrational energy in motion. Emotions, thoughts, feelings and objects – absolutely everything has a vibrational frequency. Since like attracts like, it is only logical that the vibrational frequency of your predominant thoughts will attract results that have a similar vibrational frequency. We know that emotions that are love-based (love, desire, happiness, wonder, joy etc.) have a very high vibrational frequency, whereas emotions that are fear-based (anger, hatred, intolerance, fear, sadness etc.) vibrate at a very low frequency.
Everyone that feels he/she is cursed.. I have reversed your curses today by sending you all healing energy and love... Everything from today is going to bring you happiness and love.. Now concentrate upon that.. and this will work for you .. Think positive thoughts, turn every negative thought into its opposite.. There are good reasons for everything.. even the worst things that happen have a universal reason.. We must go through darkness to realise what is light.. From today everyone will feel the spark within them be ignited by my words .. they will go about there day with thoughts of the beauty that they hold within, and they will shine that light to all they see.. Watch your life change before you when you realise the beauty of you...
Keep shining, keep smiling. You have love. I just sent you some..
Catherine aka star.xxx | |
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| Am I cursed?
Posted: 11/25/2007 12:15:01 AM | | ^^^ Thanks for relating that better that I could Catherine. I have witnessed some of the benefits of this "Secret" in my own life since reading the book and viewing the video. | |
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| Am I cursed?
Posted: 11/25/2007 12:37:09 AM | lol the logic in me says no way. but if I had to guess id say damn right - half the time. | |
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| Am I cursed?
Posted: 11/25/2007 12:40:23 AM | | I think also biblically curses are caused by your own actions. ie this is bad thats bad thats very bad etc. | |
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| Am I cursed?
Posted: 11/25/2007 12:49:29 AM | | I am skeptical of every believe sytem that states if you dont have enough faith or belief it wont come true ie: the secret, the faith healers, the phyhics, the medium that blame you if you cant see that blame you when their powers fail that only help when youre on the bottom and the one chioce is left ,you can only get back up. If you dont believe dont expect anything to come true. I like the secret till the point of seing the battered wife still getting battered and not figuring out how to attract the gentleness in the fist smashing her face instead of leaving. | |
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| Am I cursed?
Posted: 11/25/2007 1:06:51 AM | No faith should ever state that any person should remain in a violent relationship. The answer IS to get out.. There is no other solution.. Healing of the self is to remove yourself from a place of pain.. Then to work upon the self to overcome the traumas of the past.. to believe in a better future without the repetition which many that have been through such trauma end to recreate in there lives through the concentration on the negative.. Nobody deserves to be beaten by anybody, man or woman. But healing must come before moving on so that you understand this concept.. So that the concentration on not looking for someone that does this does not bring to you that very type...The law of attraction states that what you concentrate on is what you bring into your life.. Even if you concentrate upon not having that thin in your life... You are concentrating upon it.. I have written this on these forums many times.. but .. If I tell you NOT to think of a cat... What right now are you thinking of?? A healed person finds balance after traumatic experiences and can move from it positively, in the knowledge that there are some really great guys out there, and your going to find one... Rather than.. I'm looking for a man that is not going to hurt me again... Positive thinking brings positive results.. It does work.. Consciously create your world beautifully and it will bring to you all that you wish for...
With respect.. Catherine aka star.xxx | |
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| Am I cursed?
Posted: 11/25/2007 1:08:24 AM | Yaeh Im glad I read your post too Catherine. My daughter was told to give herself positive affirmations. I was feeling a little more understanding towards your point of view. I might add that my daughter works with the public and its her nature to feel free to smile to try and uplift people . I feel also not all the time she has her negative which she shares when shes at home or alone that can be yucky. Your post is in essence like her spirit sharing to others(not a batered wife) .
I just wish they had had less concentration on one persons belief causing the belief to condemn that individual and sorrey if this is mixes up because im sort of reponding to more than one post. Like having a safty net and not knowing its there. | |
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| Am I cursed?
Posted: 11/25/2007 1:48:53 AM | Im not without my past hunni.. Trust me the reason why I went down the path of healing was because I needed it myself. Now I am working towards qualifications and a job in relationship counceling. Those people that hurt/ harm others whether it be physically or emotionally have issues of there own that needs dealing with. No other person is responsible for another mans violence. Healing is about the self.. building your own world back up and pushing the past where it belongs.. turning right around and looking ahead to a bright future with the love that you deserve being returned because you are able to give.. A close heart cannot give love.. and cannot receive love. thats where depression kicks in.. There is always positives to every negative. A person that comes through the pain of domestic violence right out the other side can look back at the strength of there true essence. It all begins with the self. and looking forward positively... Put that brick wall you build to keep love out behind you and throw every negative thought over it... the place that you are now in is full of love and happiness. Keep smiling life is great.. x
sending you love and healing thoughts Catherine aka star. xxx | |
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