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 Realist59

Joined: 8/24/2006
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What three things can you live with or without in a relationship.
Posted: 11/25/2007 10:41:13 PM
Need to have: Emotionally open, intelligent, passionate (for moi only of course)

Take a hike if you're: A procrastinator/can't make a decision, manipulative, arrogant
 CassaGo

Joined: 10/10/2007
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What three things can you live with or without in a relationship.
Posted: 11/26/2007 2:27:39 PM
Live with:
--compassion (not just for me, for everyone/thing)
--integrity
--fairness
I'm all about living an honorable life wihtout judging others (as much as humanly possible, which may not really mean much, huh).

Live without:
--controlling behaviors (passive/aggressive or overt)
--lying
--cheating (I mean like on games or income taxes; don't do it even a little)
 c_deacon

Joined: 3/13/2005
Msg: 28
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What three things can you live with or without in a relationship.
Posted: 11/26/2007 2:39:45 PM
with.......

Looks
brains
wit

without......

stupidity
obesity
dull

Just my opinion........
 drmmergy

Joined: 10/25/2007
Msg: 29
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What three things can you live with or without in a relationship.
Posted: 11/26/2007 3:05:00 PM
I can live with-no lies
no games
no Bird's
 PassionateKiss

Joined: 1/23/2006
Msg: 30
What three things can you live with or without in a relationship.
Posted: 11/26/2007 3:48:55 PM
I can live with love, a sense of humor, and faithfulness.
I refuse to live with cheating, lying, or abuse of any kind.
 blondeinny

Joined: 9/17/2006
Msg: 31
What three things can you live with or without in a relationship.
Posted: 11/26/2007 3:51:11 PM
without- drug or alcohol abuse, ill tempers, dishonesty

with- positive attittude, exceptional kissing, kindness

oh, and if i have to stand on my tiptoes to kiss him....
 egmegalith

Joined: 6/23/2007
Msg: 32
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What three things can you live with or without in a relationship.
Posted: 11/26/2007 3:56:40 PM
I can't live without friendship, honesty and sex

I can live with silly personal quirps, personal imperfections and making me put the toilet seat up.

 Smart-Blonde

Joined: 2/26/2007
Msg: 33
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What three things can you live with or without in a relationship.
Posted: 11/26/2007 6:38:56 PM
^^^^^^ I think you mean toilet seat down.... we don't like to fall in.
 EyeDye

Joined: 6/19/2007
Msg: 34
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What three things can you live with or without in a relationship.
Posted: 11/26/2007 6:42:02 PM
I think you mean toilet seat down.... we don't like to fall in.


Look before you leap.
 BIGHENRY1

Joined: 4/5/2008
Msg: 35
What three things can you live with or without in a relationship.
Posted: 4/27/2008 9:01:04 PM

Would have; Sense of humor, intellect and PASSIONATE about life/his lady!!!


That says it all........at least that is a terrific combination for a fantastic relationship
 Lola and Her Honey

Joined: 11/25/2007
Msg: 36
What three things can you live with or without in a relationship.
Posted: 4/27/2008 10:59:23 PM
For me, a relationship must have love, passion and the desire and intention to have a future together.

I have no tolerance for negativity, cruelty or lack of imagination and creativity.

LH
 Evenor

Joined: 10/1/2007
Msg: 37
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What three things can you live with or without in a relationship.
Posted: 4/28/2008 12:02:55 AM
3 main traits that alot of stuff stems from...

1. Cheater: If she doesn't want to be with me then she should have enough respect for both of us and leave instead of cheating behind my back for some quick fun so she can have a home to go back to until I find out.
2. Controlling/Manipulative: especially when they try to be cunning about it and think they are getting away with it. Also basically trying to force me into what they think I "should" be...
3. Lying: to themselves and me. The truth always catches up eventually no matter how fast or far you run, and will hit you harder the longer you ignore it.
 KfromKali

Joined: 9/23/2007
Msg: 38
What three things can you live with or without in a relationship.
Posted: 4/28/2008 12:11:35 AM
In a relationship...

Must haves -- dealmakers:
1. mutual attraction that keeps growing over time
2. freedom for honest communication without judgment or condemnation
3. Healthy ongoing drive for affection, intimacy and sex

Must not have -- dealbreakers:
1. fear to grow as a person and as a couple
2. lack of self-control when angry or poor impulse control in other critical areas
3. Inability or unwillingness to trust

Good question OP. Thought provoking in a good way
 custis

Joined: 3/16/2005
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What three things can you live with or without in a relationship.
Posted: 4/28/2008 12:34:14 AM
She would have honesty, intelligence and personality.

She would lack selfishness, pettiness and vanity.
 good guy75

Joined: 3/25/2008
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What three things can you live with or without in a relationship.
Posted: 5/8/2008 6:42:03 AM
1 she would have to be kind to everyone.2.love me for who i am.3.shows alot of affection.1.not overbaring.2.have her own life.3trust me. not a drama queen.,
 litefoot77

Joined: 3/14/2008
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What three things can you live with or without in a relationship.
Posted: 5/8/2008 9:25:54 AM
can live with honesty
can live with positive afirmation
can live with a little fun

 kittenshere41

Joined: 4/16/2008
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What three things can you live with or without in a relationship.
Posted: 5/8/2008 10:24:44 AM
traits he would have are as follows.
Romantic...top of list.
kind and respectful to me and everyone else
intelligent

traits that i would not wnat him to have
if he were my perfect mate there would be noting bad about him to want to chagne. but to be my perfect mate he would not have the problms as follows
drugs
bad attitude
heavy set
 ikiera

Joined: 5/4/2008
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What three things can you live with or without in a relationship.
Posted: 5/8/2008 2:25:44 PM
Would love to have in a relationship:

mutual commitment to resolving differences
mutual sexual desires and preferrences
laughter - lots and lots of it

Without...

Negative Assumptions
Unkindness
Lack of communication
 rivereye

Joined: 2/19/2008
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What three things can you live with or without in a relationship.
Posted: 5/8/2008 2:30:27 PM
gotta have :fishing,cooking, a good sense of humor
do without: drama,cheating,abused in a prior relationship
 hot bomshell

Joined: 4/12/2008
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What three things can you live with or without in a relationship.
Posted: 5/8/2008 2:32:34 PM
yes there the things i could live without is
controlling
manipulation
not being able to have my own life and go places
and not having any friends
sorry iv got four things that i could live with out and if i ever had to go down that road again then i;d run as fast as i could to the other side
 Still Lookin

Joined: 3/15/2008
Msg: 46
What three things can you live with or without in a relationship.
Posted: 5/8/2008 2:42:10 PM
Hey "Fun luv"
Must not have: Beer Gut, Bad Breath, Hairy A**

Must Have: Manicure Skills, Fat Wallet, Massage Skills

--WOW ! You must have been hanging out a lot in those
Hillbilly /Redneck establishments a lot Huh ?
Right next to your trailer park ?
 Dani_Flaherty

Joined: 9/29/2007
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What three things can you live with or without in a relationship.
Posted: 5/8/2008 2:55:17 PM
Can't live with outs:
1. Intelligence. The use of abbreviations and emoticons is a big factor that I use in determining this, along with the inclusion of the letter "z" in word(z) that do not call for it.
2. Laughing together as often as possible.
3. The "little things" that make you feel like they see no one else in the world the way the do you.

Can't live withs:
1. See the latter portion of 'Can't live with outs 1".
2. Those who seem to anchor themselves in seriousness.
3. Vegans. Why do they all have to be so angry!?

Regards,

~Dani
 Blk_ArchAngel7

Joined: 12/21/2007
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What three things can you live with or without in a relationship.
Posted: 5/8/2008 3:01:21 PM
I can live without Rudeness, Disrespect, Lies

I can live with, Honesty, Affection, Respect
 dirtydeeds101

Joined: 3/12/2008
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What three things can you live with or without in a relationship.
Posted: 5/8/2008 3:05:24 PM
I can't live without passion, thoughtfullness and an easy-going approach to life.
I can live without leaving the toilet seat up, workaholic, and trying to be a mind-reader.
Peace, love and more love people!!!....................................................
 WeAre1

Joined: 3/18/2008
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What three things can you live with or without in a relationship.
Posted: 5/8/2008 3:13:05 PM
i can live with
joy, truth, love

i can't live with
blame, anger, cruelty
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