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Posted: 11/28/2007 3:21:28 PM | You're a hottie, you'll have no problem finding another guy. As far as healing. Well, I never advocate meaningless sex, but I once heard "the best way to get over a man/woman, it's to get under another one". And it really does work. Allow yourself to rebound for awhile, take all the time you need to search for closure and meaning of it all. Time will do the rest, everything changes, the future sweeps the pain of the past under a rug. Unfortunately, everything happens in real time, you cant just can fast forward to it. But I assure you, one day you'll wake up, and just know the past is the past.
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Posted: 11/30/2007 2:52:40 PM | | You will heal. Take your time. Emtional wounds can take awhile. Be patient with yourself. Surround yourself with loving friends. Take up some hobbies. Everything is going to be alright. I promise you. Be patient. | |
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Posted: 11/30/2007 3:02:23 PM |
when am i going to heal?
Some wounds never heal. You learn to live with them and work around them. You grow from them and become stronger. I was in love a long time ago some 15 years and when it ended it hurt so bad that I though I was going to die. I never knew that emmotions could hurt so bad. Pace yourself, but take chances. You will never find a time table for fixing heart break. Especailly not on the level you have experienced. Concentrate on making the rest of your life what you want it to be and try to stay open to what may come and in time you'll find your a lot better and you wont be able to tell exactly when it happened. Don't get me wrong 15 years later you'll still know you were there but, shrug it will be a life lesson learned.
GL
joe | |
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